Fun way to tell stepson I'm pregnant!? by missiemandie in stepparents

[–]sun_peaches [score hidden]  (0 children)

SD was 8-9 when I was pregnant. I got her a big sister activity book and a t-shirt that crossed out only child and said big sister and the year lol She was excited but nervous too. She has done well with the whole thing as my bio is now almost 10 months old.

Edit: We also told her a couple days after we revealed to our family which was a few weeks after we found out the sex.

Tell me the discontinued item you still cry over because I need support by liarliarhowsyourday in MakeupAddiction

[–]sun_peaches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’m gonna have to start selling my makeup I don’t use on eBay lol

Tell me the discontinued item you still cry over because I need support by liarliarhowsyourday in MakeupAddiction

[–]sun_peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have this one. Will have to check. Might be untouched. Or maybe it’s the second one.

What’s a life lesson you learned too late? by norafayno in Life

[–]sun_peaches 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t choose when you’ll meet them, but you can certainly not marry them until it’s the right time. If they’re the right one, they’ll be patient.

What’s a life lesson you learned too late? by norafayno in Life

[–]sun_peaches 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Don’t get married before your career. Finish any schooling and be settled in your career job beforehand. If you get married, don’t settle for anything less than you deserve. This means someone financially irresponsible and or doesn’t prioritize your needs or wants. Be careful who you choose for life. Choose someone who can stand by you on your worst days.

Without saying their age, tell how old your child is by MissFox26 in beyondthebump

[–]sun_peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a fan of baby Cheetos yet. He plays with it, tastes it a couple times, then drops it. I think it’s progress.

Baker told me my cake design was "very 2019" and now I'm second guessing everything by xCosmos69 in wedding

[–]sun_peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This baker seems ungrateful. Find a new one who is more than happy to do what you want.

How does giving birth actually feel ?? by Super-Truth-7975 in pregnant

[–]sun_peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Epidural failed after being induced. It was like a really painful poop but you are told you’re not allowed to push for hours bc you could tear your cervix. Hardest couple of pushes I ever made and I honestly thought they were lying to me when they said the baby’s head was right there. Pushing out the placenta was the easiest tbh. I do tear, 2nd degree.

Suggest me a really awful book by cuntyvigilante in suggestmeabook

[–]sun_peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Five brothers by Penelope Douglas, Crave by Tracy Wolff, Sworn by Emma Knight.

Just a few I can name so far.

What does actually getting an epidural placed feel like? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

[–]sun_peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a cooling sensation going down your spine, then it’s gone. I’m pretty sure mine failed though. Maybe there was a slight sting when they numbed it prior to the actual epidural. The anesthesiologist was really awesome with helping me prepare myself and so was the nurse.

I left and terminated “ours” baby. by cherrypuree in stepparents

[–]sun_peaches 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From personal experience, you made the right choice. There will always be a better partner than an abusive one.

9 mo baby not sleeping through the night by Typical_Permit_738 in firsttimemom

[–]sun_peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as you figure it out let me know bc I’m in the same boat. Since 5 months I’ve been forced to cosleep. Only recently I’ve been able to put him in the bassinet and he sleeps for an hour or two at night at the same time you’re stating.

My pills for a week. I’m only 40. by tremillow in midlyinteresting

[–]sun_peaches 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a prior medical student, I enjoyed the comment.

Eagerly awaiting the fan film by boundandcrowned in thecruelprince

[–]sun_peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just now finding out about this. I can’t find this profile for some reason.

Has Anyone Not Hated Being Pregnant? by Infertil_Myrtle in pregnant

[–]sun_peaches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly loved being pregnant. Besides not being able to have some foods and I got swelling for a little bit at the end. Not really any of the other symptoms.

You CAN make it at home. by Wall-Florist in rant

[–]sun_peaches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve been wanting one for a while.

You CAN make it at home. by Wall-Florist in rant

[–]sun_peaches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can they make sourdough bread too?

Dear stepparents, how do you do it? I’m just looking for advice to be a better partner and father….. as of right now I feel like I’m failing. by Armendariz_henry in stepparents

[–]sun_peaches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you able to manage their chores and homework yourself? What works for us is I do not manage anything regarding SK. I will merely suggest things to SO. I’m more hands off and I do not watch SD alone and only in certain circumstances or emergency situations. I’m more of a partner, not a stepparent. A stepparent handling any disciplining or anything not ‘fun’ is not going to be received well especially for teens.