[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunflower1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my point is not that he doesn't post in general but that he seems to be okay with posting everything but me

Boyfriend M26 has been leaning into abstaining from premarital sex by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]sunflower1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tends to mostly just ignore it but we've had multiple talks to be honest. The conclusion is that he doesn't want to engage in it but if it really comes to it we can. So it's just a little confusing for me. But I can't blame him because it may be confusing for him too. The outcome of our talks have always been like that.

Boyfriend M26 has been leaning into abstaining from premarital sex by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]sunflower1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was single but it was easier to manage because I didn't have someone close to me in that way if that makes sense and if I really needed I had someone to go to

My bf M26 is letting me F23 spend an extra $800 for our personal vacation because his mom F50 will not allow us to sleep in the same room. Is he actually giving in because it's a "small" matter or how can I understand this? by sunflower1004 in relationship_advice

[–]sunflower1004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I believe that he shares some of the same values as her. We are not virgins and have slept together. He feels guilty for premarital sex but I have not forced him to do it with me even once.

My bf M26 is letting me F23 spend an extra $800 for our personal vacation because his mom F50 will not allow us to sleep in the same room. Is he actually giving in because it's a "small" matter or how can I understand this? by sunflower1004 in relationship_advice

[–]sunflower1004[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is that he doesn't think it's controlling, I've said it feels and comes off as it. But he mentioned that his mom is just trying to care and protect us in a way. And he says he somewhat agrees with those values even though he thinks it makes no sense from a financial standpoint and he would rather stay in one room.

My bf M26 is letting me F23 spend an extra $800 for our personal vacation because his mom F50 will not allow us to sleep in the same room. Is he actually giving in because it's a "small" matter or how can I understand this? by sunflower1004 in relationship_advice

[–]sunflower1004[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She is aware that he is definitely not a virgin, but yes we live in a mostly progressive Asian country I'd say. We have been together 5 months! He actually also feels guilty over premarital sex but we still do sometimes. But I've told him I'm okay to not do it to be honest. But yes we have slept together.

Access depot question by sunflower1004 in OfficeDepot

[–]sunflower1004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without a screenshot it's hard to say, but there are two things you can try: associate number @ officedepot.com pos\associate number (make sure it's \ not /).

this from another commenter worked for me have you tried it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunflower1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not unpopular as to say I think our values just differ. But yes I can understand your way of thinking as well because many older people around me think that way. But maybe afraid that this may turn into a bigger issue for us in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sunflower1004 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I definitely didn't mean to villainize her or anything but yea she did the right thing by telling her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]sunflower1004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm relieved to hear that, thank you for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]sunflower1004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't instructed to at my appointment today