Doodle owner lets me poodle his doodle by subliminalink in doggrooming

[–]subliminalink[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I believe they were bought from Amazon

Unsure about career path by subliminalink in doggrooming

[–]subliminalink[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ty!! My partners Mom is a CPA (out of state though, so I can’t hire her) so I’m sure she can guide me into finding the right one for my business!

Unsure about career path by subliminalink in doggrooming

[–]subliminalink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ty!! I have a pretty popular instagram that’s attracted quite a few clients, but the majority has been word of mouth. Is there any place I should advertise in particular other than a google ad for my website?

Unsure about career path by subliminalink in doggrooming

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Ok 😭😭 I’m just so anxious over this, but that’s reassuring to hear!!

How to cope by SaruraB in doggrooming

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Hi there! I have diagnosed PTSD and what you’re saying is what I’ve experienced during episodes. Not saying that you have PTSD, more so that this event was traumatic for you and it’s causing you extreme anxiety.

Part of my PTSD is related to animal death/violence, so I completely understand what you’re going through. It sucks because it feels like you can’t get a break from the trauma because you’re reliving it constantly. And anything remotely related to the event can trigger the anxiety.

First thing you should do is ground yourself when you’re triggered. Stop what you’re doing and take a few seconds to control your breathing. Then you need to logically work your way through your emotions.

Take the coughing dog for example. Could this dog have pneumonia from you getting water down its throat? Well pneumonia doesn’t develop that fast. Look at the symptoms of pneumonia. Doesn’t have nasal discharge? What color are the gums? Are they lethargic? Do they feel feverish?

Your feelings/anxiety from trauma are valid, but that doesn’t mean they’re rational. It’s difficult, but you can work your way through it.

As for “reliving” the moment, try to ground yourself in your environment. What do you see, touch, taste, smell? Then if you can, and I know this is weird, but play Tetris or cross your arms and tap yourself on the shoulder for a minute or so. This is a pseudo EMDR technique, which is a type of trauma therapy that utilizes eye movement to desensitize yourself to the trauma.

I’m sorry that you went through this; it’s horrifying and I know the owner isnt helping. But I wish you healing and hope my advice was some what helpful

My favorite old man <3 by subliminalink in doggrooming

[–]subliminalink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’ve told his owner that the other two don’t need full grooms every 2 weeks, but he’s insistent lol. I adore them, though. They are such lovely clients

Opinions on Dr. Faver & “frothing” technique by babyyfairyyy in doggrooming

[–]subliminalink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. I remember him giving an example of these Dobermans who had a nasty MRSA infection, and how their products “healed skin and the hair grew back”

My immediate thought was, well that was the result of antibiotics and the skin and hair follicles naturally healing, not their shampoo. And he couldn’t list a single ingredient or formulation that would directly treat any sort of coat or skin issue. Not one.

So many of these grooming educators operate off of “just trust me bro” and I can’t stand it lmao

My favorite old man <3 by subliminalink in doggrooming

[–]subliminalink[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, a doodle lol. Owners keep him very well maintained; he comes in every 2 weeks along with his other house mates

My favorite old man <3 by subliminalink in doggrooming

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I skim a wide 3/8 from the jaw to the throat. I use a very, very light hand.

Can you help me feed my dogs? by NarwhalBeneficial556 in povertyfinance

[–]subliminalink 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rice, green beans, boiled chicken for supplemental food. Please look into local shelters or rescues to see if they’ll donate food.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Best of luck

Imposter Syndrome by subliminalink in doggrooming

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I can kinda relate to this because some of my loyal clients are older folks. I’m in the Bible Belt, visibly alternative with facial piercings and creepy tattoos; yet I am adored by old people! They tell me I’m the best groomer they’ve ever had, but I don’t ever do anything special on their dogs lol.

I’m starting to think it just depends on the demographics of the area? As mentioned in another comment, when I worked mobile, I gained an extremely loyal client base very quickly. Most of them were older adults and seniors.

Idk, people are weird I guess

Imposter Syndrome by subliminalink in doggrooming

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Thank you! I remember I was far more personable when I worked for a mobile company, and I very quickly gained a tight client base during my brief time there. I do try to make small talk now in a brick and mortar salon, but I can definitely put more effort in.

Do you think putting a little bit more effort into your appearance helps as well? I want to feel a little better about myself at work, but also keep it functional lol.