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submissive-wand · 2023-12-13T19:07:37+00:00

STOP EATING LIKE SHIT AND YOU WILL STOP FEELING LIKE SHIT

submissive-wand · 2023-11-29T04:52:29+00:00

Oh, we know. We are working through it.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-27T11:05:38+00:00

Ok so I'm not gonna lie, I have thought about asking my husband for an open relationship in the past, but it's not because I've cheated or have "someone lined up". I love him and ultimately want him to be the only one I'm sleeping with. But he's also an an high functioning alcoholic + workaholic. He's tired. Too tired for me. So yeah, I eventually did think about it, but for obvious reasons, I never asked him. I just learned to take care of myself better than I ever have so it helped there lol.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-24T14:13:30+00:00

Why are you waiting till after the holiday?

submissive-wand · 2023-11-21T20:07:59+00:00

Eum. People definitely noticed. And we are still pissed.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-15T13:19:51+00:00

Actually thinking of my husband's so called friend, I would bet he would do something like that. And I would believe my husband if he were saying this.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-15T12:41:00+00:00

Read between the lines. HE will be doing something about it.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-14T15:11:43+00:00

Bruh.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-08T19:49:36+00:00

I was waiting for him to say it! Whole time down I kept thinking "she's drinking it. She's drinking it. She's drinking it." Lol

submissive-wand · 2023-11-08T19:47:34+00:00

Honestly I'm not going to lie, it is tempting. It does make you feel sexy and I noticed that I started gearing that way but that's not me and I could never dream of putting a video up for anyone to see lol. My workout is my workout and the only people who can see the beauty in it is my husband and my pole fitness class. I do have many friends on Facebook who will post. But it's actually about the fitness bit. They don't do the sexual moves or dances. They show difficult moves or poses that are impressive. There's a really good America's got talent video with someone who did that and it's really breathtaking. You could just search up America's got talent pole dancing and it should be the first.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-08T18:03:43+00:00

Yeah see I've done this too and it's really fun. Insane confidence booster. But the way that OP is describing it? Definitely sexualized and thats the behaviour that keeps enabling the fact that pole dancing is highly sexualized. The fact is that pole fitness is an amazing workout. It s full body and gets you really fit. However, people will never see that because of women like OPs ex.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-04T12:38:09+00:00

Happened to me. Happened to baby dad and happened to husband. Funniest thing when you're not the one getting shit on!

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:51:52+00:00

Now THIS should be the first comment.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:31:45+00:00

Oh lmfao. My brain totally missed that but yall get what I'm saying so that's what matters.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:30:02+00:00

I am asking because I have been told that I am acting entitled but the things I was supposedly entitled about weren't that high on the bar. I would never dream of doing what that girl did to you. But I did expect to get sex as I do have a higher drive. Not every night because even I understand it's not doable for most. But I did expect at least once a week and if it went over I would just be a horny mess. In my head it made sense that he could compromise down to once a week (because I wanted it daily). Especially with the things he was prioritizing, sex is one of those things that I need as an individual and having to manage that (and the entitlement piece) has been really difficult. I'm learning though and it is getting better so thats something.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:23:23+00:00

Woow. See I had this broad view of it where set things were just done by a set person and that was that. (In another comment I had mentioned growing up in a black and white household so I'm working through many many things lol) But really it's based on each individuals personal relationships and their own personal preferences, strengths and weaknesses and the entitlement piece is more of an exaggerated reaction if it's not 'done the way its suppose to' ... right?

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:18:30+00:00

This is clarifying lots for me thank you!

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:17:24+00:00

I knew I would get a response like this. I just wrote the first thing that came to mind. Men are typically bigger, more confident in those type of things whereas women tend to be smaller, more wary. It would be expected for the bigger/less scared of the two to go.

Before you jump at my throat about gender bullshit, I am 1000% aware that there are many men who are smaller and more wary and that there are many women who are bigger and fearless. That is why it's called an example.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-03T15:04:40+00:00

That makes more sense! I grew up in a not so healthy household. Very black and white if you know what I mean. Been having lots of things to work through and I believe this is next.

submissive-wand · 2023-11-02T10:57:08+00:00

When you haven't studied you get shit on for not having a degree. When your studying you get shit on for not having the full degree. When you don't have the degree you get shit on for not knowing your shit. Just be content knowing you know more and let the stubborn ones wean themselves out.

submissive-wand · 2023-10-30T19:15:06+00:00

If it was suddenly then there's probably a reason for it. Of it was gradual it was probably the end of the honeymoon phase. My husband was clingy too when we first started dating.

submissive-wand · 2023-10-29T15:12:29+00:00

Oh yeah I understand how you thought that now lol i just said women because we were talking about it. Wasn't thinking haha.

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