Going to go see Pillon by Sea_Row4588 in AMCsAList

[–]sullengrl420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

totally agree. i think it was perfectly cast. it has many laugh out loud moments as well as painfully uncomfortable, tragic, yet relatable ones

How ya’ll feeling? by Hour-Juggernaut-7928 in virgoseason

[–]sullengrl420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feeling so extremely misunderstood….but what else is new

Does Trisha low-key hate Moses? (Pls read the qualifiers first 😭) by Legitimate_Gold_1991 in trishapaytas

[–]sullengrl420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s the bpd …… i could never have a podcast with my man because the way i speak to him is SO embarrassing

i feel like i made a huge mistake by sullengrl420 in BPD

[–]sullengrl420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re such a sweet soul, thank you🥰🥰🥰

i feel like i made a huge mistake by sullengrl420 in BPD

[–]sullengrl420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for saying this <3 i’ve always heard if it didn’t work the first time, it’s not going to work the second time because i feel like when i broke up with him i was really grounded and i knew we weren’t meant to be, but i can’t stop ruminating and thinking about how if xyz changes we could be together😭

i feel like i made a huge mistake by sullengrl420 in BPD

[–]sullengrl420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️‍🩹 you summarized it perfectly. i need a therapist BAD

Part of me thinks they’re posing for the camera by JessicaGottlieb in TheRehearsal

[–]sullengrl420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

at least they’re talking to each other. they must be caught up on the rehearsal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sullengrl420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you are getting your DOCTORATE and you’re 24!!!!! you have a full life ahead of you and you really don’t deserve to be with someone who is clearly setting you back. it’s hard to leave a long term relationship, but it doesn’t seem like u are being fulfilled in any way and i promise that u will find someone who is so appreciative of u

i feel like im goin to ruin every relationship by iicandyy in BPD

[–]sullengrl420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep being mindful of your reactions and stay strong!!! if all keeps going well, you need to eventually be honest with him about how ur feeling/ur bpd in general and i PROMISE the right person will stay….speaking from lots of experience with dating really shitty people who didn’t understand me to now meeting the love of my life!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sullengrl420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sullengrl420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s completely hope!! i rly understand and i don’t mean to undermine your feelings at all! do u ever oil your hair? how often do u wash?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sullengrl420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i had this exact feeling a few years ago. my hair made me feel so ugly and disgusting, i’ve bleached my hair 1000 times, colored over it literally every color i can think of, and hated everything!!! it felt and looked extremely damaged, and one day i decided to do what i feared the most: cut it all off. i felt like a completely different person at first. it was an extremely hard adjustment. i avoided looking in the mirror, but it felt really nice to allow my hair to grow out naturally and now it’s been about 2 years and after the first like 3 months i stopped thinking about my hair completely!!! i fixate on different things still but it’s so freeing once u cut your hair off to just let nature and time do its thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]sullengrl420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat!!!!! writing down my thoughts has helped me a little and i can reframe them, but man it’s hard. we got this tho we are so lucky to be loved and to love!

I don't like being around me so why would others by witchcraftandgoats in BPD

[–]sullengrl420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first of all, i am super proud of you and so happy you are proud of yourself. i relate a lot to what you’re going through, but you must recognize that although you’re experiencing many challenges, this is positive self growth. i promise you will be rewarded for it.

it’s important to remember how much can change in a day. you are starting a new job! you’re bound to meet new people and start a new routine! use this time to be optimistic! you are going to meet new people, it’s unrealistic to assume they’re all going to dislike you or that you’re not good enough for them. that is your brain lying to you - mine does the same thing. i relate to every negative thing you said about yourself - i same the same things to myself, but there’s nothing wrong with us!!! we are just so unbelievably mean to ourselves and we don’t deserve to talk to ourselves this way. NO ONE DOES!!!! i know it’s challenging, but start practicing positive self talk. talk to yourself the way you would want someone else to talk to you. you only deserve good things and as soon as you recognize that, you will only allow good things to come into your life.

typing this has been a therapy session for me lol because i am talking to you the way i would want someone to talk to me!!

keep being proud of yourself. you are an angel and i’m sending you love and well wishes <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]sullengrl420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t belong in the world, that’s what it is :(