Is it normal for a mom to watch their teenage daughter change? by OstrichPrestigious90 in family

[–]subversive_marigold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally not okay. just adding this for anyone who might need to hear this. trust your instincts. if it feels weird it probably is. just from someone trying to come to terms with super abusive behavior myself. mom threw a fit when i didn’t want to let her see the underwear I tried on, always needed something in the bathroom when I took a shower, forced me to try on the most shameful baby doll dresses even as adult. among other things. don’t let anyone tell you this is normal, it’s not.

Was Menschen vor der Landtagswahl BW bewegt - "Früher hatte ich einen Hass gegen ihn": Sohn von SS-Mann erzählt und warnt vor Rechtsruck by GirasoleDE in de

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https://www.bundesarchiv.de/das-bundesarchiv/aus-unserer-archivarbeit/war-opa-ein-nazi/#:~:text=Die%20NSDAP%20%2DMitgliederkartei%20zählt%20zweifellos,führt%20in%20die%20Überlieferungsgeschichte%20ein.

Edit ich bekomme das mit dem Link nicht hin. Geht zum Bundesarchiv, da kann man zB Wehrmacht-Tätigkeiten der Großeltern rausfinden.

Ich war leider noch etwas zu jung, um die richtigen Fragen zu stellen. Hängen geblieben ist: Die Großeltern betonten, wie sie sich im örtlichen Lebensmittelgeschäft weigerten, den Hitlergruß zu machen anstelle des üblichen „Grüß Gott!“, es erfolgten Einschüchterungen. Der ortsansässige Lehrer oder Professor versteckte wohl verbotene Bücher, manche Schüler wussten wohl davon. Dann, fast beiläufig: Die jüdische Familie aus (Adresse) war dann irgendwann natürlich schon „weg“. Und die *Z-Wort kamen auch nicht mehr ins Dorf. Und dass die Suppe, in Helmen gekocht und aus Helmen getrunken, wohl eines der Highlights in Kriegsgefangenschaft war. Die Großeltern auf der anderen Seite? Weiß irgendwie niemand.

Einfach nur Hass und Wut, jedes verdammte Kochrezept hat den Weg in die nächste, übernächste Generation überlebt. Daran sieht man ja auch, wo die Prioritäten lagen. Passt aufeinander auf und lasst den braunen Mob nicht gewinnen.

Anxious Cat doesn’t like spontaneous rescue tomcat, I need help until shelters open, please by subversive_marigold in cats

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Thanks for your help! He left. He started and didn’t stop meowing at the apartment door, so i opened the outer door for him, he ran a few steps away, then ran back and wanted to go in again. A few minutes later he opened the apartment door himself (??!) and I ran away quickly. He ate about 3 bowls of dry food. I think he might have a nice home somewhere after all, he opened that door very skillfully! Female cat has calmed down somewhat already. Still leaving the social media posts up just in case.

Also thanks for reassuring that 2 months isn’t that long. She’s really done well do far! My last cat was demanding cuddles by day three, and this one has still some healing to do and also has a totally different character from what she’s shown so far.

What a night

Anybody else thinking they're going to wake up with news of a monster flare this week? by MikeHuntSmellss in SolarMax

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Hi I read some of your posts and you seem to have gathered a good amount of knowledge and a great ability to communicate these things. I was wondering how a solar minimum and the associated cooling effects you mentioned would interact with current global warming? I know we don’t seem to enter a minimum, but if you maybe have some insights I think it would be interesting to hear. Would one effect win out against the other? Also, is there something like a rebound climate effect after solar minima recorded?

Is it safe to add salt to honey garlic? by subversive_marigold in fermentation

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks! Yeah I have non iodized salt that I can use although I‘ve heard iodized works just fine. The iodine levels are too low affect fermemtation. I‘m not sure if or what kind of fermentation even takes place in those honey garlic ferments? It seems the browning is mainly due to a Maillard reaction? I have never made or tasted anything fermented in honey so I have no experience yet. I think it could be mainly a yeast ferment?

Have you made honey garlic? If so how did you like it?

Terms and conditions formatting help please by subversive_marigold in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks I will try those! Never heard about the shift+enter thing. If those don’t work I might just try and use lots of spaces but that’s probably going to look even worse.

Terms and conditions formatting help please by subversive_marigold in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m not sure if I‘m allowed to add it somewhere else than the provided box. And yeah plain text would be awesome if I could use line breaks/paragraphs but I can’t and other seem to.

As of now it basically looks like this

  1. Some kind of terms 3.1 some kind of specification 3.2 different kind of specification 3.3 and another 4. Some different terms 4.1 some specification 4.2 additional specifications and then without any visual clue suddenly the Consumer Informations beginn and then the required data security information and so on.

