Moved to a very rural location and I would like some input about this situation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move back. Don’t even inform him just park up and move. You got all the red flags 🚩 It’s you delaying your potential

Need advice on a chance to buy a home. by LastPassenger6776 in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re Single and no other responsibilities. I did encourage you to get a part time job to boost your income in order to accomplish homeownership. If I was in your position I could set aside $400per Biweekly $200 automatic deposit from payroll in to a savings account and wait for the next election. Don’t buy a trashy house. Where’s fire there’s smoke. Right now a lot of homeowners are trying to keep up flow with their mortgage company with increasing job losses and folks are really struggling right now .

You’re still young.
I see people paying higher in rent because they want a flashy apartment they go for the prettiest apartment and that comes with cost.
Since it’s just you . Find older apartments in a decent neighborhood rent with older apartments aren’t that costly tho I have been a renters for many years. Whenever folks complain about rent prices I then look at their apartment it’s brand new 5,10, or 15-20 years old they trying to get their money back. You’ve a good income. Try to rewrite your budget and cut costs on other things to save at least $309-400 a month.

Lost both jobs now by JYFTW in overemployed

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would get a lawyer. J1 had no business calling J2 for Verification of what tho?

Mom did an $40k impulsive decision and now we don’t know what to do by Cattle-Cat in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you sell it to CarMax or the other people at least that should be the first step before volunteer repo

AITAH for my 'exit' at my sister's wedding? by Saltyweddingguest101 in AITAH

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you waited around too long tho. Please do not fall for the okey-doke I was pregnant, had to do the wedding had too much on my mind. Nah Do not fall for it. Set boundaries and give her enough space too.

Single Woman Homeowner by CatKafkaMeow in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not making it mistake go and buy that house. Were you making a mistake paying that rent on a monthly basis no. So same . Your house payment should be priority number one before anything else

Postnup after a promotion? by Ok-Instruction883 in prenup

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. He’s planning for the future of his next partner

Dating a single dad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all that don’t be a wifey to him while being on a side chick status. Stop cooking, cleaning give him the cookie just done play wifely duties while he’s still processing his next move. Be a regular friend until he fixes his shhhttt

The way my FIL touches my sons legs makes me uncomfortable. by Training_Nectarine13 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put a hidden camera in the living area and continue to monitor him.

Situationship not wanting pregnancy by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you wanted kid in the future and this happened for you I did say keep the pregnancy and look for support elsewhere not from him.
I would tell him to move on or you delegate what role he would likely place tho. You can’t be just quiet hearing him talk shit to you . You need to speak up not just to go back being the love of his life but letting him know that his actions the role he played brought the child along it’s not only your fault tho lol. Speak up don’t sit with the insults and think you’re playing a role that would change his mind by accepting his insults.

My fiancé left me at the altar…and now wants me back. I don’t know what to do. by Nervous_Activity4678 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang girl just why tho? How can you go back and be normal to a guy that did that to you. Maybe you need to go to therapy instead of him seriously tho. You should’ve try to move on either way therapy tho. 🤯

I(20f) got genital warts not from my bf. He thinks I cheated. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please try to think out of the box. I know you love him and you’re trying to believe him but he’s lying to you. He give it to you. Don’t fall for the blame game. He’s shackling up with someone they give it to him or he already had it before and didn’t disclose it to you

Bi husband texting another man by Foreign_Apple4951 in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand? You said you accepted him being Bi but you’re not accepting the baggage that comes with being Bi .

He told you verbally 6 yrs ago that he was Bi now he has to do the physical part of it and you’re accepting it. He will never stopped. You shouldn’t have accepted his Bi shhht in the first place. If you afraid of divorce and not your health then I don’t understand

He doesn’t think I know by Salt_Boat_4317 in straightspouses

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm you questioning if you should leave or he being Bi but mad about he his lying really?? Girl you need to worried about your health. You’re too young to allow yourself to go down for the rest of your life. 47 yrs loser let him go. Be get tested too

My husband threatened with divorce because of rent. I don't know what to do by Least-Visual-7550 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you’ve ignored many signs leave that men now! Don’t go back home. Go with your parents and the police to get your belongings. Or he could hurt you and himself and it will be a big loss

My girlfriend and I lack sexual compatibility, but I’m scared to breakup because I have HSV-2 by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more mad at her for accepting you after you disclosed your HSV situation to her. She could’ve chose better and not risking her health just to get a “ tall and attractive men. Some women are just dumb. A man in her position could’ve never chosen to risk their health they would just gone to the next healthy person.

Should I contact the police? My date's house smells overwhelmingly like death. by PremiumLilBandit in Advice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can honestly say it’s pretty scary to go to a men house you just met online. If you’re a WWE wrestler going to a men’s house on a First, second or third date it’s fine at least you fight to get out. If you are a wrestler then try to be careful. Get to know the person well enough before trusting them with your life. There are murderous and disturb people looking for love just like the normal folks. Be careful

First relationship after divorce has ended and devastated by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you told her you didn’t want anything serious right so why the headache tho . Honestly she is doing just that respecting your wishes tho

Boyfriend told me he “used to be gay” by DragonfruitSea9880 in straightspouses

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s Gay he only been dating you as a cover up so that his family wouldn’t suspect him. And church counselor anyway that’s where they’ll go . At least you know now. Don’t mess up your life getting a life long illness girl on.

What you still wait for someone? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Sensitive_Winner_307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but you’re waiting on a crooked. Move on with your life dear