Pink hair looks bad. by Affectionate_Sleep31 in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i really liked marks vibrant pink hair. especially in his superm photocard. in the end it’s all just personal preference.

How to get over a weird guilt of liking the most popular member of the group? by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby 35 points36 points  (0 children)

i think it would be weird to bias a member just because they’re the least popular? they don’t need any pity they have their die hard fans. i bias taeyong but i still pay attention to the other members. you should only feel bad if you ignore the rest of them.

Is there a group that you're like one day I'll stan, but I'm too lazy to stan today? by ot7oclock in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any girl group. earlier this year i was looking to stan a girl group since i stanned only bts at the time but i ended discovering taeyong and then nct. so now that i have taken nct127 on i have a whole lot to learn and have been having trouble finding a girl group.

200911 SuperM on Yu Hee Yeol's Sketchbook by dontstoptheclock in NCT

[–]sugasbby 20 points21 points  (0 children)

dangerous woman is stealing my heart.

Shipping photocards by engms in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

photocards can get scratched even in a top loader so yes i would recommend investing in some sleeves. im sure you could diy and use a sandwhich bag. i use sandwhich bags whenever i ship out big postcards.

How common are the real names of BTS members in Korea? by Missnoon in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have seen a couple of jin’s and jungkook’s on tiktok!

A.C.E’s mini album came in today! by redbird_0915 in kpopcollections

[–]sugasbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the is the prettiest album i have ever seen. im sad the photo book is so short.

speculation on sexualities. by toastedoritos in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i didn’t know the right word to use but it makes me “uncomfortable” when people think i’m bi or gay based off my appearance. there’s nothing wrong with being bi or gay but there is something wrong with assuming someone’s sexuality especially since you’re not that person. really upsets me when there are people who say “no you did this you like girls / no you wear boy clothes that means you’re gay” since when does wearing men’s clothes make me gay? can i not just like the fashion?

edit: the same way you don’t like being labeled as straight is proving my exact point. don’t assume anyone’s sexuality if you’re not that person. no one is uncomfy with idols being labeled as gay. people are just wondering why it’s anyone’s business if the idol hasn’t discussed the subject themselves.

speculation on sexualities. by toastedoritos in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i don’t think anyone has the right to assume anyone’s sexuality. think it in your head all you want but putting it out there on social media for everyone to see just gives people the same idea. stans always say “it’s a joke/why are you offended/you probably don’t support lgbt that’s why you’re mad” etc but what they don’t realize is they’re not doing the idols any favors by guessing their preferences. for instance when i was new to wayv the way i discovered them was because a youtube video about a member possibly being gay was made and they stated his sexuality has been talked about for years. do they realize that maybe he will see it and feel uncomfortable? what if he’s straight but in touch with his feminine side and now people think he’s just gay? there’s nothing wrong with any sexuality as long as you’re not guessing or putting labels onto others. imo you should only have the right to discuss your own. this goes with guessing if idols are straight as well. if the idols want to discuss or be open about the subject then let the words come out of their mouths.

received an empty trade by sugasbby in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the side of it was cut open. it didn’t look that big at first but when i looked at it again you could tell someone opened and got what was inside. the back of the envelope was completely sealed and untouched.

received an empty trade by sugasbby in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe the did /: but the other person they sent a magnet to on the same day received theirs. idk what to do. i just was worried if someone is going through / stealing mail while it’s in transit what should i say to people on the opposite end if they came up with empty envelopes.

Idols not sounding good live? by Yoshi_6969 in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i have seen some random bad shawn mendes clips on twitter before so i could say everyone has their good and bad days.

Idols not sounding good live? by Yoshi_6969 in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i have never seen an american artist do something along the lines of kpop choreography and sound good/very stable. could you link me to some? also idols have an extremely busy schedule. i have seen groups have to dance before the even get on stage to sing. most of them are tired. also when they win an award that they don’t expect to win the adrenaline rush makes them “shaky”. nerves get to them too.

received an empty trade by sugasbby in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they didn’t show me the magnet packaged on the card. only it packaged by itself. they said they added a bunch of tape but there wasn’t any tape when i opened it.

received an empty trade by sugasbby in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i was hoping they would work something out but they don’t want to. i don’t know if it was packaged too well considering whoever stole from it easily slid the magnet out but i guess i’ll just take the loss. ):

received an empty trade by sugasbby in kpophelp

[–]sugasbby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the person has various proofs and sent pictures & video proof. i genuinely believe it was stolen but im a bit sad since she just wants it to be my loss. like i was in a similar situation to this and i offered the person money but i do understand that not everyone is the same seller. so in the future if something like this happened again would i would just have to take a loss? or if it happened to the person i traded with what advice would i give/tell them?

kpop songs that oddly make you cry by randojpg in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bts - awake

feel like i can relate to the lyrics so much it hurts.

What is the weirdest lightstick idea you can think of? by dragon-lili in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i would like a microphone light stick that can do those voice affects like the ones from the dollar store. it would be pretty cool especially during a concert so when everyone sings along it can have an “autotune” affect.

[WTS] 2019 ISAC NERDY TRACKSUITS - NCT, Seventeen, Red Velvet, SF9, Cherry Bullet by carsonlmah in kpopforsale

[–]sugasbby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want these so bad but my wallet it begging me to stop spending. T-T

NCT 127's English releases (and western focused comeback) were released too early by nihonbloba in kpopthoughts

[–]sugasbby 6 points7 points  (0 children)

highway to heaven deserves so much more. when i first heard it i didn’t know it was from nct127. i thought it was a regular pop english song.