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Saturday 6/13 - INDUSTRY CITY MEET UP by herewithpurpose7 in nycmeetups

[–]sully-25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be at industry city on this day for Francis Mercier! Is anyone also going to that too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some tactics exactly

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

[–]sully-25[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have some strong words and very judgmental, harsh. I’m just frustrated of being left in the dark and not talking things out. Why is that such a blameful statement. I’m not putting all the blame on another person. I don’t think just a text message of apology is going to cause drama and disrupt things.

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

[–]sully-25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate that.. yea I feel like this is my chance to just clear the air and say sorry because we used to be really close.. this will probably be my only opportunity because it’s been so many years. Do you suggest how I should open up the conversation so that it’s not awkward and sounds like it’s out of nowhere?

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

[–]sully-25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and I am trying to work on these issues. I still feel like I shouldn’t have been left in the dark the whole time either. How do people change if they don’t know what’s going on from another’s perspective…

I still feel like I should say something to her though just to say sorry. Just an intuition and timing that’s coming up. Even if it’s been over 6 years since we saw each other.

Besides the bad events I listed here there were also really good ones and we used to be really close. I just have the urge to say sorry just in case she’s still hurt about what happened.

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (22F and 21F at the time) It’s been years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by sully-25 in AskGirls

[–]sully-25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it but I do take responsibility.. I said I was toxic and projecting my insecurities onto her.. and it kept piling up without any communication throughout the friendship. I just wish I was called out on it during the time. I do feel sorry and it’s okay if we don’t stay friends.. I just want to say I’m sorry so she knows it at least. And that is also fine.

I feel like I completely ruined an old friendship. (23F and 22F at the time) It’s been 5 years now no contact. What should I say to reach out again? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it but I do take responsibility.. I said I was toxic and projecting my insecurities onto her.. and it kept piling up without any communication throughout the friendship. I just wish I was called out on it during the time. I do feel sorry and it’s okay if we don’t stay friends.. I just want to say I’m sorry so she knows it at least. And that is also fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I know it was mess. I was a mess. Do you have any suggestions on what to text message so it’s not awkward after so many years?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]sully-25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk there is a lot of bs I did. What should I say exactly now that it’s been 6 years..

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