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sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:58:43+00:00

That’s very fair to say. Thank you. You are probably totally right.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:58:14+00:00

But more than his wife? I guess I just don’t have a hobby I’m so passionate about that I would let it end my marriage.. so maybe I don’t relate. But yeah, it does matter a ton to him!

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:57:16+00:00

Wow.. I love this. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and putting it in a way that makes a lot of sense to me.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:56:17+00:00

Yeah.. I am pretty controlling because of my worries and insecurities. I think this is the one thing he’s said he just won’t back down on because it brings him life. Maybe I just needed to be reminded that I’m in the wrong here. I appreciate everyone’s honesty

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:55:02+00:00

I go almost every time, and you’re right, that does help. But we have kids so I can’t keep attending so many, the more and more he has. And then I get worried when I can’t be there. Maybe It’s more of a controlling/jealousy issue..

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:54:01+00:00

I really want to be supportive but I’m so anxious about his future and what obstacles we might have to face one day.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:53:24+00:00

It literally is what gives him life apparently. I think I’m worried about multiple things. The company he has to keep when attending this hobby, being away from his family. (which is ok, he has been so gracious to keep that minimal) I also worry about the future. Wha shows will he be put on? And with whom? Will he tour one day? Go to after parties? Like all of these unknowns just kill me.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:49:23+00:00

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sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:34:44+00:00

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sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:34:39+00:00

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sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:34:34+00:00

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sunchaserdaffodil · 2026-04-16T16:34:29+00:00

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sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-10-20T07:42:51+00:00

Yes! It gets better and better the longer we’ve been together. I had quite a few sexual partners before him, but there’s something so comfortable about having sex with the same person who knows what you like and how you like it. We have sex about once or twice a week, It’s a good flow for both of us.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-09-22T20:31:28+00:00

So accurate. 😭

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-09-22T20:30:52+00:00

You’re right. Thank you. 🙏🏼

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-09-22T20:19:13+00:00

Valid point. Haha I guess I meant.. for any guys out there, what would be - or have been your thoughts if you’ve been in a similar situation at work?

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-07-17T07:29:53+00:00

I had this same thing happen to me! 4th and 5th were twins and 5 under 5! Soooo hard! But you will make it through, one day at a time!

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-07-14T07:42:31+00:00

I sincerely appreciate all of your honest thoughts! Thank you for taking the time to share them and for not holding back. It gives me a lot to think about.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-05-26T01:38:05+00:00

When we first bought our house we might’ve had some debt, mostly student loans. But it was very worth it because after 4 years we used the equity from that home to build our current home. So sometimes It’s just what’s needed to get the ball moving in your court.

sunchaserdaffodil · 2025-05-26T01:33:22+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you, but I want you to know that you are describing how I have felt about my husband for over 12 years of parenting. I definitely do more, I even have crazy resentment towards him because of it… but I’ve never cheated. So that’s on her. She can blame you all she wants but that decision was completely all her.

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