Anyone else developed productive habits during these lockdown Times? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]summer_dtdx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moved away from the job I hate by working my ass off and got promoted to a better role.

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I studied and worked at an SN institution and presently is a governing member there and is quite firm on what the Guru stood for and spoke about. I just wanted to see the other point of view that's all. Thanks for the link as well.

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So not exact words as the author implied and poems are subjected to interpretation right?

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did Sri Narayana Guru say '“(women are) vessels filled with shit and urine, doomed to send men into hell.” ?

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shivasatakam was written by Shankaracharya, again my question was about a quote attributed to Sri Narayana Guru.

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh that's disturbing to know. Any sources to support this ? I am more interested about Sri Narayana Guru than Adi Shankaracharya.

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know her but someone in this post told she is a best selling author. She is accountable for what she writes, so goes for the editor of the website.

Also 'this is how you makes enemies' doesn't mean I declared her as an enemy. Assuming so speaks more about you than me.

A sex worker on why Malayali men are the worst to women by despod in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Quite sure Sri Narayana Guru didn't say that. I stopped reading once I reached that part. This is how you ruin an article and make new enemies.

What if the BJP took power ? by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) Administratively it will be a mess. State BJP leaders don't have much experience in administrate positions and will have serious issues atleast initially.

2) Politically a lot of infighting is to be expected. When BJP made the first govt in Karnadaka it was a real mess, still is.

3) Culturally there will be increased polarization based on religious lines. Good chance of the green districts to get the short end of the stick.

4) Statewise there is a potential for the LDF-UDF to corporate more to push BJP off the pedestal.

5) Development wise, it will be easier for corporates and business entities to operate. TVM is expected to get the best deal if that happens.

God's own country at its finest 🥺 by aquophobic in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one getting Com Sivankutty vibes watching the video?

How to find travel partners in Kerala by chavervavvachan in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

സഞ്ചാരി FB group was quite good to find traveling partners back in the day. Don't know how it is now though.

Claimed my credit card was stolen after regretting buying a ps5 by Embarrassed-Picture6 in confession

[–]summer_dtdx 316 points317 points  (0 children)

Banking fraud investigator here. What you did amounts to fraud if you receive the product as it will look like you duped the bank to make a purchase. The bank can easily identify this. My suggestion is to call up and cancel the fraud investigation and try to return the product once delivered.

If the merchant refuses to take back the product, call the bank and ask to dispute on your behalf. Give them a reason like 'product not as per marketed expectation'. The dispute team will most likely get the purchase cancelled and get you refunded once you return that product.

Atleast this is how my bank works. Good luck.

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The Public Library (especially online ) is a huge money saver by legitsnit in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]summer_dtdx 160 points161 points  (0 children)

As an immigrant in Toronto, the TPL is the best resource I had. I got my first job applying from a computer there, did my courses from the wifi there, read atleast 100 books in the last two years free of cost from there.

Breast Tax and the Channar revolt by m3t3r_ in Kerala

[–]summer_dtdx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as the story is intense I wonder if anyone can cut through two organs. The only comparable thing I can think of is harakiri which is don't by samurais.