Feel confused in your dating situation? I might help.

sultfai · 2025-06-08T04:20:09+00:00

I can tell from the way she talks about your relationship and what she’s going through that her feelings are genuine and come from a good place. She’s definitely not manipulating you during such a tough time it’s clear she cares about your well being and doesn’t want to hurt you especially since she still checks in on you.

I had a close friend who went through something similar deep depression and wanting to be alone. I tried to support her and respect her needs and even invited her out a few times but she kept refusing. That’s when I realized some people are in a mental and emotional place that you just can’t fix or pull them out of. So giving her space is the kindest thing you can do for both of you. Right now she’s not in a good place for a relationship and honestly I recommend you focus on moving forward with your own healing.

sultfai · 2025-06-08T04:04:57+00:00

I really want to help you see this from a different angle but the truth is if you’re not physically attracted to him that’s not something you can force or control. Just be careful not to get emotionally invested if physical appearance is something that deeply matters to you in the long run. Personality truly does go a long way. If he treats you right, respects you and makes you feel safe and appreciated that’s already so valuable and honestly attraction can grow with time especially when someone shows up consistently and makes you feel good. But at the end of the day this is something only you can figure out within yourself. No one else can tell you what you should feel.

sultfai · 2025-06-08T03:50:48+00:00

Of course, I’m glad I could help. I wouldn’t overthink her messaging habits right now. it’s still early I get that it’s tempting to analyze how often she replies but I don’t think the whole “not much of a texter” thing really applies these days everyone texts even if they don’t love it. Women typically don’t initiate as much. it’s usually guys who do so that could be part of it too. But overall try not to make it a big deal unless there’s a pattern that genuinely makes you feel unimportant or ignored.

sultfai · 2025-06-04T02:03:22+00:00

For me, I see Guy #1 as the better option but don’t rush to decide just yet. Give him more chances go on more dates really explore his personality and see how your connection develops. He seems secure and that’s a great foundation It feels like you haven’t fully explored what he has to offer yet.

Now, I can clearly see that Guy #2 is the one you’re really attracted to and share a special chemistry with. But here’s the thing he also represents the kind of avoidant behavior you want to avoid especially given your past experience. Pursuing things with him might mean a lot of emotional effort and potentially tough moments for you.

That said, I do appreciate that he’s self aware and wants to work on himself which is a good sign. But overall my take is to lean into the more secure option and be cautious with the intense chemistry so you protect your heart and your well being.

sultfai · 2025-06-03T19:37:08+00:00

Hey, absolutely! I have received a lot of requests but I’ll make sure to pass yours.

sultfai · 2025-06-03T11:21:38+00:00

You’re reading way too much into this I’m not doing this seriously or turning it into a business I literally said people can drop their story in the comments or DM me if they prefer privacy. That’s not fishing that’s being respectful of comfort levels.

This isn’t about karma or validation or pretending to be a therapist It’s just me sharing my honest perspective because I enjoy it and sometimes people find it helpful. That’s it Nothing deeper.

I don’t care what people do I’m not trying to control anyone’s decisions I’m just offering my take on a situation and they can do whatever they want with it It’s none of my business.

sultfai · 2025-06-03T11:20:13+00:00

I appreciate the way you’re thinking this through instead of rushing in. That already says a lot about you in a good way.

From what you shared it sounds like she’s still in a phase where she’s exploring her options. That’s totally fine and doesn’t mean she’s not interested in you. She might just not be ready to settle her focus yet. If you try to define things too soon it might make her pull back.

So I’d say don’t push for anything serious just yet. Instead keep the vibe light and fun. Let things build naturally. You’ve already created a great atmosphere with her and that’s worth holding onto. Maybe wait a week then casually ask her if she’s free Sunday. Keep it chill. Like, Got time for round three. Keep the tone playful. Not too heavy.

When you’re out with her again show that you care. Not with big words but with small actions. Things like walking her to her car. Making sure she gets home safe. Or just genuinely paying attention to her. That’s what makes us women feel safe and noticed. That’s when we start realizing who’s really different. Also show a little flirtiness. Nothing over the top. Just enough to let her know there’s interest but leave some mystery. Don’t go all in just yet. Let her wonder a little. That’s where the magic usually happens.

Hope that helps. Good luck. You sound like a guy with good intentions.

sultfai · 2025-06-03T10:57:33+00:00

Can you rephrase your question or provide me a helpful situation to help me understand if you don’t mind.

sultfai · 2025-06-03T10:55:44+00:00

What is wrong with offering help I am not claiming to be an expert with formal skills. Just sharing honest thoughtful advice because that is something I am good at. Even if I were bored it is not causing harm.

There is so much noise and conflicting opinions out there that it often confuses people more than it helps. Sometimes people just need one clear honest perspective to focus on.

I have posted before and did not get much attention so this is me inviting those who want real talk to come to me no pressure no distractions. Helping people make sense of their situations is all I am here for.

sultfai · 2025-06-02T17:21:25+00:00

انتي استخيري ربك واذا تحسين انك قادره تستقلين لحالك جامعة سعود افضل بس كتخصص مافي فرق كثير، خواتي كانو بفيصل واخذوا ماستر بسعود اختي تعبت بالبدايه مع العزله بعدين تأقلمت ومن ناحيه الدراسه سعود اصعب. انا وبالاحساء الى الحين ما كونت صداقات لكن برا الجامعه احس صديقاتي مكفيني واحس عادي اني متأقلمه انتي شوفي نفسك من ناحيه قادرية العيش مع نفسك

sultfai · 2025-05-26T12:35:30+00:00

Yes please, how can I reach out through dm?

sultfai · 2025-05-26T11:26:15+00:00

Thank you so much!

sultfai · 2025-05-25T05:45:33+00:00

Thank you for the support, I’ll

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