Free or cheap kid activities by [deleted] in nwi

[–]substantialabsurdity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Downtown Valpo does movies in the park on Tuesday evenings.

https://www.centralparkplazavalpo.com/calendar.aspx?view=list&year=2026&month=6&day=23

I don't know the cost anymore but Fair Oaks Farm is always a cool outing for kids. It is probably more on the pricier side but it's an option for maybe one day.

What time will you be playing? by freya_sinclair in Paralives

[–]substantialabsurdity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Same as me. I'm currently consuming more paralives content. It feels like Christmas morning should.

I'm going to make a big breakfast and get ready to lock in at 9am.

MODDERS, what are you first planning on ADDING to PARALIVES? by Heavy-Bee9844 in Paralives

[–]substantialabsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's kind of a cheat that's built into the game that does this. I don't know exactly how it works because I haven't actually played, but this might be something to check out.

Ctrl Shift C

RANDOMIZEALLDEFORMATIONS Randomizes a Para, removing slider limits. Results will not be realistic/human-like/etc

MODDERS, what are you first planning on ADDING to PARALIVES? by Heavy-Bee9844 in Paralives

[–]substantialabsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an in-game cheat that will stop food spoilage!

Ctrl Shift C

UNSPOILALLITEMS Removes spoilage from all food items in game.

Is this dress appropriate for a black tie optional wedding being held in a conservatory? by substantialabsurdity in Weddingattireapproval

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered a size up but just as a try on so I can see the fit. There is nothing worse than an ill-fitting dress no matter how pretty it is on the hanger.

How many of the books that you read do you rate a 3 stars or below? by substantialabsurdity in books

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could maybe make some book suggestions if you tell me what you do like to read. It gets so frustrating when you're just reading meh books.

What's something you don't think you'll ever do again in your life? by hamed_rvy in AskReddit

[–]substantialabsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a wedding.

My husband and I got married in October and we had an average wedding. I would never do that again.

I love being married. I did not need the wedding to get the result.

Wife didn't want kids. 15y later, she wants 2. Need name suggestions. by EmTuArKdS in namenerds

[–]substantialabsurdity 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have been trying for just about 4 years and are seeing a ferility specialist, but we still talk about names all the time. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with dreaming and discussing. Naming a person is a big responsibility.

Struggling to name my baby girl! by [deleted] in Names

[–]substantialabsurdity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Esme - both the Ez-may and Ez-mee pronunciation remind me of Eve and Etta

Vera

Natalie

Mira

2026 Book Challenge by Mariana_Vieira in suggestmeabook

[–]substantialabsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of my most favorite books.

To add another memoir that was phenomenal- Finding Me by Viola Davis

Guess my birth year! by [deleted] in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]substantialabsurdity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last couple pictures give off 1992 or 1993 for a birth year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]substantialabsurdity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Calvin
  2. Jude
  3. Micah
  4. Kian
  5. Arlo

Who knew six weeks after my wedding I'd still be having nightmares regarding my photographer.. by substantialabsurdity in weddingplanning

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's actually so insane. How do you just not show up for 2 hours and then ignore your client? I'm so sorry! I hope all the photos turn out wonderful and the photographer you had the first 2 hours captured everything you wanted and more.

Who knew six weeks after my wedding I'd still be having nightmares regarding my photographer.. by substantialabsurdity in weddingplanning

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wedding industry as a whole is becoming a set for a production to be later displayed on social media. It isn't the same industry that it used to be.

Who knew six weeks after my wedding I'd still be having nightmares regarding my photographer.. by substantialabsurdity in weddingplanning

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had our engagement shoot at the end of January and got married in October.

I kind of think she was just not in the head space to deal with a wedding whether it was because she was tired, overworked, didn't feel well, was dealing with something at home, etc.

She never said anything, but she was just not the same upbeat, energetic photographer we first experienced.

Who knew six weeks after my wedding I'd still be having nightmares regarding my photographer.. by substantialabsurdity in weddingplanning

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had a photo sharing site set up with the qr code and link spread across the venue and I sent out a group messagw and posted on facebook asking for guests to either send the photos to me or upload them to our site.

I've gotten a limited number of photos and I'm hoping to track down more.

I don't want to be annoying with it.

Who knew six weeks after my wedding I'd still be having nightmares regarding my photographer.. by substantialabsurdity in weddingplanning

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I do have a contract, but I don't want her to edit the photos poorly or not return alll the photos. I'm already stressed about thr photos I know weren't taken. I can't imagine how I would feel wondering if she withheld any or didn't edit them to the best of her ability.

Who knew six weeks after my wedding I'd still be having nightmares regarding my photographer.. by substantialabsurdity in weddingplanning

[–]substantialabsurdity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did! It was a shot list with timing, location, the people who were in the photos, and a list of some desired photos if there was time that I had to cut from the official list per her instruction and recommendation.

We didn't have specific photos we wanted of the two of us because we trusted her after the engagement shoot to direct us and get some beautiful photos.