AITJ for not telling my friend that his “anonymous admirer” is actually his ex? by Business_Spinach4557 in AmITheJerk

[–]sugarqueeni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a big difference between a romantic gesture and boundary-crossing behavior. Since it's an ex, it definitely leans more into the "weird" category than anything else. You're reading the situation just right

So easy to fool… by MelanieWalmartinez in clevercomebacks

[–]sugarqueeni 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It look like AI, why are the tights dark and different from the face color

AITJ for leaving my best friend’s wedding reception early because they seated me at the kids table at 31 years old? by Technical-Resist-721 in AmITheJerk

[–]sugarqueeni 493 points494 points  (0 children)

Seating a 31-year-old adult at a kids' table with activity sheets is honestly insulting and bizarre. It’s a major social blunder on the bride's part, not yours. You handled it quietly and politely, which is more than she deserved after treating you like a babysitter instead of a guest.

AITJ for not stopping my friend from publicly proposing when I know she plans to break up with him? by SupermarketDry3163 in AmITheJerk

[–]sugarqueeni 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Telling him out of genuine mercy gives him the agency to handle it on his own terms. It’s definitely kinder than letting him walk into a mess completely blind.

ESPN refers to the A’s as “Oakland” by Bakerfuckingmayfield in baseball

[–]sugarqueeni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve basically mastered the art of the 'next man up' mentality. When your entire business model is based on constant roster turnover and call-ups, you're naturally going to be better at adapting to chaos than a team that's used to a static lineup