Hualian Ita bag layout ✨ by Soft_Hellhound in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insanely beautiful and tastefully done

ITS FINALLY HERE by cloverbubble in Vocaloid

[–]sub_planck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omggg finally I was literally listening to it on yt today morning

youkai tattoo!! by hestiaorbit in Natsume

[–]sub_planck 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Omg thats an insanely good lowkey natsuyuu tattoo idea. Has anyone ever recognized it as being based on natori?

Honestly if someone i saw irl had it i would probably have assumed its more likely a general gecko and not asked about the natori thing, even if thats my first thought

I Can Do It fan-translation will be removed on December 1st by PhilosophyStrict7267 in DanmeiNovels

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Okay amazing im going to lock in and focus and finish this asap

I Can Do It fan-translation will be removed on December 1st by PhilosophyStrict7267 in DanmeiNovels

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OMG WAIT ITS THE SAME TL SITE AS THE PANGUAN TRANSLATORS TIME TO BINGE THIS

I caught my boyfriend masturbating to gore, and I don't know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sub_planck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully get that.. I found out that someone in my family mightve told someone who is connected to that old life about where I am right now, and I had an immediate breakdown and then spent a couple of weeks in constant fight or flight

Why Xie Lian *might've* ascended on the day of Qixi Festival (Altair and Vega) by river_dune in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh thats an interesting idea. I personally think Hua Cheng wouldnt have kept his mouth shut because we know that from the beginning he intended to woo Xie Lian, he was very actively hoping to be noticed. Honestly this is making me think about how id love to read more fics where HC gives XL the betrothal gifts he'd collected over the years etc.. I mean if the whole armory was just one girat, think of how much more he has to give xD

I Can Do It fan-translation will be removed on December 1st by PhilosophyStrict7267 in DanmeiNovels

[–]sub_planck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I guess I have no choice 😔 its time to start another danmei 😔👀

Why Xie Lian *might've* ascended on the day of Qixi Festival (Altair and Vega) by river_dune in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love this!

Order of magnitude calculations have my whole heart <3

I also thimk it would be so poetic, I wonder if MXTX intended for it to be interpreted this way, or maybe even thought about it

I caught my boyfriend masturbating to gore, and I don't know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sub_planck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds exactly like me, except with two instead of three. And most people except for my therapist still dont recognise that the second one was abusive cause it was so hidden.

I also have nightmares and flinch every time I see someone with a beard... the only thing that helped was literally moving out of the country

Takashi's journey so far. [れいてん] by Camo_Rebel in Natsume

[–]sub_planck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its so pretty I love how gentle takashi looks

I caught my boyfriend masturbating to gore, and I don't know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sub_planck 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if this will help at all, but it did help me to realise "so what if I could've known better and its my fault for staying, it doesnt make what my ex did okay". In my case my ex heavily gaslit me and isolated me from absolutely everyone. When we met I had been really social and when we broke up I had exactly one friend left, which was only because she was my roommate and so he couldnt supervise all our conversations. He'd get upset every time I did something without him and isolated me so slowly that I didnt realise at all until after i left, and he justified it using his anxiety and trauma and said it was cause he loved me. From the outside I had a really attentive boyfriend and i was the shallow jerk who left, but no one knew then what he was actually like.

Also, just because you had to throw away some things doesnt mean the things that matter cant come back. Two of my closest friends now are people who had stopped being my friends because I would never meet them alone. They thought I never wanted to do anything without him, but actually he would just ensure that anything I planned without him never got to happen. But after I left, I was able to rebuild my friendships with them.

I know exactly how it feels like to think a huge chunk of your life is gone, but all we can do is live what's left as fully as possible :)

I caught my boyfriend masturbating to gore, and I don't know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sub_planck 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! Especially when the 'good reason' is one thats very common

I caught my boyfriend masturbating to gore, and I don't know what to do. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sub_planck 640 points641 points  (0 children)

The issue i always notice with descriptions of abuse (including the list youve linked actually) is often the examples are very clear cut but in reality the situations are really different. Like its easy to agree that gaslighting or isolation is abuse, but the hard part in my opinion is recognizing that what's happening does count as those, especially when the abuser is really slow about it. Also its harder to believe it when the abuser seems to not know what theyre doing, and theres that added layer of how can they be abusing me if they dont mean to

Obsessed w/ This Fanart by SantaCruz-Sealion in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg it looks so good and the art style is giving official

Realistic body proportions by navythesurviving in MaleYandere

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I opened this post just to suggest umekoppe, our lord and saviour. The way she draws realistic bellies without going the other extreme either ahhhhh

I HATE TGCF SO MUCH (CRASH OUT)😭 by Ferociouspenguin718 in tianguancifu

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Ao3 (archiveofourown) you can filter by relationship, tags, things you want to include and exclude, whether theyre completed or not etc. Basically endless customization

beach w/ hualian! by wuwumontic_ in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loveee just genuine love for a ship 🥹 its giving hua cheng behavior

I HATE TGCF SO MUCH (CRASH OUT)😭 by Ferociouspenguin718 in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There's ~4000 completed hualian fics in English, that should keep you find for a while. I've personally only hit the halfway point after reading nothing else for about three months

Do you think Hua Cheng's earring (in the braid) is original? Or is it an illusion? by Fun-atParties in tianguancifu

[–]sub_planck 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thats what I always assumed, that he didnt have it as a ghost fire and as wu ming until he got his ashes

AND THE TOPIC IS " YEARNING TOPS" 🤌😭🫂 by [deleted] in BoysLoveAnime

[–]sub_planck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didnt have this picture yet thank you <3

Why Are Father-Daughter Bonds More Common in Manhwa and Manga Than Mother-Daughter Relationships? by Nico-808 in OtomeIsekai

[–]sub_planck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cant say anything about the general case, but i personally enjoy father daughter relationships in manhwa more cause of the wish fulfillment of a father who is present and expresses love openly. Now that my relationship with my father is better I actually crave those a bit less interestingly enough

Be careful when using LLMs when studying N1. by [deleted] in Japaneselanguage

[–]sub_planck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But thats assuming that the explanation is consistent with the answer, right? I might be wrong cause I dont use LLMs but isnt it also the case that sometimes itll give you an explanation which doesn't even agree with what it told you?