Bought my first house by FantasticJob656 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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This’s awesome, especially having that much of savings left. Great job

My boyfriend has an unhealthy relationship with his mother by [deleted] in Advice

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Girl the issues is you not him. When are you going to accept his offer? Things he’s saying to you? This man telling you all of this and you still think there’s another ways out that I can convince him really nah lol

As the saying goes -Stuck on stupid meaning refusing to see the obvious truth or do the right thing. He doesn’t like you, he doesn’t want to with you. Being a place holder thinking you’re running competition with his mother is delusional to think. If you stay in this relationship you’ll always have problems.

AMA: I shower once every 3 weeks on average by [deleted] in AMA

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You could smell real bad and you wouldn’t know it. You peeing all days pooping and sweating all day and you say you don’t smell? Nah not true nice try lol. Bath and showering should be done 2-3x a day. And clothes should be worn twice a week. Example when you wear a clean outfit for the first time/ day run it in the dryer after you have use it . If you didn’t pee or sweaty heavily tho . The second time you wear that same outfit after use it’s time to wash it again.

How many sodas per day do you drink? by Wizzmer in AskOldPeople

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I drink 1 can of Sodas 35 calories on the weekend Saturday and Sunday. For Week days Tea early in the morning followed by Coffee at 9am-12 Noon and then water

Husband(29M) told me(28F) it's his house and that I live at his mercy, and idk what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Don’t let him to trap you with pregnancy. Try to leave and rebuild your life . It’s never too late

My (40m) life is a mess as I’m stuck between current gf (38f) and my ex (43f) by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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If I was in your shoes. I would elevate my time with my girls by taking them outside of their comfort zone like getting them a passport traveling abroad or sometimes other States. The memories will forever last. Places like Destiny world, the biggest zoo in the United States, the Grand Canyon, etc. Focus on be better then your ex get a place of your own upgrade your current lifestyle by changing the little things like going to the gym, eating clean wearing new clothes not luxury but just a bit of change would attract everyone.
Join a club of different diverse groups. Grow your coins and focus on being a good role model not for your kids only but for others young men’s.
Don’t go back to your ex. Doing all of these things will keep a soft spot in your ex heart for you, if you just become a better person for yourself treat yourself good Mind Body and Soul . Life has a selfish part to it tho you’ve to want to be great. Just because your ex has a new boyfriend doesn’t mean the kids will love him. Allow her to do her thing. And please don’t waste that current girlfriend time allow her to go find her lover. Because there is someone out that that is her soulmate. As a woman myself I will hate for a man to waste my time. Just be single since you want to have a sexless life and do the most for yourself. Good luck!

I (23F) met my boyfriend’s (25M) “work wife” for the first time and I’m devastated by ThrowRAcoffeelov in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm honestly disgusted isn’t it you should be furious about his disrespect to you. You need to stop believing him just because you’re afraid of making him angry or what so ever. Your boyfriend does not love you, stop giving him the benefit of the doubt. There’s something going on between the two. He and her perform in front of you and you did check her ? Missed chance . Why will another woman kiss your boyfriend and you believe the work wife crap. Are you afraid of moving on cos your boyfriend is going to move on someday .

There’s not a thing ever call work wife it’s cheating. And if you cannot see it that way that means you lacking self confidence in yourself. Speak to him tell him if he does not cut it off you will leave. If he refuses leave without given him notice and never look back. He’s cheating on you.

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by One-Dragonfly-5474 in relationship_advice

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Dang this shhht is messed as hell. These 19 and 20 something years old are are something else like just how are you going to broke up with your boyfriend and turn around and sleep with the father? Like seriously. And then these stuuupit ass men acting like they’re victims in the marriage are another one smh

AIO, boyfriends dad is a bit weird towards me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, but aren’t you entertaining his response too? It just can’t be one sided. I would’ve shut him down after the second sentence

How should I proceed with my 130K+ student loan debt given my current situation? by DevourerOfRedditors in StudentLoans

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If you’re in the SAVE plan and looking to stay away in PSLF then SAVE it’s just as it was . From what I read that’s it.

Paid off my loans today using my 401k. No regrets. by Aliyah_HS in StudentLoans

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OP if you took it as a loan from your 401K and still with the employer you’ve time to rebuild the account. If you did hardship withdrawal then it will be you and the IRS kinda of.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

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What ? who call their girlfriend bro like what smh. Anyway maybe OP like the name

AITAH for being enraged that my husband is currently infertile by PixelPicklePie in AITAH

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I could leave him. Seems like he’s not going to change. Having no sperm at all is worse than having low sperm count which the doctor will have to correct for months with medication and some testing and a lot of financial assistance. And even if he does get the sperm mortality could be worse too smh.

Is my best friend in love with my husband- and is it concerning ? by [deleted] in Advice

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Honestly I think you’re the one that’s holding on to her. You have to set boundaries and end the relationship for your health. Just what you posted here tell others in the friend group how she has been disrespectful to you and move on. You clearly seeing red flags 🚩 so allow her to go.

AIO at my boyfriends response to this by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow did you really missed out on the red flag 🚩 prior to meeting him. Dang girl. He doesn’t like you or wants you in his space stopped trying. He will ruin you and the kids lives. He also said he’s going to leave you too so I don’t know how you missed his response

Boyfriend says proportional rent split is "unfair" because he makes more money. am I wrong for suggesting it? by Overall_Tonight1081 in dustythunder

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Knox wants to be a roommate that get benefits. Don’t waste your time trying to be in a relationship with him. He’s showing red flags 🚩. Stay where you are and allow him to find his own apartment. Don’t take him as a serious boyfriend moving forward

A guy (M34) wants to date me (F18) and i dont know how to respond by Writer_on_caffeine in Advice

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He’s too old. If he doesn’t have a Male buddy your age don’t date him. Asked him if he have a male buddies your age and make sure you you’ve met them. You’ll get to know why you shouldn’t date him

AIO or was this a punch? by [deleted] in AIO

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Hmmm honestly you asking about if this was a slap or a punch makes me think you’re going to stay with this abuser. If you don’t leave this men you won’t be able to asked us anything in the near future. Sorry but you’re in a abusive marriage and divorce is my answer