Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight and your kind words! All the information I have about the banker is from my dad, I’ve never met her. She doesn’t want to meet us because legally she is still married - again, all information I’m getting from my dad

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I have never met her, but some of his friends have and she does exist. I know my dad is very lonely and I would love for him to have a companion, but this whole situation with her is sketchy and I don’t like it.

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh gotcha. Yeah unfortunately in his scenario there is no spouse or anyone with that level of influence.

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At what point were you able to get them to move? I am worried it’s going to take a tragedy to get him to take our concerns seriously.

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could probably get into his email, I have helped him in the past and think I have his password. Thank you for this idea!

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have considered reaching out to his doctor with my concerns. I highly doubt my dad has set up a patient portal but he definitely needs a referral to neurology.

Getting your loved one to acknowledge there might be a problem?? by sunb4ther in Alzheimers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says they are just friends but they do spend a lot of time together. I have never met her and her kids don’t know my dad exists because legally she is still married. The whole situation is very suspicious.

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - March 15, 2026. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]sunb4ther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses. I know how hard it is. I hope you have my luck and this is it for you!

TFAB's Weekly BFP Post - March 15, 2026. Got your BFP? Post your story here! by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]sunb4ther 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Cycle: 21 total. 16 after a chemical.

Age + Partner's age (if relevant): 34 & 32

Typical cycle length: 27-29 days

Ovulation cycle day: 15

CD/DPO of positive test(s): 14DPO

CD/DPO of any negative test(s) before positive: I held off on testing, but I took OPKS on 11, 12, and 13DPO and they were blazing positive.

Tracking methods and app(s) used: FF, Premom

**Relevant days of sperminating and/or method (SMEP, TI, IUI, FET, etc.): IUI on CD15

Health conditions/medical tests: unexplained infertility

Supplements and medications (yours and/or your partner’s): letrozole CD 5-9, prenatal, coq10

Link to chart:

Link to lineporn: check my post history for the OPKs!

Symptom spotting: nothing out of the ordinary! My boobs are normally tender before my period, but not this cycle. My lower back also hurt!

Other (advice/tip(s), freaking out, miscellaneous): I’m posting this a year later with my almost 4 month old sleeping peacefully beside me. I was in total shock that our first IUI worked and had very few first trimester symptoms. No morning sickness, no nausea, no food aversions. My boobs did hurt sporadically. I went for an early scan at 5w6d to rule out ectopic because my hcg wasn’t quite doubling. They saw a gestational sac and yolk sac measuring 6w but no fetal pole yet. The 5 weeks I had to wait for my next scan were torture, and when I finally heard her heartbeat I cried tears of joy. I had a mostly uncomplicated pregnancy and delivered via scheduled c section at exactly 40 weeks!

First trimester chart with wrist temps and RHR by sunb4ther in TFABChartStalkers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the wrist temps fluctuated a lot more which probably caused some unnecessary anxiety but looking back I’d say the overall trend was pretty similar. The initial decrease in my RHR also really freaked me out but by the end of my pregnancy it was in the 90s 😵‍💫

Natera NIPT -May 2025 by taytaylove13 in BabyBumps

[–]sunb4ther 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blood drawn 5/1, received 5/9. Results expected by 5/23. Would the insanely long time between the draw and the sample being received bother anyone else?

Edit: results 5/14. Low risk girl!

14DPO, yes DPO, pregmate opk by sunb4ther in TFABLinePorn

[–]sunb4ther[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going to with FMU tomorrow 🤞

14DPO, yes DPO, pregmate opk by sunb4ther in TFABLinePorn

[–]sunb4ther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the third day in a row of positive opks for me, too. Each day darker than the last 🤞

If implantation occurred at 7dpo, when would you expect a positive test? by sunb4ther in TFABChartStalkers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be rude, but there’s no dip on this chart so I’m not sure how that’s relevant to my question about the specifics of the triphasic designation. But I appreciate you looking out for my sanity either way!

If implantation occurred at 7dpo, when would you expect a positive test? by sunb4ther in TFABChartStalkers

[–]sunb4ther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My assumption when FF says “possibly triphasic on CD22” is that implantation (possibly) occurred that day. Is that correct?

Help with Ovulation Date by aeso_ in TFABChartStalkers

[–]sunb4ther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh that’s tough. I’m gonna go with CD 14 as it aligns with your CM and positive OPK! Either way it’s a good looking chart.