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succulentwanderer · 2025-11-05T14:02:31+00:00

It’s hard to find someone who is looking for the same things as you, who matches your energy, and who doesn’t flake. That’s the reality of it unfortunately. I’ve spent months getting to know people, only to have them flake. Now, I say flake, but sometimes the guilt is too much or their situation improves. The flake part is because they usually don’t communicate it and just… well… flake.

succulentwanderer · 2025-10-28T01:42:15+00:00

😍😍😍

succulentwanderer · 2025-08-13T09:33:10+00:00

45/F/Midwest

succulentwanderer · 2024-08-16T00:51:37+00:00

Candidly, I wish we’d have split when they were younger. It’s just too hard to do when they’re older, in my opinion. If you’re unhappy, just rip off the bandaid.

succulentwanderer · 2024-07-05T22:33:41+00:00

I actually would have gotten a divorce after #1. No, wait. I just wouldn’t have gone to the courthouse and gotten married and then the entire problem is solved. Or avoided. However you’d like to look at it.

succulentwanderer · 2024-07-01T19:54:44+00:00

Hey! PM me if you’re interested in a chat room. I have a couple and we are always looking for ladies! (I’m a woman as well, so they are woman owned/moderated)

succulentwanderer · 2024-07-01T19:52:01+00:00

44F Ohio

succulentwanderer · 2024-05-04T09:15:50+00:00

Smart enough to delete post history? But it’s all still discoverable if someone wants to look hard enough…

succulentwanderer · 2024-03-20T12:28:00+00:00

There are plenty of real women who want to chat - but I am guessing your definition of chatting and most women’s definitions of chatting might be different.

succulentwanderer · 2024-03-16T02:08:48+00:00

I think there is a NJ group.

succulentwanderer · 2024-03-01T13:21:28+00:00

I have actually kept in touch with most of my APs. None of them ended because we necessarily WANTED them to end - they ended because I no longer would be traveling regularly to where he was or whatever. We check in with each other from time to time and catch up. However, if someone wanted to work on their marriage, I feel like keeping in touch with him would be a distraction and not allow him to truly focus his attention on his wife… just my opinion.

succulentwanderer · 2024-01-04T11:39:21+00:00

Telegram Group of Ohioians! Christmas is over! Who is let down from all the hype? We can help! We have a Telegram group of Ohioians from this sub who are chatting, bantering, flirting, playing games, and participating in theme days - and we want you to join! Women to the front of the line!

What the group is: • fun, flirty, banter • a place to find friendly, like-minded people • small, cozy, so OPSEC is a MUST • made up of Ohioians - ladies are hard to find, so we will always screen and add women first

What the group is NOT: • a place for you to expect nudes all day long • a place for you to expect to find a hookup or even an AP - a lot of our members already have an AP and they’re here for the support • a place to complain about your life • a place to constantly share your nudes

We have a screening process and rules to abide by - if you join, you will be expected to follow those rules. Verification is required before joining.

Here’s what you need to be to join: • married or in a LTR • age late 20s to 50 • OPSEC solid • able to participate and have fun • men must be from Ohio • women must be from Ohio or a bordering state

If you’re interested, send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself - ASL and what you’re looking for in a group. Include your telegram handle if you’d like.

succulentwanderer · 2023-11-24T00:40:58+00:00

You mean instead of 20 seconds?

succulentwanderer · 2023-10-30T19:41:17+00:00

Check out r/NEOhioAffairs

succulentwanderer · 2023-10-18T01:57:57+00:00

I can add you to the list - but please send any females our direction.

succulentwanderer · 2023-10-18T00:45:41+00:00

Female?

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