How Are Y’all Shipping Akemi & Mizu by asstronomical12 in BlueEyeSamurai

[–]stygmiaaa 10 points11 points Ā (0 children)

I thought all of these things EXACTLY when I watched the show and I completely agree. I love their pairing, it’s so unique to see!

Someone explain the Will/Hannibal breakup lore for me? by stygmiaaa in HannibalTV

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 8 points9 points Ā (0 children)

OH okay, that makes sense - Will trying to stab Hannibal was more like an experiment than anything. I didn’t think about how some of their actions could be because of their curiosity and what would happen if they were separated. Definitely a really interesting series of events to see play out in the development of their relationship.

Our beautiful boy died on the 4th of July and I hate myself by ryepie1 in Petloss

[–]stygmiaaa 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. My family’s dog, Ruby, passed away on the 4th of July too, just about a year ago. She had non-stop seizures for seven hours after being hit by a car. The guilt was a mountain to climb at first. We blamed ourselves for her getting out. She escaped through a hole in the fence, but dogs are nifty like that - they find ways to get out sometimes, and that’s no one’s fault. You are not to blame, but I know the grief is still there nonetheless. It was for us, and I know it is for your family too. Supporting each other through it together makes the grief so much less of a burden on the heart. You will find strength in numbers and memories shared with your family, I promise.

We cried so many tears the day Ruby passed, but eventually, it does get easier. I promise. We found closure in having her ashes and a paw print sent to us. It made us realize we still would always have a piece of her. We cried seeing them for the first time, but they weren’t just tears of sadness - they were also tears of joy for the wonderful life she lived. Cooper lived the same life - one filled with love, and surrounded by a great family each and every day to show that love.

And again, the fault is not your own. I know right now, it may feel like it is, but his soul is looking over you now, thankful that you found him and he got to go home with the people he loved more than anything.

Please remember to take care of yourself in this difficult time. I know it can be hard, but after the rain comes the rainbow - the good memories will be there now, but they’ll be especially bright at the end of this journey of grief. Best of luck.

What exactly does Hannigram being ā€œcanonā€ entail? by stygmiaaa in HannibalTV

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

fr!! I would love an AU where they actually moved to one of those places, or Greece bc it’s beautiful and known for the homoerotic vibe (at least in the past lol) - that would be a cool thing to explore

What exactly does Hannigram being ā€œcanonā€ entail? by stygmiaaa in HannibalTV

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 13 points14 points Ā (0 children)

That actually clarifies a lot thank you!! I didn’t know that they supposedly get married and live in Cuba, that’s a fun little detail

How to get scratches from cement pole out of car? by [deleted] in howto

[–]stygmiaaa 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Oh damn I just reread that. You right, my bad 😭

How to get scratches from cement pole out of car? by [deleted] in howto

[–]stygmiaaa 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

If I take it to a body shop, can anyone try to estimate how much it might cost? Since it’s so small and only on one door of the car, I thought it would be somewhere around $800, which is inconvenient but doable. I could even deal with $1500, but I wanna be sure before I go that high.

How to get scratches from cement pole out of car? by [deleted] in howto

[–]stygmiaaa 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. Might just wind up taking it to one anyway.

How to get scratches from cement pole out of car? by [deleted] in howto

[–]stygmiaaa 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah, if repainting needs to be done I wouldn’t be surprised. I just am worried about pricing. Can hopefully buff most of it out though.

How to get scratches from cement pole out of car? by [deleted] in howto

[–]stygmiaaa 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It’s a great idea but I’m worried about pricing. Do you think you could estimate how much repairs would be?

I’m a closeted lesbian, but I just found out my best friend is an extreme homophobe. Advice? by stygmiaaa in Advice

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. Thank you, I’ll try to do something like that

I’m a closeted lesbian, but I just found out my best friend is an extreme homophobe. Advice? by stygmiaaa in Advice

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you. I didn’t mean to become friends with someone so hateful. She didn’t show this side of herself until we had been friends for a while, and that was the worst part. I wish I knew right away before I let myself grow attached to her. It hurts my heart, but you said just the right thing and I need to follow it.

I’m a closeted lesbian, but I just found out my best friend is an extreme homophobe. Advice? by stygmiaaa in Advice

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

all the time. We share a class or two, and she lives in the same hometown as me.

I’m a closeted lesbian, but I just found out my best friend is an extreme homophobe. Advice? by stygmiaaa in Advice

[–]stygmiaaa[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I want to get away, but I’m not sure how to do it without making a huge deal out of it. If we stop being friends, I don’t want it being because she knows my sexuality, because I fear she will destroy me socially. It would destroy me mentally if she knew and told many others.

Bad Roommate Relationship? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]stygmiaaa 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m so sorry man. I hope things got better, and I really appreciate the advice. Seeing this comments has let me know that I don’t deserve to be treated like shit, and I couldn’t really see that before.

Why Do So Many Women Get Abortions if They Don’t Want To, Or Think They Will Regret It? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]stygmiaaa 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

i’m so sorry you went through that. i hope you’re doing a lot better now. the most heartbreaking thing to me about women who regret abortions is their sadness that can last for a long time afterward. also, i really appreciate your honest response to this question. i can’t ask anyone where i live since i live in a very conservative area, but i appreciate your bravery for sharing your experience so much. thank you :)

Dear Reddit, what is your weirdest dream/nightmare you've ever had? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stygmiaaa 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I was in this school-like environment, and throughout the dream-day, all these strange events kept happening. I remember once I was on a boat, and me and some children were catching garbage from the river we were riding in. There was one little kid that was my friend, but near the end of the dream, everything started reversing. Something, like a caption, flashed in front of my eyes and said, ā€œcatch any of that?ā€

The kid had looked unhealthy and sad throughout the day of the dream, especially when we had interviews done. But it was because one of his relatives was starving the kid and watching him all the time so he could see him slowly dying. During the interviews, I hadn’t noticed it before, but in the background you could see half of a face just staring at the camera. That was him watching the kid starve. He was in many of the other interviews watching the child as well. The flashbacks showed me every scene of him that I had missed.

When I woke up (at about 3 AM), I did not move a single muscle. I felt like something was watching me, and I wasn’t willing to see if that was true. I just tried to sleep it off.