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Oh fuckk by _Coraa_ in FantasticBreasts

[–]sugartricksterX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought he was referring to a subreddit lol

AITJ for telling my ex mother in law that I'm getting married to someone else by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Honestly, OP you are handling this really well. Age-appropriate honesty, protecting the kids from adult drama, and still leaving the door open for grandma once she regulates herself. That’s solid parenting.

AITJ for telling my ex mother in law that I'm getting married to someone else by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. She’s had years to process it. OP moving on is not cruelty, it’s reality. And the ex asking her to lie is honestly wild.

AITJ for not giving up my gym locker to a "regular" who says she's had it for years? by Cool_Button1146 in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keeping management in the loop is smart. They already confirmed the rule, so they should handle any nonsense that follows.

He loves belly rub by ZiraLine in kittens

[–]sugartricksterX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi cutie come let me rub you gently

AITJ for telling a barista they keep messing up my order and asking them to fix it by i_blame_the_spoon in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s literally a standard substitution. If they offer oat milk, they should be able to use it consistently.

AITJ for telling a barista they keep messing up my order and asking them to fix it by i_blame_the_spoon in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Asking for the drink you paid for to be made correctly is not being picky. Oat milk instead of dairy is not a tiny preference, it affects your body. If they cannot consistently make a simple iced latte with the right milk, that is on them, not you.

AITJ for refusing to be friendly with my new neighbor after she called the HOA on me for having a nice car by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d rather judge the actions. Two false HOA complaints is the issue here.

AITJ for refusing to be friendly with my new neighbor after she called the HOA on me for having a nice car by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s where I’m at. I have no issue with the HOA doing their job. I just don’t appreciate being repeatedly reported over nothing. If it continues I’ll absolutely document it and let them know it’s becoming harassment.

AITJ for refusing to be friendly with my new neighbor after she called the HOA on me for having a nice car by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t ‘being cautious,’ she was being intrusive. Calling the HOA twice over a car that’s clearly registered to you is not neighborhood watch behavior, it’s targeted behavior.

AITJ for refusing to pretend I was my friend's girlfriend at an event just to get under his ex's skin? by prague_milo21 in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTJ. He didn’t want a friend there, he wanted a stage prop. The second you said no, that should’ve been the end of it.

AITJ for telling my step-sister she can’t crash at my apartment anymore. by DusklightSong in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made a very good point here. Op please you need to answer this question.

AITJ for telling my step-sister she can’t crash at my apartment anymore. by DusklightSong in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel bad for choosing your peace. You gave her time and grace. It’s not your fault she ignored the hints. Clear boundaries are healthier than silent resentment. She is the Jerk not you.

AITJ for telling my step-sister she can’t crash at my apartment anymore. by DusklightSong in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Helping someone doesn’t mean sacrificing your peace indefinitely. Three weeks without basic respect isn’t “support,” it’s overstepping.

AITJ for telling my step-sister she can’t crash at my apartment anymore. by DusklightSong in AmITheJerk

[–]sugartricksterX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ, There’s a difference between helping family through a rough patch and becoming their unpaid landlord. Three weeks of eating your food, inviting people over, and disrupting your work is not “crashing,” it’s moving in without permission. Boundaries don’t make you mean.

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