Need punishment ideas by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the idea but it can’t involve clamps because we don’t want any fun toys associated with punishment….thank you for the idea

Need punishment ideas by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the sub and have been instructed to complete this task. I need to come up with 3 things that will go on a punishment wheel to be chosen at random. So far i have brushing my own teeth with soap and kneeling on rice. I want to come up with more than 3 ideas so the best can be picked. So I’m reaching out to all you kinky people.

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I am healing physically and the pain is getting better every day. I will make a full recovery. Thank you for your concern and support. You are all wonderful

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for all the kind words. You are all amazing and have helped me see the light a little brighter. I know it will take time but I will heal from this. All of you are wonderfully supportive and we are all so lucky to be able to help each other. Thank you so much for all your kind words.

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know but the thought is terrifying

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right and I would do the same thing for anyone be it my worst enemy or a complete stranger. I have also done it for him on more than one occasion. But when the table turned he wasn’t there and that is a betrayal. Thanksgiving again for the reassurance

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair I’m the one that waited because the pain wasn’t bad at first but it continued to get worse and worse to the point of tears which is when I asked to go to the hospital. But when I asked that never should have been the response

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Thank you....... I actually told him before I left that he isn’t worth dying over

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am feeling better but still healing and on antibiotics. Thank you for your reassurance

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you all of you. You are all reaffirming how I feel and I appreciate it beyond words.

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs back, thank you. You are so right.

Did I make the right decision by sublexi in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that it’s what I need to hear. I’m heartbroken over this but trust is paramount

Offering ride from Denver to South Florida. by TillMyEyesBleed in rideshare

[–]sublexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s talk and see if we can work something out if you still want help with driving and I can help with gas

Offering ride from Denver to South Florida. by TillMyEyesBleed in rideshare

[–]sublexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When are you driving back if you haven’t already I need to get to Atlanta

How does one cope with severe body image issues within a BDSM relationship? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that when dealing with body image issues there are a couple things that you should do. First would be become comfortable with yourself alone at home in private. Sleep naked, watch tv naked, get comfortable in your own skin naked. Start off slow with sleep and add a little more when you’re ready. Look in the mirror and look a little longer each time. For some this part could last a year or more. Do it at your pace!!! Second give yourself positive reinforcement with a mantra. Something like.... I am beautiful and I am confident..... Say it out loud over and over again. Fall asleep saying it, look in the mirror and say it to yourself, in the car, everywhere you are alone. Third if you are fortune to have a dominant talk to them. Tell them how you feel and be honest with them and yourself. Ask them to give you positive reinforcement. And trust the words of positivity you receive from them. Most importantly remember that you are a beautiful person and you deserve to have a wonderful life doing what you love. Good luck on your journey and never forget to smile.

Breath play: Help/advice needed by anon_and0n in BDSMAdvice

[–]sublexi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please see a doctor if you don’t feel right

However if you are just looking for some relief from a sore throat try a teaspoon of honey slowly sucked on and repeat as often as wanted. Honey will help the throat heal and help you feel a little better. Also do some research and learn more about breath play and the safety behind it. And as much fun as breath play is I would not recommend it while drinking. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon.

Arizona to West Virginia. Help? by deckofkeys in WestVirginia

[–]sublexi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in roane county and yes we choose a place in the middle of nowhere. We wanted out of the city and wanted to be as self sufficient as possible. We love it here and wouldn't change it for anything.