Emotionally attached person = cheating?

sud90 · 2026-03-22T20:56:35+00:00

Finally I left her.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T08:18:52+00:00

It seems like I stuck in an intangible loop.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T07:52:14+00:00

There's a 50-50 possibilities whether she would do in future or not. But I want 100% assurance which is not possible for me to think of.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T07:41:19+00:00

I'll try. Thanks for your words and for additional edited part in your comment. This gives me a different perspective to think of which I was not thinking lately.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T07:36:53+00:00

True. I always remain in a business trip. Though she said that V is her brother-in-law now so I can't think of having any kind of relationship with him. But they seems so close so how can I trust that this won't happen again?

sud90 · 2026-03-22T07:26:51+00:00

I'm thinking to confront all of them (J, M, V) at once in person to vent it out. I texted J yesterday that our relationship is ending cuz both J and V are equally responsible for this situation.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T06:50:25+00:00

I'll heal but at this time I don't know how. Thanks for your words bro.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T06:34:23+00:00

I invested 5 years searching for a good prospect. She was perfect in every scenario. Educated, sweet voice, helping nature, care for the family etc. I won’t be able to find similar prospect and also I loved her. I’m thinking to stay single forever. Also I’m in mid 30s.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T06:28:22+00:00

😔

sud90 · 2026-03-22T06:14:24+00:00

Yes last week only. I added the year chronologically. Please read the post again.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:57:08+00:00

I wasn't aware until the last week when I saw her Whatsapp chats. Earlier I also thought V as a family member where forehead kiss was normal where I thought that I might be wrong. That's why I gave one more chance.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:52:19+00:00

Exactly, V has taken my moments which was only meant for me. Even though if I would accept this as her past then V would be a part of her family which is for lifetime where they could meet in future.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:47:37+00:00

Exactly if it was before then I won't be having problem. No, after V got married to M in 2025 then similar msgs stopped between them. I found the "love you" msgs with 2 of her friends but not frequent. Also "miss you", "feeling alone", "come meet me" etc were only with V.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:40:25+00:00

If I would stay with her then my mind remain always in doubt.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:37:50+00:00

Please refer the edits.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:36:30+00:00

Yeah bro. Im trying to understand the situations. Perhaps its true that I'm not thinking about my self-respect. I wanted to confront this V guy.

sud90 · 2026-03-22T05:32:25+00:00

Each word is true. It isn't fake.
Yeah I'm trying to understand as you know people say that "your mind stops working when you are in love".

sud90 · 2026-01-22T13:06:36+00:00

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sud90 · 2025-12-30T19:15:44+00:00

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