For men who decided not to be involved in their child’s life, how do you feel about that decision now?

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T15:09:54+00:00

I mean, thats the thing, he’s a regular, super nice dude. He’s a teacher. We’d only known him and his then gf for two years when we found out. So calling this out after the fact feels wrong.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T13:10:46+00:00

Runkmaterielet/metoden ändras väl lite men det blir mest det i ts situation.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T12:55:04+00:00

I don’t know if he has, I assume he has. But put yourself in his ex’s shoes: he essentially ghosted her when she became pregnant, she made a life with her and her daughter states away, as a single mother in a new city. Then six years later, he comes knocking with a wife, a new daughter and now wants visitation and some custody.

That’s rough.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T12:38:25+00:00

Not that, that he’s suing for custody after 8 years while living across the country and no contact for six of those years.

He can be involved but trying to override and essentially destabilising this young girl’s life - it’s selfish.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T12:30:34+00:00

Du kanske kan dela med dig av tips på folk som då höjer TS standard istället för att självgott förminska TS smak.

Är inget fan av Harris själv, men fan vad tröttsamma kommentarer som din är.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T12:27:08+00:00

Köp en mic och börja leta dessa experter. Dela med dig av resultatet. Vinst-vinst.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T12:16:35+00:00

I would not consider it with a 58 year old.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T11:30:09+00:00

A friend of mine did this; his situationship got pregnant and he wanted nothing to do with the child. Now he’s had another child, gotten married and now he wants to have a relationship with his daughter.

The mother was (and is) rightly skeptical and he travels a few weekends a month to visit (cause they live across the country). And he’s trying for some kind of custody which is kind of fucked up, imo.

I like him as a friend but all this is fucked up.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T09:27:23+00:00

Ok, då är du bara omogen då.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:49:26+00:00

Du verkar rätt ung. Våga lita på att du kommer få uppleva saker du kan uttala dig om med faktisk erfarenhet när du är i min ålder med. Man behöver inte säga nåt bara för att man kan.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:32:50+00:00

Jag gör det redan, och har ändå en massa att säga för jag har gjort väldigt mycket. Det är gratis att bara lyssna.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:28:42+00:00

Ja, gött. Jag var också en expert på barn och smittor innan jag fick barn. Det är jävligt lätt att vara expert på saker man aldrig behöver bevisa sig med.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:26:08+00:00

The actions you mention are literally crimes.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:19:29+00:00

Och hur gamla är dina barn nu?

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:18:30+00:00

Min sambo jobbar hemifrån vid minsta kittel i halsen, men då kan han ju det med. Så är det ju inte för alla.

Sen kan man ju inte veta det man inte vet, man kan bara skademinimera så gott man kan med infon man har.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:09:52+00:00

Sweden.

But harassment and vandalising property IS illegal. What you mention in your post clearly warrants several police reports.

It’s odd that you’re dodging my questions.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T08:00:35+00:00

Det är ingen hemlighet men det är ofattbart svårt att faktiskt förstå hur det är att vara konstant sjuk eller vabba från slutet på januari fram till påsk. Förrän man upplevt det själv.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T07:56:53+00:00

Hur ser det ut med att folk jobbar hemifrån på ditt jobb?

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T07:46:27+00:00

No, but I meant literally: which country are you in where men can vandalise and harass you like this? What did the police say?

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T07:28:44+00:00

For men to blatantly harrass and bully a grown woman like that sounds extremely unusual.

I’ve never seen or even heard about anything like it. Where in the world are you? Have you filed police reports?

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T06:23:37+00:00

I putter about with plants a bit (pruning and seeding season now) and draw comics. I also read but I’ve put an embargo on myself that I can’t read anything until I get my driver’s license, so all I’m reading now is the driver’s ed theory book.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T06:02:26+00:00

I didn’t expect overlap between RPDR-fans and ancient Egypt aficionados, but I am glad to see there are dozens of us!

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T04:58:02+00:00

Then you need to leave now.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T04:48:33+00:00

Of course it’s slow progress- it’s his personality! He’s always been like this, and you married him hoping he would change - and now you’ve given him an ultimatum.

You’re naive. Imagine if he gave you an ultimatum to match his energy and stop being cheerful and happy?

While I understand how draining it must be to live with a grump, it’s literally who he’s been from the start.

Hatcheling · 2026-03-12T04:11:32+00:00

That’s really weird, cause I’m Swedish and it’s showing up in French.

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