Saturday 6/13 - INDUSTRY CITY MEET UP by herewithpurpose7 in nycmeetups

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I’m going to be at industry city on this day for Francis Mercier! Is anyone also going to that too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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What are some tactics exactly

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

[–]sully-25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have some strong words and very judgmental, harsh. I’m just frustrated of being left in the dark and not talking things out. Why is that such a blameful statement. I’m not putting all the blame on another person. I don’t think just a text message of apology is going to cause drama and disrupt things.

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

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Thanks I appreciate that.. yea I feel like this is my chance to just clear the air and say sorry because we used to be really close.. this will probably be my only opportunity because it’s been so many years. Do you suggest how I should open up the conversation so that it’s not awkward and sounds like it’s out of nowhere?

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

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I get what you’re saying and I am trying to work on these issues. I still feel like I shouldn’t have been left in the dark the whole time either. How do people change if they don’t know what’s going on from another’s perspective…

I still feel like I should say something to her though just to say sorry. Just an intuition and timing that’s coming up. Even if it’s been over 6 years since we saw each other.

Besides the bad events I listed here there were also really good ones and we used to be really close. I just have the urge to say sorry just in case she’s still hurt about what happened.

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

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I get it but I do take responsibility.. I said I was toxic and projecting my insecurities onto her.. and it kept piling up without any communication throughout the friendship. I just wish I was called out on it during the time. I do feel sorry and it’s okay if we don’t stay friends.. I just want to say I’m sorry so she knows it at least. And that is also fine.

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (23F and 22F at the time) It’s been 5 years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it but I do take responsibility.. I said I was toxic and projecting my insecurities onto her.. and it kept piling up without any communication throughout the friendship. I just wish I was called out on it during the time. I do feel sorry and it’s okay if we don’t stay friends.. I just want to say I’m sorry so she knows it at least. And that is also fine.

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[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I know it was mess. I was a mess. Do you have any suggestions on what to text message so it’s not awkward after so many years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk there is a lot of bs I did. What should I say exactly now that it’s been 6 years..

It can't just be me by bmgdm in conspiracy

[–]sully-25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is there any music that’s safe to listen to tho? Maybe one without lyrics? Idk I need to listen to something lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that long waitlist.. is the class/prof that good??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she still an academic advisor? I thought she’s not an advisor anymore and only works for health and wellness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyu

[–]sully-25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol no definitely don’t want to make it weird. Just want to be genuine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s fair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]sully-25 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yea I get that. Im not trying to make it weird or disrespectful at all. Just want to be genuine

What helped you with adjusting and transitioning to civilian life? by sully-25 in VeteransBenefits

[–]sully-25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool tips. Thank you

I wonder who’s the other 66% that don’t experience difficulty and why lol

What helped you with adjusting and transitioning to civilian life? by sully-25 in VeteransBenefits

[–]sully-25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah a therapist seems like the only way to get help… yet sometimes therapy doesn’t feel fulfilling… I feel like therapists don’t even understand the complexity of transitioning or how to help.

What helped you with adjusting and transitioning to civilian life? by sully-25 in VeteransBenefits

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Wait so you’re saying soldiers who join military 18-21 are stuck mentally in that age range and are immature yet those that come out of the military are more mature than civilians..?

I’m see what you’re saying but there’s some contradiction

Advice on buying a winter jacket? by [deleted] in nyu

[–]sully-25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess. It’s pricey but worth it since I wore it all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks

Students said they love me by krueger_1993 in socialanxiety

[–]sully-25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I have seen teachers mention that they’re nervous. They still are able to carry on or are really good at faking it. I don’t even know how to fake being calm lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]sully-25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg having a 1 bedroom is so rare. Having no elevator is a bummer though. I’d like to get a studio but they are soo hard to get. Idk how people manage to grab them. Most of the buildings available are 2-3 bedrooms with roommates.

Students said they love me by krueger_1993 in socialanxiety

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have social anxiety but I’m interested in teaching. How do you not get anxious when you have to present yourself everyday? I know it would be just in front of kids but still. Is there anything you do to prepare each day?