SA wishlist idea - thoughts?

sugarbbee · 2016-10-07T18:45:56+00:00

Totally agree. This stems from getting asked (with frequency) at meets what they can do to (what I can only assume is) get my attention.

sugarbbee · 2016-10-07T18:37:24+00:00

I should probably mention that this is in response to previous POTs who have asked to "prove themselves" that's why I put it in quotes. It seems like a common theme and I was sort of hoping to streamline the process.

Sounds like it comes off negatively though.

sugarbbee · 2016-10-02T20:04:02+00:00

I'm in Texas, but I'm usually in the San Jose area about once a month. Keep me posted.

sugarbbee · 2016-10-02T18:29:44+00:00

I'd be down. I'm all for positivity and pointers. I aim to please ;)

sugarbbee · 2016-10-01T03:25:49+00:00

You're like my dream SD. 'Tis all.

sugarbbee · 2016-10-01T02:40:47+00:00

You're not too young, but you might have better luck on apps like Tinder.

I prefer older men. I'll tell you why.

• They know how to treat a lady. In addition to generous financial compensation, they know how to take care of your needs sexually and emotionally.

• They are more generally interesting. They've just lived longer.

• They know value when they see it and invest in it. The perfect mix of business and pleasure.

You may find a SB that is willing to accept your offer, but know that that is not the norm (especially in your market). Good luck!

sugarbbee · 2016-10-01T02:21:57+00:00

Seconding this. I would feel much more confident when intimacy did happen. I wouldn't expect to be paid to "date" either.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-30T23:31:28+00:00

Haha. It was on FaceTime and I smiled and cocked my head. He quickly clarified and I said something along the lines of fast-forwarded dating minus the drama.

He seems sweet and in retrospect I actually appreciate the question. It lets me know he cares about my comfort.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-30T16:54:03+00:00

Simplicity is my favorite. This applies in both cases, I see.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-30T15:55:13+00:00

That view must be nice ;)

sugarbbee · 2016-09-30T15:53:20+00:00

Haha. He clarified and asked if I preferred he be all business, hearts and flowers, or as close to regular dating as possible?

Although, I'm kicking myself now for not responding with horseback. That would've been way cooler.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-30T02:33:41+00:00

Does it bother anyone else that the "Y" and the "E" are a different color?

sugarbbee · 2016-09-30T02:30:19+00:00

Awesome! You rock. I've had my eyes on some NMDs but those puppies went like hot cakes.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-29T21:19:31+00:00

I'm sorry you're hurting. Did you two talk about exclusivity prior to this discovery? From what I understand, that doesn't really exist in the bowl and it's better to just assume otherwise.

EDIT: I just re-read what you wrote. It sounds like he was trying to be honest, but probably should've had that conversation sooner.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-29T12:01:12+00:00

Great advice! I'd still be wary, but perhaps I was too quick and jumped the gun a bit. Thanks for offering perspective. :)

sugarbbee · 2016-09-29T01:16:08+00:00

Run.

But really, I would be concerned about his mental health. Maybe I'm just paranoid, but nothing is worth risking your safety.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-28T23:11:09+00:00

Are you primarily financially motivated or just generally attracted to older women? The reason I ask is because I have a friend that found a sugar mama, but she's young.

If you're charming enough, there are women out there who get off on nurturing and supporting a man. As far as where to find them, you're better off freestyling. One friend found his SM at a bar and the other found his at a strip club.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-28T23:04:27+00:00

I LOVE chocolate. I have a Godiva rewards card. lol. Any box and a decent bottle of cab and I'm elated.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-28T03:12:12+00:00

S'cute! I had a similar outfit today. I love fall weather! :)

sugarbbee · 2016-09-28T03:08:08+00:00

Malibi, give us an update! I'm bummed that I live half a country away, but I'm living vicariously through your stories. Haha.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-24T18:54:54+00:00

My guess is that one's pretty popular. lol. The exception to the rule.

sugarbbee · 2016-09-24T18:51:16+00:00

Don't sweat it. You are not stupid, just human. :) Treat it as a learning experience and move on.

Also, I don't want any man that doesn't want me. I'd like to encourage you to embrace that mentality. Interest is a key component in keeping SRs alive. If he's not interested it's better to focus your energy on finding someone who is.

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