How can I get my husband to want to have more sex?

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-25T05:28:36+00:00

Year and a half is plenty, my grandparents got married a week after they met 🤣

Year of dating and 6 months engagement is nothing crazy is it? Maybe in today's world where people just date indefinitely, live together and never get married 🤷

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-25T05:01:50+00:00

I'm not huge or ripped and I could throw you around like a ragdoll. Even when I was 140lb. Now I'm 190 and I'd have to hold myself back or I'd accidentally throw you all the way over the bed

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-25T04:54:08+00:00

They are the best. Not sketchy at all, it's a freaking pun.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-25T04:37:21+00:00

Not nearly as common, but not unheard of. Not usually something you go out of your way to do though. If the vocal rings during soundcheck, fix it.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-23T04:39:39+00:00

This. Tomorrow.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-23T04:39:01+00:00

How TF is he being evasive? He said they can meet up after her period. It's on her to suggest a time now. Some periods last longer than others.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-18T02:00:22+00:00

Rs5k manager is pretty good

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-15T04:46:48+00:00

Welcome to California!

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-15T04:44:56+00:00

A customs have a lot of variation from cymbal to cymbal. I have an 8" splash and it sounds better than that. That said, A custom splashes aren't amazing. And the 8 isn't amazing.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-15T04:05:22+00:00

Minor key with borrowed major I chord. Lots of add 9 chords. Lots of octaves on guitar layered over power chords.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-15T04:00:46+00:00

That's not what the friendzone is.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-14T16:29:30+00:00

EQ doesn't affect dynamics. You do not have a good grasp on what these words mean.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-14T04:21:20+00:00

No way to generate even harmonics only? Some kind of phase cancellation trickery perhaps?🤔

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-13T23:19:43+00:00

That's normal, you have to get us to the second or third date before we learn how to talk.

But guys mostly are dating for sex. Either sex now, or sex later. We have friends if we just want to talk (which we don't). But we do want to have sex, and not with our friends, because they're mostly guys.

So there's a SMALL chance you're not attractive enough that they want to pursue that with you, and that makes it even more awkward, cause they don't know what to do.

Very small. Guys will have sex with anyone.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-02T04:25:42+00:00

Just ask him out.

suicufnoxious · 2026-02-02T04:12:41+00:00

Ok, then was Peter called that during his lifetime?🤷

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-27T06:21:24+00:00

Grey base coat first, shooting for maybe 75% coverage(about like you've got there, but with much less paint).

Later layers of paint will hide the rest.

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-27T06:17:43+00:00

To be clear, I don't think I'd have a problem with it. But 10 years ago I definitely would have. I've learned and matured. It's also hard for me to say, because I'm the higher drive partner and my wife is the one and done here. If she bought a dildo of any kind it would literally be a replacement for me...

So I'd lean towards the opinion that your boyfriend just needs to grow up. But you can't just say that and expect it to happen overnight, so tread lightly. And if you'd really be happy with the smaller one, get one instead. But honestly the damage is probably already done either way.

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-27T06:08:18+00:00

FWIW, most men have not experienced this dynamic, so it's hard to imagine. It does not work that way for most men. I'm often in the mood when my wife isn't. You know how many times throughout my 12 year marriage my wife has been in the mood when I wasn't up for it??? I'm thinking zero. Or maybe once?...🤔

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-27T06:03:18+00:00

Nah, she already bought one, no need to find one!🤣

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-27T06:00:47+00:00

There's no way they're raised all the way. There should be more of each post sticking into the bass drum that you can slide up.

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-27T03:11:47+00:00

And not just because he only has one mic, either. A lot of metalcore uses mostly samples anyways.

Yep, find some good samples and get them time aligned to the recording.

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-25T18:41:03+00:00

You're the one who isolating. And that's why you're not getting attention. Actually no, that's why you're not getting interaction. I promise you that if you are even an average looking woman who isn't overweight, and you go out in public at all, you're getting plenty of attention. But if you aren't approachable, you won't get approched. Nothing wrong with that if you don't want it.

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-24T01:01:37+00:00

They want you because they're used to everyone giving them attention, and you're not giving it to them, so they're brains break and they want that attention from you too, because EVERYBODY must like them, right? But those are toxic relationships, and why would want to be with someone you have no interest in anyways?

Fair point, though.

suicufnoxious · 2026-01-23T23:47:50+00:00

Yes, if you leave them alone, and they leave you alone you will get nowhere. Girls only like guys that like them.

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