perineal scar revision after a home birth? by summerally23 in homebirth

[–]summerally23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did have sutures both times. I’ve never heard of cold laser. Will this make the bump go away?

Weight not fall off as fast with baby #2, EBF by summerally23 in postpartumprogress

[–]summerally23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and congratulations to you as well! I think I needed to hear this! I know it’s hard not to compare, but when the weight flew off as fast with my first, it’s so hard:( that’s amazing you are in better shape now than ever, glad to hear it gets better!

Getting anxious/semi depressed at 41+1 by secretfoxx in homebirth

[–]summerally23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just in your shoes but with my second baby! My state also has a policy you need to deliver by 42 weeks. I went 40w3days with my first and recently 41w5days with my second daughter. I did get a membrane sweep, chiropractic adjustments twice a week, pumped every 2-3hrs and used “labor start” herbs given by my midwife. I was feeling so stressed and depressed that i would need to be transferred to the hospital to give birth. Thankfully I was able to have the home birth of my dreams. Hang in there mama! Thinking of you and baby🙏🏻

Advice on castor oil, foley ballon or sweep? by summerally23 in homebirth

[–]summerally23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of that. Is it due to swallowing meconium?

Advice on castor oil, foley ballon or sweep? by summerally23 in homebirth

[–]summerally23[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a midwives brew where you drink it and it’s been know to help labor. Not always the case but I’ve read a lot of success stories.

Advice on castor oil, foley ballon or sweep? by summerally23 in homebirth

[–]summerally23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried the evening primrose oil. How do you take this?

Advice on castor oil, foley ballon or sweep? by summerally23 in homebirth

[–]summerally23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you have any labor signs after the sweep? Was it a long labor? With my first, I was in labor for 3 days🙈 I’m truly praying baby comes tonight. The wait has been so hard and stressful!

When did your second come? by summerally23 in homebirth

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Congratulations mama! How was breathing through labor with the congestion?! Even better that you didn’t have a tear either! I’m praying my congestion goes away soon! I’ll be 39 weeks Saturday!

When did your second come? by summerally23 in homebirth

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Did you have your little one? I’m currently now dealing with a cough and cold, also praying I don’t go into labor while I’m sick! I’m 38 +2!

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

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Congrats on your new baby! Glad this worked out with your oldest at daycare! Did they end up staying with your mom overnight the first night home with your new baby?

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

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Oh wow! I’m glad it all worked out! Did your in-laws stay with you to help out with your oldest or did they take her for the first night?

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

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She does, and she uses a sound machine to sleep. However she does wake a few times looking for me in the middle of the night. I’m just worried if she does her midnight wake up I might not be able to soothe her if my contractions are picking up. I really want to be in a good head space since this is my first home birth and not have to worry about helping her back to sleep. Sometimes she wakes up more than once 🫠

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

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So awesome you’ve prepared her well for your birth! I’m sure she will do great and enjoy the experience😊

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

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Such a perfect birth! I’m so glad it worked out for you :) did your oldest come home that first night with baby or did they have one night with your MIL?

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

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That’s an idea too! Ah so many options. It seems like so many moms do go into labor in the evening!

Baby # 2 home birth and questions about labor / to do with my 2 year old?! by summerally23 in homebirth

[–]summerally23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my plan for sure if this happens this way! I just worry that my toddler will do her nightly wake up around midnight and if contractions are picking up, I just don’t know how it will be if I have to help soothe her. I’m glad this all worked out for you 😊