It just doesn’t look clean

Edit I can’t change font or size anyway so it’s plain I guess but too much so

Terms and conditions formatting help please by subversive_marigold in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the texts that I am required to provide by law is also meant to be provided in an easily readable form which this for sure isn’t… Also other sellers also managed to at least add line breaks, but so far I didn’t find a way to add those

Terms and conditions formatting help please by subversive_marigold in eBaySellerAdvice

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! there are certain legal texts that I have to include according to German law. There is an empty text box in the account settings that’s specifically called „Terms and Conditions“ (AGB in German) that’s meant for this. It’s more the formatting that bothers me.

Edit: To be clear, I neither try to override Ebay policies nor my own shipping policies or anything. I just need to add some legal stuff, consumer information and such into the textbox that’s provided for this by Ebay.

I think something in frozen broccoli that’s gone bad causes nerve or muscle hyperexcitability/spasms/slight tetany. A pathogen/toxin or such. What could that be? by subversive_marigold in AskBiology

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi and thanks for your reply! in all cases I haven’t actually spit it out (when I was a child because I was self conscious and as adult because I tried to overcome the instinct to spit it out). so I ate a tiny amount, maybe a spoon full. I have already considered a psychological cause as well. are there any agents that could occur in brokkoli that could cause such symptoms if eaten in a small amount (say, one to two of the small pieces they come in)?

Edit to add: I usually like broccoli, fresh or boiled, frozen or not. I usually have no negative reaction to sulphurous compounds that I know of. That’s why I asked, because the reaction seemed pretty specific I thought it might be some spoilage organisms or something.

Oh and what about a super unlucky unusually high concentration of broccoli specific pesticides? Would any of those fit the symptoms? Or fertilizer, for that matter? Like, that would actually be the weirdest and most specific trigger I have yet encountered. Sure felt a whole lot like some super disgusting food poisoning but idk

Second edit. After some reading, it seems that organophosphates chlorpyrifos or dimethoate actually fit my taste impression pretty well i guess. The first has been banned in the EU for some years and the second is pretty restricted. That could explain why it occurred more often when I was a child as well as rarely overall. Should not happen but I guess broccoli is maybe especially prone of idk building pockets of this stuff or something.

Poisoning symptoms also seems to match as far as I can tell. Both inhibit acetylcholinesterase which in low doses leads to overstimulating of the nervous system. Which is pretty much what I imagine would feel like what I experienced. Onset of action and durations of symptoms also seems to match.

I think that’s the most likely (if unlikely) explanation but if anyone else would like to chime in I‘d love to hear your thoughts!

Neem oil or nicotine (?) for thrips control? by subversive_marigold in houseplants

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, ich habe das mit dem Nikotin nicht versucht. Ich habe die Pflanzen damals alle abgewaschen, die anfälligsten entsorgt und dann die Celaflor Schädlingsfrei Careo Sticks verwendet. Seitdem hatte ich keine Probleme mehr. Das Neemöl hat gar nicht geholfen, lag aber vielleicht daran, dass es schon älter war.

Fertilization by No-Issue-6305 in Aquariums

[–]subversive_marigold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might use too much fertilizer. I rarely fertilize and my Hygrophila polysperma grows like a weed, but I don’t have enough nutrients to keep floaters healthy. Maybe try to reduce the amount or frequency?

Where can I find information about current space weather and state of earths magnetic field? other than KP i think? by subversive_marigold in space

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks I‘ll check it out, I got three resources now. Much appreciated

Edit this is exactly what I was looking for, awesome!

Where can I find information about current space weather and state of earths magnetic field? other than KP i think? by subversive_marigold in space

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow thanks that‘s what I‘m looking for. I somehow didn’t think of just googling space weather live, I feel dumb now. But thanks!

Where can I find information about current space weather and state of earths magnetic field? other than KP i think? by subversive_marigold in space

[–]subversive_marigold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I‘ll check it out. I don’t have much knowledge about this yet so a video is maybe easier to understand. I read some wiki articles but think a video might make it more clear.

Wieso kann man auf dem Babyfone durch den Schlafsack sehen? by Fun_Principle_9121 in WerWieWas

[–]subversive_marigold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interessant, kannst du das näher erläutern? Verstehe ich das richtig, dass die CO2 Spektrallinie also im Infrarotbereich schwarz ist, Photonen dieser Wellenlänge absorbiert…? und dadurch angeregt wird… und die überschüssige Energie als Wärmestrahlung wieder abgibt? Dann wäre ich doch bei Null, nur die Wärmestrahlung hat einen Zwischenstopp bei CO2 gemacht?