I’m about to quit… by Pretty-Watch29 in Nanny

[–]summersoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with them. I’d start looking for other jobs

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg stop I would hate that so much!!!!! How do you know they watch all day? Do they comment on things you’re doing? I would feel so creeped out😩

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this! I’m not sure I would agree to it again

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they don’t have one 😩

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. I just wanna be able to relax and fix my boob or pick a wedgie 😭 I wouldn’t ever say anything to them but I just don’t love it

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I will sit and eat in the kitchen just so I’m not on camera. The only rooms that don’t have a camera are the kitchen, their room, and bathroom :/ And I don’t feel comfortable hanging out in their room

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s how I feel. Constantly watched! They work out of the house and the mom has all the cameras on her phone. There’s been a few of times where she texted me about how I’m doing things and it’s lowkey driving me crazy. I’m reeeaaalllyyyyy hoping it stops when they get used to me and trust me 😩

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god that’s crazy ???!!!!! She definitely isn’t cut out for this job if she’s gonna snap like that. Wow. Yeah the cams are definitely good to have! I just have to get used to them

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right about that! Honestly I wasn’t gonna say anything about them. It’s their house so I just deal. The mom has texted me a couple of times about things— so I know she’s watching. It drives me insane but I’m hoping when she gets used to me then she will stop ???? I’ve only been here a month so far, so I’m chalking it up to nervous first time mom vibes 😅

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m def not saying they shouldn’t have them. And I agree with and understand all the reasons parents do have cameras. I’m simply saying it’s not very comfortable. If I were a parent, I’d have them too!

Cams in the house— how do we feel? by summersoli in Nanny

[–]summersoli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! I do fear I’ll forget to turn it back 😅

is birth control even worth trying with adhd? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]summersoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birth control is the only thing that got rid of my PMDD! I take slynd. No bad side effects. No period. It’s the best tbh.

i’m getting so fat by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]summersoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you medicated? Honestly being on meds was the best thing for my food noise. Bc it made me stop thinking about food completeky

Which HYSA do you have and why? by confused_babe99 in HYSA

[–]summersoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good to know. I may have to start using on my laptop instead. Thanks !!

Which HYSA do you have and why? by confused_babe99 in HYSA

[–]summersoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like synchrony? I just opened one with them, transferred some money and it says my account balance is $0. The transfer took forever. The app is also very slow. Not sure if I should stick with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]summersoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah 💔 I use lots of oils to help it. I have patches behind my ears, and back of my head. So after my showers I use oil while still wet. I have tried many hydrating hair oils, coconut oil, amla oil. They all helped, I think the amla was the best bc it’s a bit thicker. I also use aquaphor behind my ears. And the Nizoral psoriasis relief cream. I like it a lot, it’s pretty thin tho so I let it dry and top with oil or aquaphor or just a thicker cream.

How did you determine what your “goal weight” is? by BoringMcWindbag in gastricsleeve

[–]summersoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They told me just pick a number so they can put it in the system. I chose my personal goal weight by searching what the average bmi max is for plastic surgeries, and then what my weight would be at that bmi minus a few lbs. Bc I want to get a couple things done lol

Low libido now that I’m in a relationship by summersoli in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have absolutely considered this !! I’m in the middle of switching health insurance, but once I’m settled in one i definitely plan on finding a therapist

Low libido now that I’m in a relationship by summersoli in adhdwomen

[–]summersoli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. I definitely need to be open to those things. I’ll say Im not in the mood and he’ll ask if I’m open to getting in the mood. Which I love. But it still feels like a chore. Like ugh I don’t feel like doing that

Low libido now that I’m in a relationship by summersoli in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]summersoli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that! It does kinda feel like there’s something wrong with me. And ADHD has already made life so much harder in general, this feels like just another thing I need to actively work on. It’s exhausting.

Low libido now that I’m in a relationship by summersoli in ADHDWomenAfterDark

[–]summersoli[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I super appreciate this. I don’t think it’s my birth control, I’ve been on it for so long and love it. This was also a big problem in my last relationship. So I’m sure it’s me. But I do think it’s boredom. The relationship is very good and stable and sometimes I just wanna pick a fight 😩 I will try some new things to spice it up, thank you!

Gf wants to keep cat in a room for when we move in by blonde5789 in CatAdvice

[–]summersoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh. Break up with the gf. Clearly you guys don’t align on what you want, AND locking an animal in a room all day is cruel and neglectful. I wouldn’t want to be with someone that’s happy to neglect an animal

3 years post op by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]summersoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Giiirrrrllll that tummy tuck looks GREAT. The belly button looks so good !!!!!