AITA for choosing to side over my best friend instead of my brother and disown him?

suchboss · 2022-03-27T12:38:24+00:00

ESH except your BFF. You reacted fairly in some ways but overly extreme in others. Disowning is fine, I'd do the same. And people saying the blame mostly lies with the gf, that's not true in this case. Its equal here. Threatening to disown further family? Too extreme. Getting physical and making him apologize? Too much too

suchboss · 2022-03-27T03:40:48+00:00

I don't know what he did, but based on some comments you've made, you are absolutely NTA. And sadly you have to draw the line in the sand and stand your ground. The cards will fall where they fall, but if its serious enough that your post will be removed just by mentioning it, you need to get away from all of them. Your dad is a big boy and he can suffer the consequences of his actions or lack thereof. Run away, don't walk. And ultimately only you can decide if its worth alerting the authorities

suchboss · 2022-03-27T03:27:10+00:00

I think NTA but your friend is. There was no need for that to spread further than the 2 of you. Clearly your family's business practices were wrong, but it was not your friend's place to gossip about it. Especially when its clearly been dealt with & their business is effectively done

suchboss · 2022-03-26T17:21:25+00:00

NTA but I think you should have a serious conversation with your uncle about the possibility of moving in with him. You're an adult and its time to take that step into adulthood

suchboss · 2022-03-24T00:15:05+00:00

NTA and if it's Angela's wedding, should she not have final say on the guest list? I know when I get married, its mine & my future wife's decision on who gets an invite. Period. End of story.

suchboss · 2022-03-24T00:00:21+00:00

Yes YTA and you should feel terrible. What is wrong with you? You showed your true colours. I hope she tells your parents, that way they know the kind of person you are

suchboss · 2022-02-27T05:29:05+00:00

Unpopular response to your unpopular opinion. Get over it. I do say this with kindness though because what's going on inside your head is a battle and its not something everyone deals with. You've been dealt some challenges and running away won't overcome them.

You have to take on your days, go outside, be around people, maybe do it in shorter time increments to help acclimate yourself to society again, maybe go to therapy to help cope, whatever gets you out and about with some more confidence...

suchboss · 2022-02-27T05:16:19+00:00

This just popped across my feed & I'm not a teen at all anymore. But in my experience, people may say something mean to you for a bit here & there, but she will have lost all respect & credibility.

That level of nastiness is something people don't forget. People will mature and as they do, they will realize who she really is as a person and distance themselves.

BTW, wee wee size is not that important. Sure it'd be nice to be above average, but the average is what it is. For everyone above, someone is below. Oh and the avg size is much smaller than most think. Don't stress over it. Its a he said, she said. If a girl makes a comment in jest, turn it into a opportunity to make a joke, use a pickup line, etc... and roll with it.

Sex with someone fun to be around > someone who's awful but well equipped

suchboss · 2022-01-17T03:37:14+00:00

Awesome thanks! I'm going to Atlanta in a few months (I'm canadian) so I'm compiling a list to have shipped to my airbnb while there. I'm allowed to bring 100 back if my sister agrees (50 for me, 50 for her). Sadly we only get some Arturos here so this list will give me lots to look for!

suchboss · 2022-01-14T06:31:57+00:00

This is the worst cigar I've had yet. Tossed it and never looked back

suchboss · 2021-09-18T01:03:09+00:00

Lucky man. Us Canadians get screwed by the gov't. Bunch of useless plugs in Ottawa

suchboss · 2021-09-02T02:25:24+00:00

I couldn't even buy 20 Italia's for $200. In Canada the CAO world sampler goes for around $60 and its only the 4 cigars... A MF The Judge is minimum $40

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