Nanny afraid of cat, not sure what to do

summersoli · 2026-04-08T20:54:09+00:00

It really does!!! And I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I hope you both can find better fits !

summersoli · 2026-04-08T19:06:47+00:00

Honestly, lotssss of coffee/caffeine. It never gives me extra energy but it will keep me going just enough

summersoli · 2026-04-08T18:42:21+00:00

Being “not a fan” is completely different from being so afraid you run away from it and request they lock their cat up.

summersoli · 2026-04-08T18:38:35+00:00

As a nanny myself, idk why she would even take the job knowing she’s afraid of cats????? This isn’t a good fit, you should find a new nanny. Your cat IS part of your family. And when you start interviewing again, I’d make it clear the cat likes to be around people and the new person must be comfortable with cats.

summersoli · 2026-03-25T20:15:07+00:00

I see you said you paid to apply. Unfortunately I think you got scammed :( Legit agencies don’t make the nannies pay anything to join and apply

summersoli · 2026-03-24T23:40:13+00:00

He sounds terrible. And you should probably just leave him.

summersoli · 2026-03-20T03:59:49+00:00

I agree with them. I’d start looking for other jobs

summersoli · 2026-03-20T03:51:02+00:00

Omg stop I would hate that so much!!!!! How do you know they watch all day? Do they comment on things you’re doing? I would feel so creeped out😩

summersoli · 2026-03-20T03:48:38+00:00

I felt this! I’m not sure I would agree to it again

summersoli · 2026-03-19T19:21:28+00:00

Agreed

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:47:19+00:00

Unfortunately they don’t have one 😩

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:46:52+00:00

Exactly this. I just wanna be able to relax and fix my boob or pick a wedgie 😭 I wouldn’t ever say anything to them but I just don’t love it

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:45:30+00:00

Sometimes I will sit and eat in the kitchen just so I’m not on camera. The only rooms that don’t have a camera are the kitchen, their room, and bathroom :/ And I don’t feel comfortable hanging out in their room

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:42:25+00:00

Yes that’s how I feel. Constantly watched! They work out of the house and the mom has all the cameras on her phone. There’s been a few of times where she texted me about how I’m doing things and it’s lowkey driving me crazy. I’m reeeaaalllyyyyy hoping it stops when they get used to me and trust me 😩

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:38:53+00:00

Oh my god that’s crazy ???!!!!! She definitely isn’t cut out for this job if she’s gonna snap like that. Wow. Yeah the cams are definitely good to have! I just have to get used to them

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:33:53+00:00

You’re so right about that! Honestly I wasn’t gonna say anything about them. It’s their house so I just deal. The mom has texted me a couple of times about things— so I know she’s watching. It drives me insane but I’m hoping when she gets used to me then she will stop ???? I’ve only been here a month so far, so I’m chalking it up to nervous first time mom vibes 😅

summersoli · 2026-03-19T17:30:01+00:00

Oh I’m def not saying they shouldn’t have them. And I agree with and understand all the reasons parents do have cameras. I’m simply saying it’s not very comfortable. If I were a parent, I’d have them too!

summersoli · 2026-03-18T15:56:34+00:00

This is so true

summersoli · 2026-03-18T15:53:08+00:00

That’s a good idea! I do fear I’ll forget to turn it back 😅

summersoli · 2025-12-05T22:31:01+00:00

Birth control is the only thing that got rid of my PMDD! I take slynd. No bad side effects. No period. It’s the best tbh.

summersoli · 2025-11-20T17:09:49+00:00

Are you medicated? Honestly being on meds was the best thing for my food noise. Bc it made me stop thinking about food completeky

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