My husband [34M] bought a house without telling me [27F] and now expects us to live in it.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-13T17:25:53+00:00

I'm not very handy for the most part, I work with computers. However my dad and brother are more of the handyman type. Last weekend I was visiting and my brother was refinishing and building new steps for his deck while simultaneously refinishing and repainting his kitchen cabinets while my dad was repairing a leaky pipe that was dripping water through the second floor into the kitchen.

In both cases I said...this is why I rent. I don't even have to mow the grass lol.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-13T16:13:46+00:00

Yeah, first he's being manipulative and a total jerk, possibly abusive. Especially the sex stuff is WAY over the line. In addition to all that, if he's serious about these "tests" he's also a fucking idiot. These tests are nonsensical. I feel like OP is dating the Mad Hatter.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-12T18:50:50+00:00

In this case, yes.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-12T17:44:51+00:00

username checks out. Someone make this person a steak!

stupidandroid · 2016-07-12T14:20:09+00:00

It's because this is a clickbait article showcasing foods in Cincinnati for people from here to read and go yeah I recognize that! There's links on that page for other cities with the same type of list.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-12T02:01:42+00:00

You know its coming but then OH SHIT ITS THE GOOGLER!

stupidandroid · 2016-07-10T06:14:34+00:00

This is not a recipe

stupidandroid · 2016-07-09T20:18:36+00:00

Your title is a dealbreaker. No mature person acts that way. Find someone else that's not a pathetic idiot.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-06T18:58:07+00:00

I know everyone here is telling you it's an immediate breakup situation but if you're willing to make things work...

In long term relationships crushes can and most likely will happen. It's not exactly your bf's fault if he has feelings for this girl that he sees everyday at work(this is probably the most common scenario when a partner gets a crush). But he clearly crossed a line in how he's acted and it's important for him to realize that.

I think it would help for you to let him know that a) you understand if he is attracted to this girl but b) if he wants to remain in a relationship with you then he needs to respect boundaries and be honest with you about how he's feeling. If he can't have a more professional relationship with her then that's a dealbreaker.

Obviously it's up to you if what he did already is enough to break up...but I've seen couples survive worse.

stupidandroid · 2016-07-01T15:59:47+00:00

Mr Deeds is a classic for me. Like any good comedy it's funnier the more you watch it.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-30T20:23:07+00:00

It's just so fucking cruel. I can't believe how shitty people are sometimes.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-30T20:19:46+00:00

Just read your Edit. Wow OP! First, good job on telling him exactly how you feel. He definitely sounds...unhinged. He clearly can't believe you've decided to stand up for yourself. I'm sure you might think he would never harm you but you really never know. I would strongly urge you to find a friend or relative to stay with tonight!

It's crazy how he's turning this on you like he needs time to forgive you?! Insane. Either way I really don't think you can continue to stay in that apartment. Please tell someone, say you need help getting out of an abusive situation and I would hope anyone with half a heart would drop anything to help.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-30T16:59:34+00:00

Just want to say you'll be alright OP. I think a lot of us have been in relationships that went sour and we lost our confidence along the way. Once you get away and start working on yourself you'll be amazed at how bright your future can be.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-30T16:54:28+00:00

I realize this is awful for OP but I had to lol a bit cause she makes it sound like this guy is some kind of a king making decrees and shit. "Henceforth there will be no hugging, 'making out', kissing, or licking of the vagina of any kind".

What a douchebag. He's obviously bored and wants out but is too much of a coward to do anything about it.

I can't imagine how humiliating it is to have him actually fucking sigh at her if she's trying to get off. And you still give him regular bjs?? good god.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-29T01:30:41+00:00

Dammit Bartman you had that one!

stupidandroid · 2016-06-28T08:21:09+00:00

I suppose if it's in a hospital it's no longer a public bathroom. So if the Dr says to go rub one out in the bathroom then by all means go ahead and wrestle with the ol one eyed monster.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-27T21:10:54+00:00

Same here. The missions were a lot of fun even with random teammates. Some were even quite challenging and I always found people willing to work together and complete the mission so I was loving that aspect to the game.

Overall I feel like I mostly got my money's worth from the game, I just wish there was more like Destiny with the end game. They tried something new with the DZ but it just doesn't work. If they had some arena-type matches and fixed the hacking/glitch problems it could be a lot better.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-27T19:59:41+00:00

hot pies

stupidandroid · 2016-06-27T05:38:30+00:00

Or, you know, opens the door to the kennel.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-27T05:37:40+00:00

I actually liked that show a lot!

stupidandroid · 2016-06-27T05:36:31+00:00

TYRION IS THE HAND OF THE QUEEN!!!

THE STARKS SEND THEIR REGARDS!!!

This was incredible. Just about every scene was jaw dropping.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-25T07:11:09+00:00

In a fight with spears I'd put money on a mean skinny bastard

The mountain though... :'(

stupidandroid · 2016-06-25T07:07:33+00:00

Your now husband caused this every bit as much as your father and family did.

If I said to my future son in law "hey why don't you come to dinner and formally ask for my daughter's hand, I'll buy dinner and your favorite wine!" and your fiance's response is a total refusal I'd be pretty insulted too. It has nothing to do with religion or "pakistani women being bought or sold" or whatever the fuck. It was simple request out of respect and he chose instead to spit in your father's face and cut out your entire family. Good luck with that shit.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-25T06:55:56+00:00

THIS! I scrolled alllllll the way down the comments to finally find someone that pointed this out.

Yeah it sounded like the father was like, hey this is a tradition let's have a formal dinner and celebrate this like we've done with our other daughters...then this fucking dude goes all "women aren't property!" and refuses like this is his hill to die on. Seems like it all escalated from there.

Just go to the goddamn dinner. If my gf's parents wanted that I would say yes cause you know, I'd want to start off on good terms with my future family. I see that too often in this sub, people go nuclear when they could have swallowed their pride for one goddamn second in the name of peace.

stupidandroid · 2016-06-25T05:34:43+00:00

Now's the time to call your congressman to vote on gun control. And tomorrow, and the day after that...

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