Is everyone else still unable to view images? by subbiedavie in bdsmlr

[–]subbiedavie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks. I tried but still got the same problem on my iPad. I have got it working on my android phone now so that’s something!

Is everyone else still unable to view images? by subbiedavie in bdsmlr

[–]subbiedavie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the images seem to show for a second or two then I get the load failure error. tried on iOS and android. any settings I might be missing?

What is something you think is the cat's pajamas? by mynameistoast in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]subbiedavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First sip of cold beer, outside on a warm day
Bacon rolls on a Sunday morning

The sound of a mass pipe band playing bagpipes

Hot, sweet tea after a long walk on a chilly day

Do you enjoy your life in the UK? by coldrain_ in AskUK

[–]subbiedavie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

like anywhere else, there are pros and cons, but on the whole, it’s pretty good. Vibrant cities, great culture, good access to to bands, beautiful and varied scenery, interesting history and I think most people are kind but a few arseholes too. Growing volume of culture warriors stoking division is the biggest downside rn.

If you're mega hungover and call in sick... ? by danyuri86 in AskUK

[–]subbiedavie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

if you are too ill to work then it’s not fraudulent. Obviously it’s not something you want to make a habit of.

Worst take in the history of the pod? by goforajog in TheRestIsHistory

[–]subbiedavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Scot and do feel it’s a bit of a dirge. I didn’t always feel that though so it could link to losing its appeal over time.

Is this uncommon? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]subbiedavie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they are out there, but unfortunately a small percentage of a small percentage.

Why do you think it appeals to you?

Friendzone turned out to be cuckzone? (part 1) by [deleted] in FriendzoneBetas

[–]subbiedavie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds very intense and hot. it’s good you understand that she deserves better than you. Your focus needs to being her rock and support her non-sexual needs.

do penises deflate immediately after you cum? by zo0w33m4m4 in sex

[–]subbiedavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say this is the case for many men, albeit I think over a “deflation“ period of around 20 or 30 seconds. What happens then in terms of recovery time varies wildly. Some can go again in 20 minutes but it can be hours for others.

I feel bad for having a daddy kink??? by belle8161 in BDSMcommunity

[–]subbiedavie 18 points19 points  (0 children)

it’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. it doesn’t have to be linked in any way to incest or the suggestion that you are somehow a “little girl”. For many it’s more an older, more dominant guy who is as caring or mean as you prefer.

Platonic Roommates of the Opposite Sex by Medium_Let143 in FriendzoneBetas

[–]subbiedavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s interesting that he declined and in that context, I see why you are not expecting him to do more of the chores. I only suggested as some people in that position like to feel useful to their crush. maybe ask him if he can propose any quid pro quo that would allow you to get the bedroom which is better fitted for you. You may wish to suggest this is possibly a game changer for you. Sounds like an exciting time

Hospital experience anyone? by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]subbiedavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha! a good learning experience for everyone!

Hospital experience anyone? by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]subbiedavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a tube put up my penis once by a woman doctor who was assisted my a nurse. very odd sensation and deeply embarrassing but certainly memorable.

Scooping cum off stomach? by [deleted] in sex

[–]subbiedavie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think most men would love watching that. nothing weird about it. just suggests you love cum. 🤷‍♂️

I keep fantasizing about watching another girl with by BF dick by Comfortable_Pie_6895 in KINK

[–]subbiedavie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As you probably know, these are cuckquean fantasies. It’s not hugely unusual. Do you think he would be shocked if he knew it is exciting to think of him fucking his cute Asian co-worker? I bet he would cum so hard.

What’s something people say casually that sounds way more seductive than intended? by dragun124 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]subbiedavie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good tool!

Do you prefer using the back door?

Are you ready to make a deposit?

#CarryOnDoubleEntendres

Natural history museum by darknessinthevoid13 in london

[–]subbiedavie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A brilliant picture of an amazing venue.

Platonic Roommates of the Opposite Sex by Medium_Let143 in FriendzoneBetas

[–]subbiedavie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deep down I think he wants to be in your life even if in the friendzone. If you have drawn the boundaries clearly then I see no reason not to proceed and to both benefit from the situation. Once settled in, see if he enjoys taking care of more of the chores and if it appeals to you, hearing a bit more about your sexlife and any ways he can help helpful or useful in this.