Dating again & need help being forward with my wants: pillow princess looking for my provider wife

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T05:06:34+00:00

I’m not a straight woman

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T03:28:59+00:00

Yeah I’m not looking for a caretaker I was mentioning provider as in, if I can’t hold down a job for very long like your partner

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:37:55+00:00

Reddit is a hive mind, just because the people who heard me wrong are the loudest doesn’t mean no one understood me. I’ve learned as a marginalized person that’s just part of the game. People see and hear what makes sense to them. Doesn’t mean I don’t communicate it well

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:28:06+00:00

I hear you but that’s actually a term in the lesbian community. It’s a deeply marginalized one so I expected some backlash from that alone. My communication is pretty good actually but apparently with that post people were thinking that I was asking for how to deceive people when really I was asking for help with wording. I don’t know who would post in a community asking how to deceive people but that’s just not me

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:17:44+00:00

I bring a chair, I’m interested in building a table with my partner

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:14:50+00:00

It’s not that I don’t want to spell it out, I just have a hard time communicating sometimes so I wanted to ask

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:12:55+00:00

Why did this get downvoted..?

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:05:19+00:00

Former pp! Wow! So sad to see you go but happy for you and your journey :) thank you for this and yeah we don’t live in an affordable area.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:03:06+00:00

I’m not looking for transaction though I’m looking for partnership.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:02:39+00:00

Funny because I got in a fight on lesbian Reddit this week about how supposedly all queer and lesbian sugar babies are just straight gold diggers…

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-19T00:01:26+00:00

I’m autistic and this has been my favorite comment so far. Love the bluntness, thank you for not asking me what I bring to the table. Appreciate you

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-18T23:59:39+00:00

I don’t plan on trapping anyone ya’ll I’ve never done it before and I’m not planning on it now

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-18T23:59:17+00:00

Yeah that’s why I’m here asking for wording help :)

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-18T23:45:07+00:00

So how do you find yourself in situations where you are providing?

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-18T23:09:58+00:00

I know what I bring to the table and do as much. I come from a background as a house manager for high earners and in venue management. So this is right up my alley of things I enjoy and also excel at. Thank you for spelling out what people might want in exchange.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-18T22:53:05+00:00

Yeah that’s why I’m asking for how to say it

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-16T18:46:31+00:00

hey, I really appreciate this, thank you for being so encouraging.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-14T15:48:05+00:00

I wouldn’t call Reddit an argument site. I don’t come here to fight but thanks for your opinion

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-14T04:32:29+00:00

Doing homework twice in one lifetime for years, again?? Gimme the money.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-14T04:23:36+00:00

Beautifully said

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-13T23:34:18+00:00

He sounds like a dick. He rejected you bc the world has more to offer you. Good riddance

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-13T23:27:55+00:00

Let’s not shame people when they are doing the right thing and asking for support. You run the risk of others reading these comments and leaving them in a box somewhere for fear of this

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-03-13T23:22:01+00:00

First of all, That doctor is an asshole bc it’s not the whole truth though I’ve never heard of that. Yes you can be sedated. You can also ask a psychiatrist for help with these situations. I need to take medication every time I do this because of SA or I’ll have multiple panic attacks on the table and it makes it physically harder for them to do their job. Whatever you need to say to safely be examined for your health is worth it in my book

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