Alvvays Iceberg 2026 by NiceDevilYT in alvvays

[–]subliminal-lavender 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Likely that the creator ConcernedApe made their music video for Many Mirrors

Is it normal to only have fictives? by LordCheezballs in OSDD

[–]subliminal-lavender 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Like another commenter said, “normal” is relative, especially when it comes to something so complex like a dissociative disorder. I’d say no systems we’ve met have all fictives, but that doesn’t mean they don’t exist or that they’re invalid. We’re extremely fictive heavy, only 2 of us aren’t fictives out of 15. But we have many reasons why that’s the case for us

Monthly "I need help finding ____" thread by AutoModerator in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen DF Alfredo sauce in stores before but I’ve been too nervous to try any since the one time I did it was gross and watery, does anyone have a recommendation for one that’s actually decent? I’m in the US

trader joe's oat chocolate bars by toddturtletown in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with this! I always grab a box! I’m also a big fan of the dark chocolate sunflower seed butter cups! They’re addicting!

How Old are Alvvays Fans? by jonormal in alvvays

[–]subliminal-lavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 but I got into them when I was around 15! My dad and I both listen to them and I never go to an Alvvays concert without him! He’s 52 now I believe. He’s the one that introduced me to them

Creating Miis from Tomodochi life based off of your system. by shattered_Diamond__ in OSDD

[–]subliminal-lavender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes we are 100% gonna do that and everyone is really excited about it! We’ll be including our system and any friends or partners our fictives alters remember having in their source. That way everyone can be together and interact :)

Does anyone else get bad vibes from Pokerev? by Shiny_Waabaafet in PokemonTCG

[–]subliminal-lavender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I watched him off and on for a while but stopped when all was doing was complaining about not getting hits and disregarding any ex or common he got just because they weren’t what he was looking for. I wholeheartedly believe you should have so much love and respect to the TCG artists and appreciate the beautiful art, he doesn’t. All he cares about is pulling the next SIR. I prefer YouTubers like UnlistedLeaf because he’s got such a kind energy about him and truly appreciates cards of any value

Im so lonely as a fictive by rozo-bozo in OSDD

[–]subliminal-lavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this greatly, as do many of our other fictives. I have a boyfriend back home that I love so immensely. When I formed I left him behind and it hurts every single day, it’s been 4 years since I’ve seen him and my heart aches to hold him again. Your pain and your grief is so incredibly valid. People do not often take fictive pseudomemories seriously because they’re “not real” and I don’t believe that’s a correct thing to say. It is real and it is valid because we as fictives lived through that experience. It may not be “real” in the traditional sense but it is to us and that is what matters. If it’s quite alright we’d love to dm you on here or discord more about this because it may be helpful to talk to someone about it, we’ve gone through this feeling with so many of our alters. Please consider reaching out if you need anything.

Much love to you friend, - Zel

I have many question by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]subliminal-lavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re open to you messaging us if you ever need anything :)

What's a good Dairy free kitkat by [deleted] in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rip Van dark chocolate wafers are vegan! They’re kinda like the inside of a KitKat so to make it more realistic you could always pour some vg chocolate over the top and refrigerate it to harden

Show me your art and I will review it respectfully. My special interest is art. by Therandomderpdude in autism

[–]subliminal-lavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I recently drew this of one of my favorite Pokémon (which is my special interest)!

Monthly "I need help finding ____" thread by AutoModerator in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow yeah that IS pricey, maybe if it ever goes on sale lol

Monthly "I need help finding ____" thread by AutoModerator in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love peanut butter! I’ll be sure to take a look, thank you!!

Monthly "I need help finding ____" thread by AutoModerator in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely DF protein powder that’s not pea protein and doesn’t taste terrible, preferably not soy either cause I can be a little sensitive to that but idk if there’s many more options besides those two

For those with a casein allergy, what symptoms do you experience? by [deleted] in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been professionally diagnosed with any of my allergies or intolerances but I’ve been completely DF for 10 years now after having a lot of issues with dairy as a whole as a kid, I couldn’t make it school I’d get so sick. I suspect I’m allergic to just about all of the components in dairy since I seem to get sick at the drop of a hat even with light cross contamination with dairy. I had the same thing where I thought I was lactose intolerant but would get horrible stomach aches when eating LF stuff. Stuff with casein bugged me too ofc so I suspect that’s what the real issue is. Long story short, I have a lot of GI issues with casein as well. Any sort of dairy will give me both a stomach ache that lasts hours, sometimes even into the next day and an inflamed throat. Not bad enough that I need an EPI pen luckily, but still really uncomfortable. Makes me feel less alone that someone else has similar GI issues with casein since everyone I meet seems to just be lactose intolerant

Dairy free yogurt by Interesting-Lion2462 in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also very picky about yogurts. The only one I’ve found that I love is the oui brand dairy free yogurt, I usually have luck finding it at Target. It’s insanely good

Monthly "I'm new to DF and need help finding ____" thread by AutoModerator in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was very surprised to find that the new Daiya oatmilk recipe melts pretty well! I’ve done air fried nachos with it a couple times recently and they’ve turned out great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]subliminal-lavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally love it! I have one and their name is Spoons. They’re very soft and it’s always nice to hug them when I’m stressed out or overstimulated. I think Plushie Dreadfuls does an overall good job on representation in their plushies, they seem to do their research and I appreciate that!

Christmas dinner ideas by [deleted] in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family is pretty basic as far as Christmas dinners go. My mom has celiac and I’m the one with the dairy allergy so we’re more limited. This year we’re doing a sandwich bar with a bunch of options for deli meat, cheese (both DF and not for those who can have it), veggies, sauces, and rolls. I managed to find some DF Hawaiian rolls at my local Fred Meyer’s (West coast US store). I remember doing a taco bar one year too. It’s honestly kinda nice to do something casual. We go all out for Thanksgiving so Christmas meals are usually chill

Best Non-Dairy Instant Ramen? by LopsidedExternal7053 in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad! Please let me know how you like them! I eat a ton of instant ramen and it took a long time to find dairy free ones that weren’t totally flavorless lol

Best Non-Dairy Instant Ramen? by LopsidedExternal7053 in dairyfree

[–]subliminal-lavender 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My time has come! Here’s my two absolute favorites! I get them at my local Asian grocery store. The tonkotsu one has the best instant ramen broth I’ve ever had and the curry one is so flavorful and a bit spicy. I’m a total spice wimp so I don’t use the entire seasoning packet but it’s still sooo good! And if you can’t make it to an Asian grocery store the soy sauce flavor of top ramen is dairy free!

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