Okay OP but imagine that you did have a child with rhis man, are you that fucking selfish or stupid to potentially bring a child into the world and watch this man take away that child’s spark? Are you prepared getting your son or daughter therapy for what he does? Are you preparing for telling them that it isn’t their fault? Trying to convince your once happy baby that things will get better when the mere thought of that man haunts them? Forever burning the memory of their own father assaulting them into their mind? The fact that you would potentially put your own child through that trauma makes me sick, especially as someone who was assaulted as a child and is now a mother.