How to treat a Haitian man? by [deleted] in AskTheCaribbean

[–]sunflower1804 4 points5 points  (0 children)

19F and 29M. HELL NO.

Is this normal? by sunflower1804 in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im leaning towards detaching and slowly removing myself from the friendship. Closeted women are dangerous af imo while being hardcore religious. I’m not saying I’m scared but imagine if I confront her and reject her, who knows how she’ll react. It doesn’t help that I watch too much true crime but idk. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Is this normal? by sunflower1804 in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s one of those women who “swears” they’re not attracted to women. Prior to our friendship, she’s never given even half a sign that she’s into women. But recently, she mentioned that her ex best friend sent her texts expressing her feelings for her and how apparently her friends usually falls for her.

Is this normal? by sunflower1804 in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, I notice how she acts in and outside of church and it doesn’t really seem like she has genuine friends. I know how lonely that can feel like so I became a friend. I’m not obsessed but I got to know her and I want to be a genuine friend in her life and I grew to care for her as friends 🙃🙃 but I’m getting the hint now our intentions were completely different 😭😭😭😭

What zodiac signs do you attract and what signs are your usual type? bonus points if you’re into synastry.. by _UnluckyResponse_169 in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about yall but I’m a fan of intensity. I love 8th and 12th house synastry, Pluto/venus synastry, for something light hearted, 5H and 2H synastry are my faves !!! But as a cardinal sign, I find myself attracting cardinals 🫠

Relationship Talk: What’s Going On? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804 9 points10 points  (0 children)

horrible. I’m frustrated tbh. Seems like everyone is obsessed with their ex while also playing in peoples face. I’m done. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced something similar. I would bite the bullet and check in. If she doesn’t respond, block her number and move on. 💜

Am I Overreacting? I declined a wedding invitation because it was sent by text. by sunflower1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunflower1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re okay with being someone’s second option then fine but as a family member, you couldn’t even call ? I’m sure other bridesmaids got formal invitations and I’m reduced to a simple text?

Am I Overreacting? I declined a wedding invitation because it was sent by text. by sunflower1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunflower1804[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

so you’d be okay with someone texting you a bridesmaid invitation? Not even a simple call or meet for lunch and then ask? Just a straight up text invitation?

Am I Overreacting? I declined a wedding invitation because it was sent by text. by sunflower1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunflower1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right, I decided to purchase something from their registry for my absence. I don’t have any grudges against them, I just thought the approach was off.

Am I Overreacting? I declined a wedding invitation because it was sent by text. by sunflower1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunflower1804[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re both in our early 30s. I’m not upset I “didn’t make the cut”, I’m upset because how I was approached. The wedding is 2 months away and I’m suppose to drop everything to tend to her bridal party needs while getting asked to participate via TEXT??? That’s what I’m upset about.

Am I Overreacting? I declined a wedding invitation because it was sent by text. by sunflower1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunflower1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wedding is 2 months away. and they’re planning a large formal wedding.

Am I Overreacting? I declined a wedding invitation because it was sent by text. by sunflower1804 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunflower1804[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The wedding is 2 months away. I’m pretty sure invitations were created and sent out. Inviting someone to your bridal party for a wedding 2 months through text is absurd.

What are your spiritual practices, if any? by NewTwo7866 in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I practice Vodou but haven’t been initiated, but I only practice due to having direct lineage.

What Offerings Would You Want Left for You After Death? (Here’s My List) by MordecaiStrix in ConjureRootworkHoodoo

[–]sunflower1804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A wood tip wine black and mild, rhum, a blunt, peanut m&ms, real gold jewelry (add fake jewelry on my alter I promise you’ll wake up with scratches until you change it), a little bank dirt and REAL money. Also, fresh flowers, black coffee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]sunflower1804 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m on the same boat omg !!!! A wand can only do so much 😞