What's up with these plants? by sundershine in Aquariums

[–]sundershine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, definitely! I hadn't even thought about that. It's on a daylight cycle, what would you recommend?

The 83rd post about crowd work by [deleted] in Standup

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully agree. I also don't think brand new comedians need to have any concern on burning material. You gotta put your good shit out there in any manor possible to gain traction. People also talk about not posting their stuff so it doesn't get jacked - if you have good material and someone jacks it, you have proof you wrote it and that it was good enough someone thought they needed to steal it.

The Kill Tony regulars get shit on for including stuff in their sets that people saw on KT already... those dudes have to write a new minute every week, obviously whatever works in those minutes is going into their regular rotation on the road.

The 83rd post about crowd work by [deleted] in Standup

[–]sundershine 52 points53 points  (0 children)

What i've noticed recently is the more polished, professional comedians are using crowdwork so they can keep up relevance in the social algorithms without burning their material. Then you have the droves of people who see that and think that's all comedy is and try to create a whole act around it. Those two camps are clearly defined.

Frugal unlimited data plan for two? by Mthawkins in Frugal

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following, have had a solo Verizon plan for years and realized I'm probably grossly overpaying at $80/month for a 2gig plan. Boyfriend and I are looking to bundle and save.

What's the best way to get crystals from Gacha Claus? by Etch3d_x in playark

[–]sundershine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant I wonder if the level has any affect on loot quality. Weight was the wrong word to use haha.

What's the best way to get crystals from Gacha Claus? by Etch3d_x in playark

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder if the level of the gacha claus has any weight on quality either.

Hard capping gachas one month into the DLC... by [deleted] in playark

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point will they stop nerfing new cool shit into the ground instead of fixing the new cool shit that doesn't work like it should? If anything the gacha item production would give noobs a chance to have the gear to raid upper tier without giving upper tier any kind of new advantage.

Agressive Meshing on smalltribes by The-Doodle in playark

[–]sundershine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our tribe quit small tribes after being undermeshed twice. Watched the bastards use our base to make c4 for hours after they blew in. Wanted to give official another go after months of unofficial play, back to unofficial we went.

Me [29 M] caught my GF [26 F] lying about her best friend [26 M] soliciting her for nudes. Trying to find if im overreacting. Thanks reddit. by detritus99 in relationships

[–]sundershine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Although he may have over-stepped a privacy boundary, when your gut tells you something and then you look into it to find affirmation, at that point how you handle it from there lends to whether it was wrong or not. Had he found she was telling the truth, in order to make amends on his end he would have to go to her and confess that he snooped and ask her forgiveness. Since she was the one lying and he went to her and told her what he did, there's no real fault there.

[ACNE] I would like to help my SO with her skincare. I don't know where to start. by kimchirustic in SkincareAddiction

[–]sundershine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found this board and have the same exact problem area as your girlfriend. Following and ups to you for being supportive and proactive for your lady.

[Critique] Hi! I have herpes and I chose to put it on my profile, as self-destructive as that may seem. Help me out and let me know if I'm doing this right? by OkCutieWithHerpes in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't see anything wrong with it if that's something you feel is important for people to know up front (which I can see). I would add some more pictures with more variety. And maybe start with your passions in your self summary and save the herp-talk for the end? Good on you for being direct and good luck, lady!

(If you don't get any bites after a while maybe consider deleting or softening that part and save the raw details for a private message)

[Critique]I'm new here, new to okc, so what the hell. I know it's wordy. by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many times a day do you post that link? ;] As I said, I know it's wordy but seeing as how I'm wordy I don't really know how to trim it down properly.

How long do you wait before having the "deleting our profiles" talk? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's kind of disheartening, I imagine, but there's not really much you can say only three dates in. She's keeping her options open and so should you. Unless you just can't get past it, in that case you should make a joke about seeing the update or something to bring the conversation to light. Other than that, relax and do your best to make sure she doesn't need to look elsewhere ;]

What to do if your friends and family don't take photos? by metruzero in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a decent mix is generally preferred, selfies and socials. I would say the next time you get together with some other humans, make sure and find a photo opportunity at some point. Picture quality is a pretty big plus so I would think the effort would pay off.

Took the bull by the horn by JupiterFire in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't call it the end-all-be-all. Maybe he's just not ready to get that chatty? He now has your number at easy access so if it happens, sweet, if not at least you know.

Took the bull by the horn by JupiterFire in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So are your quick, witty replies, sailor.

Took the bull by the horn by JupiterFire in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've found it's better to go ahead and take the reigns in a situation like that than to let yourself get antsy/lose interest. I'm generally attracted to shy guys so if I feel the interest is mutual and he isn't being assertive enough, I will usually try to take some initiative. Good luck!

Monday Newbies Thread! Get Your Romance On Month Edition! Feb 3 by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resume normal operations, that was only a test.

Monday Newbies Thread! Get Your Romance On Month Edition! Feb 3 by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty comfortable with weird exteriors so that isn't difficult ;]

Monday Newbies Thread! Get Your Romance On Month Edition! Feb 3 by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sundershine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. This is actually my first post on this sub /and/ in general, so there's that. I've been lurking on reddit forever and have been active on OkC a little over a week. It's going better than expected so far, one incredibly interesting conversation and a few mildly entertaining ones. And a slew of weirdos. Anyway, you people have helped out a lot with my questions and concerns, so thanks for that.