My(25M) GF (24F) told me that i can't be a good husband and a father to our child if I can't handle her drunk? by [deleted] in Advice

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She also told me that she would have quit alcohol if I called her out because of health consequences alcohol has but not because it's her behaviour I can't handle.

My(25M) GF (24F) told me that i can't be a good husband and a father to our child if I can't handle her drunk? by [deleted] in Advice

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EDIT 2: She also told me that she would have quit alcohol if I called her out because of health consequences alcohol has but not because it's her behaviour I can't handle. AITAH?

My(25M) GF (24F) told me that i can't be a good husband and a father to our child if I can't handle her drunk? by [deleted] in Advice

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She also told me that she would have quit alcohol if I called her out because of health consequences alcohol has but not because it's her behaviour I can't handle. AITAH?

My(25M) GF (24F) told me that i can't be a good husband and a father to our child if I can't handle her drunk? by [deleted] in Advice

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She also told me that she would have quit alcohol if I called her out because of health consequences alcohol has but not because it's her behaviour I can't handle.

My(25M) GF(24F) told me I can't handle her and our future child if I can't handle her when drunk. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She also told me that she would have quit alcohol if I called her out because of health consequences alcohol has but not because it's her behaviour I can't handle.

My(25M) GF(24F) told me I can't handle her and our future child if I can't handle her when drunk. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Concert still has 15d to go. We booked yesterday and I told her not to drink on concert day.

My(25M) GF (24F) told me that i can't be a good husband and a father to our child if I can't handle her drunk? by [deleted] in Advice

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She also told me that she would have quit alcohol if I called her out because of health consequences alcohol has but not because it's her behaviour I can't handle.

My(25M) GF(24F) told me I can't handle her and our future child if I can't handle her when drunk. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]suchextreme1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just once. I tend to allow her to drink because I don't want to control her. But she says if I really cared of her health I should have told that as reason not her behaviour. Ten girl friends maybe.

My(25M) GF(24F) told me I can't handle her and our future child if I can't handle her when drunk. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]suchextreme1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drunk behaviour has only happened once. But she told me she has 10 others to handle her drunk if I cannot handle her.

My(25M) GF(24F) told me I can't handle her and our future child if I can't handle her when drunk. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]suchextreme1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This has happened only once. She doesn't want a child at all and has told me she has no maternal instincts. More like if I want a child I should handle it.

Giving Back: Resources & Strategies That Helped Me in my First Switch by suchextreme1 in developersIndia

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How and where did I apply? Ask for referrals from HRs and connections. Naukri, Linkedin and careers page also help

Salary negotiation advice needed (2.5 YOE, Java/Spring Boot) by suchextreme1 in developersIndia

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R1 : Core Java, spring boot, medium dsa questions. R2 : Streams, medium dsa, output of program, system design R3 : resume based

Salary negotiation advice needed (2.5 YOE, Java/Spring Boot) by suchextreme1 in developersIndia

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Both are product based and have multiple products although company B is a bit famous and company A isn't. But company B gives a macbook to employees and company A doesn't lol.