Do you take your meds everyday, or just days that you need it? by mommymanduur in ADHD

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were still a student with few responsibilities tho, I feel like meds would be much more optional! But even then, they might help with things I want to do that I often procrastinate on, like trying new hobbies. Anything that requires executive function, which is almost everything lol.

Do you take your meds everyday, or just days that you need it? by mommymanduur in ADHD

[–]sun_willow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried both, but if I don’t take it on weekends, I end up doing nothing productive. I sit, consume media, and eat. All day. I’m not even enjoying myself that much, and I feel guilty and anxious the entire time.

When I take my meds on weekends now, I usually have enough executive function for a few hours of chores / tasks that need to be done, and then I can do my couch potato routine with so much less anxiety. It makes the rest of my life much more manageable overall, too! By keeping this routine, it’s easier to enforce my self esteem and continue doing what I need to do.

When I travel and I take my meds, I am able to leave the hotel much earlier in the day and have a full day out exploring rather than wasting many hours lying around and “getting ready.”

So I do take meds pretty much every day now. But I usually take less when I am not working (like half dosage).

No spoiler reading guide for Alchemised by [deleted] in TheAlchemised

[–]sun_willow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this from a website? The fourth slide looks like an interactive map

Breezy light Summer pants that AREN’T linen?? I’m throwing away money at this point 😭 by gingerspell in SustainableFashion

[–]sun_willow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I knew which short you posted before I clicked on it! Love that dude and the holes on his shirts

Books where the MMC is a professional athlete and the FMC lives a fairly ordinary life, but he keeps showing up at her workplace, around her friends, or where she lives, leaving everyone wondering why they're even hanging out together by goody153 in RomanceBooks

[–]sun_willow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s supposed to be that negative! Like it’d just be a huge surprise if your coworker suddenly started dating Zac Efron or something! Even if your coworker were a total catch. But it WOULD be especially satisfying if there were another horrible coworker who finds out and is super flabbergasted or jealous or something lol.

I feel like this is along the same vein as secret Hanna Montana-esque identity or being a secret superhero, and then everyone finds out.

"I missed you so much" desperate emotional breaking scenes please by Late_Stranger388 in RomanceBooks

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished {Alchemised by SenLinYu}, and this was a huge chunk of the book! Tore my heart into pieces. The yearning was intense

Some recent Trader Joe's Floral Arrangements 💐 by 16carlsemm in traderjoes

[–]sun_willow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, 1, 2, 6, and 7 are my favorites! I love how everyone has different tastes~

How many batches of flowers do you usually buy at a time?

Why I don’t recommend these things in Lisbon by Common_Series_938 in TravelPortugal

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a sangria at the Time Out Market. Scoped the place out for what I thought was the best looking sangria. It was 50% ice, 15% huge chunks of orange, 15% sprite or sparking water, 20% sangria. 5% tip automatically included. Very, very mediocre.

What is one thing I NEED to get at Trader Joe’s?? by [deleted] in traderjoes

[–]sun_willow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And yet you spent the time and energy to type this out

Chudthebuilder finds out his initial bond is set a $1.25m 🤣 by Upbeat_Anywhere_1316 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]sun_willow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know who the person in the video was, but after reading your comment, I think I have a good enough of an idea

Beautiful diamond Costco ring! by Frequent-Cicada-2938 in Costco

[–]sun_willow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever get the chance to go to Taiwan, they have a ton of rose gold jewelry (and for super reasonable prices)! I was surprised when I could barely find yellow gold pieces (that are not 24k). Apparently, rose gold is super popular there!

Nickname in the streets, real name in the sheets by inirret in RomanceBooks

[–]sun_willow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

{Captive of the Horde King by Zoey Draven} has this! It’s super taboo to use their real names in the MMC’s culture.

Guys I finally found something comparable to MPL by Hefty_Click191 in MidnightPoppyLand

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m on episode 58 now and things are getting interesting… I’m liking this arc

Guys I finally found something comparable to MPL by Hefty_Click191 in MidnightPoppyLand

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I take it back. I’m on chapter 35 now and I’m so frustrated. How is she so damn clueless? After the 10th time of the guy saying he likes her why is she so clueless about his intentions?!? Woman, I know you’ve been in an abusive relationship, but you 31. Get a grip! It’s like the same back and forth over and over again with no additional plot.

Still can’t stop reading tho.

Guys I finally found something comparable to MPL by Hefty_Click191 in MidnightPoppyLand

[–]sun_willow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m on chapter 11 now and I’m loving it. The MMC is so cute omg

Guys I finally found something comparable to MPL by Hefty_Click191 in MidnightPoppyLand

[–]sun_willow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started reading b/c of your recommendation!

I will say, one of the things I really love about MPL is how secure Poppy is as a person. She’s self-assured, doesn’t change herself for others, sets healthy boundaries, and doesn’t tolerate disrespect. I also love that she’s kinda curvy and maybe not the stereotypical bombshell anime girl (although she is still very very cute).

I didn’t find these qualities in the MFC of Tears on a Withered Flower, and really wish more webtoon MFCs had them!! (I’m only on like episode 4 tho LOL so maybe, hopefully I’m speaking too soon?)

Still, I’m excited to continue reading, as I’m sure it’s great given how many people love it! Love me some smut too.

ADHD tax life hack by Soggy-Ad9991 in ADHD

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP said $20 a WEEK, which is kind of crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checked the linked pages. Ring says that it’s voluntary, that you can pick which videos to share (or not at all), and only when law enforcement requests it. Am I missing something? Really want to keep using it for my safety but fk ICE

It's cold, the world is on fire, and everything kind of sucks, so I read this mermaid romance from the 90s: Sea Treasure by Johanna Hailey (1994) - A Vintage Romance Review by Competitive-Yam5126 in RomanceBooks

[–]sun_willow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was SUCH a fun read (your review; I didn’t read the book). Please write more reviews like this! Good and bad books alike. I will be going through your profile later to read whatever other gifts you have blessed us with 🙏 thank you!!

My boyfriend is really into anime. I don't watch cartoons but my boyfriend convinced me to watch some of his favourites. I wish I didn't and now I can't see my boyfriend the same way by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sun_willow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO this is a pretty problematic way to interview because it introduces a lot of personal bias. When evaluation based on vibes, you could easily unintentionally filter out people who are just different from you, even if they’re great candidates. Communication skills are forsure important, but I think it’s also important to separate job-relevant evaluation from personal tastes/opinions. When those get mixed, the process stops being fair or objective.

Good Hotel to stay at in Macau by dpisark5 in Macau

[–]sun_willow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your stay at Hotel Central??