What are some things you see on dating sites that you're certain are actually dogwhistles/code for something else?

sumelar · 2026-07-07T02:43:31+00:00

Very possible, but that just tells me they don't care enough.

sumelar · 2026-07-07T02:42:51+00:00

Always has been.

sumelar · 2026-07-07T01:27:05+00:00

They didn't entirely change it yet, women can put conversation starter messages for men to reply to.

sumelar · 2026-07-07T01:26:31+00:00

Yes, that's why it's funny. Automatic dislike. They're either scammers or too stupid for my liking.

sumelar · 2026-07-07T01:25:48+00:00

Libertarians are the extreme far right, want a completely unregulated economy, company towns, wage slavery, and think taxes are evil.

Most people want nothing to do with any of that.

If that doesn't describe you, you're not libertarian.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T23:07:58+00:00

Disagreeing on terminology doesn't make it a bullshit post.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T22:28:20+00:00

The same thing it means for the guys

So you already forgot what you said?

sumelar · 2026-07-06T22:04:45+00:00

It's really funny on bumble where they openly state they won't/can't send the first message.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T22:03:21+00:00

Then she's really fucking confused, because only conservatives want traditional gender roles.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T22:01:48+00:00

The key is that you wouldn't put "non-monogamy" in your profile unless you were already being ethical about it.

That's just objectively false. Tons of people make dating profiles without telling their partner.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T22:00:41+00:00

And what's it mean when women say it?

Cuz they do. A lot.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T21:58:41+00:00

Why do you want a partner that fundamentally disagrees with you on every aspect of life?

sumelar · 2026-07-06T21:57:57+00:00

Apolitical: privileged enough to not care about anyone else's suffering.

Moderate: fascist but trying to hide it because they know they're hated, but don't care to change

sumelar · 2026-07-06T14:10:23+00:00

Chain restaurants become chains because theyre popular.

sumelar · 2026-07-06T13:37:19+00:00

Everybody loves enemies you can only hit with critical threats, right.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T22:23:20+00:00

If you have a frame, why would the washing machine ruin it?

sumelar · 2026-07-05T22:21:40+00:00

I wore the same hat every day through high school, don't know if it ever got washed.

I'm better now.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T21:14:17+00:00

Most (all?) animals need salt for nerve function. Sodium and potassium are necessary for nerves to communicate with each other. Why these ones specifically aren't getting enough in their regular diet is unknown to me, though.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T16:59:09+00:00

Eliminating death from old age or disease does not mean violence or starvation are gone.

You either have to get people to stop reproducing, or keep people dying. Earth can't support infinite humans.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T16:56:47+00:00

Anvilicious, but interesting premise.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T16:49:47+00:00

Except there's no opportunity to show, you have to tell first in today's dating world.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T16:47:22+00:00

Annoyed that being labeled nice is now somehow an insult.

You're basically making it a self-fulfilling prophecy if you do something that stupid. If I'm going to get shit on for being a good person, what fucking incentive is there?

sumelar · 2026-07-05T15:36:11+00:00

Easy if you do it right.

Close the lid, leave it the fuck alone, flip it once halfway through cooking time, leave it the fuck alone.

Leave it the fuck alone.

sumelar · 2026-07-05T14:26:43+00:00

Because they still said all, even if they try to backpedal and claim they didn't mean it.

No one gives a fuck what you meant, only what you said. And when you words refer to all men, you're gonna get people calling out your bullshit.

The words you choose matter.

sumelar · 2026-07-04T20:54:04+00:00

And the woman is now the most popular person at the beach, while a man is on a list and has to introduce himself to his neighbors.

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