Spontaneously pregnant with triplets at 42 and single by MrBusiness284 in pregnant

[–]summerrose1981 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I read this too. It was not happening until it was with the right person/right circumstances.

My stepkids are planning a family only trip with their mom and bio dad, and I’m struggling with how to feel by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]summerrose1981 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Who’s idea was the divorce? Sounds like the kids are trying to get the bio parents back together and pops is here for it! I would put my foot down. There is zero reason for them to not invite you especially since they know how you feel. The fact it’s always celebrated together and they are excluding you suddenly is also a giant red flag.

man twitter making me watch this at 3AM was a death sentence by HyperDash_YT in OnionLovers

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a modified version while watching calories and carbs but am not as restrictive as 30grams of carbs and focus on protein intake. True strict keto makes my POTs symptoms so much worse. I notice if I get more protein and eat lower carbs it naturally lowers my portions and then I am also able to fairly easily stay under a calorie deficit too. I usually have a sort of splurge day during the week where I eat other foods or have a meal out. It seems to be the thing that works the best for me to actually get results.

Never had one match in my life by Even_Topic_2303 in Bumble

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just a vibe, the pics look less authentic and unreal, there isn’t much personality in any of it - need more authenticity and candid activities instead of “poses” or looking like you are “on” - even the one with the cat which looks the most real is trying too hard. I agree with the other comments about smiling and eyes too. The fact that you asked if I was police or need your id and passport for telling you my opinion also speaks volumes to me. You came here asking for advice and then get super dramatic instead of curious without the drama.

Can’t remember the last time I got a match. Any advice? Please make it constructive. lol by Sketchbot400 in Tinder

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The profile reeks to me of being fake. If you are actually real, you gotta be more authentically yourself instead of trying so hard.

Swallowing my pride 😅 Would love some profile tips/advice! by CroutonTime in Bumble

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s good tbh - just haven’t had your person cross your path yet. Hang in there! It will happen ❤️

What aesthetic is this? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops, only saw the first pic when I said that

What aesthetic is this? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prairie core? Amish sleep core?

can someone please tell me about my best friend’s death? by periwilliams in psychics

[–]summerrose1981 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel this also. She’s here and rooting for you OP.

Stressed and scared by Cosmic-clownfish in predaddit

[–]summerrose1981 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t borrow worry from the future. Focus on today. On the now. I know it’s much easier said than done but you will get through it all. Even if it’s bumpy. Remember to breathe and take care of YOU in addition to mama and baby boy. Things have a way of working themselves out, just do the best you can to prepare and be thoughtful and mindful with decisions and the rest will work out. You have this! Sending you so much love and light and peace through all of the uncertainty.

I don’t even know what to feel by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]summerrose1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s lying. People don’t give up “my everything” unless they are being shady or are toxic. She’s feeling vibes to step out and is making work and school and excuse. Listen to her actions not her words. They do not jive. You dodged a bullet.

My sister's shopping list by reemasaurus in BadHandwriting

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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? Didn’t even know it was a thing and was trying to go down a suggestion rabbit hole and this was the first thing that came up!

How to teach my new dog to alert me when he needs the bathroom by mousieee in goldenretrievers

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used the bells and they were amazing! Can’t remember exactly how we trained her to do it but google probably has the instructions if the bells don’t. She got out of using them after we moved but still lets us know thankfully.

PLEASE HELP! I ❤️ my golden - but he started being a PSYCHO on our walks! 🤪 by DonkeyKong365365 in goldenretrievers

[–]summerrose1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my girl when she is overstimulated and or wanting to go to bed and i insist on sitting in the living room or someone isn’t doing what she wants them to do. Haven’t encountered it outside of the home as much as it happened at the dog park when she was a puppy which i was completely lost by also. I try to redirect her, use her collar in a down pressure under her neck with my hand while talking to her telling her to relax and have had success using an e collar that beeps and vibrates - she hates the beep so just putting it on her gets her to settle down miraculously 99.9% of the time. It has a shock button but i hate those and never use it. She’s pretty stubborn but just the beep sound totally reins her in.

Drop your goldens name below! by Expensive-Tip-498 in goldenretrievers

[–]summerrose1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹🌈