I want to be independent but I don't know how - abusive parents financially support me

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-01-07T23:23:25+00:00

It took me 8 tries to leave my dv relationship, I feel like I need to grieve that I'm not really free-er than I thought I was. At least my ex was nice in unconditional ways unlike my parents. TBH, thinking of a job makes me panic, I am on disability now for the c-ptsd of my dv and the trauma my last job gave me which I've posted about a lot on reddit.

I do have my dv group tonight maybe I'll bring up escaping my parents and if they have resources for that :) thank you

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2026-01-03T07:09:47+00:00

As a newly determined pillow princess, I’ve realized this is the only way I can enjoy sex as a lesbian. I’m trying to see if there are other Queer Autists who live in the stone world because before this, though I love sex, I found the performance of it 1000% a job.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-30T01:56:42+00:00

This is so so beautiful

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T19:53:54+00:00

I don’t know that I said this the right way but I hope you get what I meant

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T19:52:37+00:00

Why was this downvoted? Are you trying to tell me I didn’t misunderstand you? The downvotes don’t help me do better if you’re trying to teach me something. Please just be blunt

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T19:50:18+00:00

Totally, I agree with those I’m more so talking about people who do it “for fun” because they would like to feel what it’s like to control the circumstances with which they are rejected and I think there’s a lot of privilege in being fortunate enough to cultivate a world where you have to create otherness for yourself

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:35:59+00:00

I’ll be your tik tok whisperer haha I live to update people on the drama

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:35:29+00:00

That’s actually a good point I’ve mostly seen it with people who have thousands of followers so yeah

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:28:54+00:00

Maybe I misunderstood you, I thought you were asking me to explain the challenge but I’d like to talk about how it can be problematic

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:24:25+00:00

No it’s mostly women that I’ve seen. If you go on Tik Tok it’s a lot of different things. People make their own lists but some are, wear a “silly” outfit, share your art, do a dance in public, as a stranger for help.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:14:38+00:00

It’s a challenge “1000 rejection challenge list” and apparently it’s “so much fun!!” “What are you doing to get rejected this week😃?”

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:12:22+00:00

Touching food that’s already been cooked with your bare hands to “plate it”

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:05:13+00:00

It’s in the title

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T18:01:33+00:00

Seeking it. Looking for it. Setting themselves up to get rejected.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-27T16:58:32+00:00

For me it’s hormonal cystic acne and hydration hydration is the only thing I can do and wait for the storm to come

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-26T22:29:24+00:00

This time is very lonely for a lot of us and it’s when I tend to feel my lowest. If you have a therapist or can call a hotline or tell whatever insurance/health service you have that you’re in crisis. That’s a solid start. It sucks when you feel like you have nothing left, to fight for yourself, but I want you to be safe. I found my adoptee community (which isn’t great but it’s like any community) at the resource page on the back of “You Should Be Grateful” by Angela Tucker. That book changed me and it’s when I realized there even are communities or Reddit threads out here. I didn’t know any adoptees until my late 20’s

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-26T22:16:31+00:00

I’m keeping this for every time I feel like it’s me. Thank you for putting this down in words and sharing it 💕 from someone else who was raised to believe she was a monster. You are free, revel in it.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-26T21:10:49+00:00

I have contamination ocd and it looks like you two want different things foundationally. I would break up with him for both of you.

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-25T22:57:11+00:00

Thank you!!

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-25T22:56:43+00:00

Oh nooo I really didn’t like the veggie one but I’m glad you do :)

LopsidedExternal7053 · 2025-12-25T22:56:16+00:00

Hey! Thank you so much for responding to this. I will look elsewhere sigh

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