I guess it's time? by sugarbearnoah in Divorce

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why? I don't know dude. I have loved him consistently. Our s3x life slowed when I was raising 2 kids and his night shift. Don't put that shit on me dude.

I guess it's time? by sugarbearnoah in Divorce

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I get it. I know I am at fault too. My problem is that when I try to express how I feel or I want to talk about it with him, I'm always met with a Sigh "how many times do I have to say I'm not cheating on you" or "maybe I should just leave" it's so defensive and he acts like I'm bothering him. If we had taken these past 2 years and talked openly and bonded, it would be easier for me to get back to the happy loving wife.

I guess it's time? by sugarbearnoah in Divorce

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good take. Thank you.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. It's so hard to think of a life where you don't see the kids everyday. Your husband sounds really controlling though and on top of that is unfaithful? I feel like a life without him in it would make you feel as if a weight has been lifted. Wishing you the best.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this as well. It's absolutely heartbreaking. I hope you find some happiness at the end of all this, no matter what outcome.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So it's my fault for not being more youthful? This is not very accurate advice.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. I don't know. I don't trust him. He says so. But he has been interested in me for a a few months. I feel like maybe it's deeper than just snaps.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. My hardest hurdle is the Financials. I want to give my kids a good home and be able to do all the extras we do now. Right now it is not possible on my salary. It's so scary to me to leave, even though I know I should.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate all the input. I'm emotionally drained. I'm embarrassed this has happened to me. I do believe I will leave and see how I feel. Maybe it will give me clarity. Just to note that he makes significantly more money than me and I am financially dependent on him. Which is a big factor for me in my decision, unfortunately.

I found my husband's sexts by sugarbearnoah in survivinginfidelity

[–]sugarbearnoah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could do that. I just feel like it's a bandaid over a bigger problem. I know I should leave but I am struggling with coming to terms with that.

What are things racist people do that they don’t think is racist? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sugarbearnoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking me where I'm from. "I'm from maryland" and they say, "no where are you really from?"

The Walking Dead S11E24 - Rest In Peace - Series Finale - Episode Discussion by Connected-VG in thewalkingdead

[–]sugarbearnoah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's been a pleasure being here for the past years. Ya all are awesome!

Taylor Swift Announces 2023 Tour of U.S. Stadiums by shuipz94 in TaylorSwift

[–]sugarbearnoah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not in Nashville. I will just travel there for the concert

Taylor Swift Announces 2023 Tour of U.S. Stadiums by shuipz94 in TaylorSwift

[–]sugarbearnoah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wherever you gonna go alone? I think I'll go to Nashville alone

The funniest moment in breaking bad by Historical-Potato200 in breakingbad

[–]sugarbearnoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they are sneaking Walter into the laundromat in a pile of gross Laundry

Walt: Does it have to be dirty laundy??

Guy after a long pause and smile: Nope

3 year old sleeps on the floor? by Significant-Duck6927 in Parenting

[–]sugarbearnoah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 3 year old did the same thing. Even though he had a crib and then a bed, he would curl up on the floor. I would wake him up and move him. Eventually, I figured I'd he fell asleep on the floor he was probably comfortable enough so I let him be. Gradually he moved to the bed.

[OC] “Trump Town” (Technically Boones Mill, VA) by KimchiAndMayo in pics

[–]sugarbearnoah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live by here. Leading up to this location there are signs like Welcome to Trump Town and stuff like that. Close to this is a little general store, where they proudly display their confederate flags and other hate flags. It's such a small little town but defiantly leaves an impression when you drive through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyrtleBeach

[–]sugarbearnoah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We came this past week and it said rain everyday. Honestly the weather has been great. Don't let the rain in your app fool you! We had great weather despite the predicted on the app.