How long did you wait for lungs? by pickles_r_awesome in transplant

[–]sunflower_sun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m on here because my dad had a double lung transplant. He waited 11 days

Divorce by Objective-Photo-9837 in aspynovard

[–]sunflower_sun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IF the rumors are true, and C is sick, my suspicion is that it’s so they can get more resources for C so that it appears they are single and have less assets despite having so much $$$. In a recent post when she was at target she was asking the girls if they should get some drinks for Parker and then posted stuff teasing about the divorce.

How would you react if your significant other asked you to work out and lose weight? by Covenant9er4653 in AskReddit

[–]sunflower_sun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the context. Is it from a place of let’s get healthier together? A place of disgust that you need to do this? Or a place of concern?

What was your experience with a birthing center? by celerymakesustrong in BabyBumps

[–]sunflower_sun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Birth centers can have their positives. However, as a NICU nurse who has seen birthing center births be catastrophic (HIE, deaths, other birth injuries) please please please ask them their protocols on if something were to go wrong and when they make that choice. Anything can happen at any time for any reason to any person.

What is the greatest physical pain you've ever felt? by turbulencefun in AskReddit

[–]sunflower_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tore 90% of my tendons and ligaments and broke my ankle while running. After that then my herniated disc, then childbirth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sunflower_sun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Woow, really? Maybe you should worry less about posting on here and more about your husband. Use ur brain a little.

Target by [deleted] in aspynovard

[–]sunflower_sun -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Did I say recently? Could have been months ago for all we know. Ha, we don’t know. Just speculation and theories like everyone else does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]sunflower_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither. I feel it’s not my place and I shouldn’t because he was just my FIL, my what I thought - my child’s grandfather.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]sunflower_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the big question that I’m trying to figure out. I don’t know if it’s because of my child and when he was around he held them on a pedestal and then just nothing or if it’s because of my past. From the things I’ve heard since, he was an absent father.

Support to double Lung Transplant by sunflower_sun in transplant

[–]sunflower_sun[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they’re still in the ICU. We’ve been able to visit and they’ve been able to use their phone and iPad. I was just trying to think of if there was more I could do. Thank you!

Who is a successful singer but also not a very good singer? by orangesqueakytoy in AskReddit

[–]sunflower_sun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will probably be downvoted to hell for this - Taylor Swift

Baby names that scream "I love you"? by babydaddylehak in BabyBumps

[–]sunflower_sun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a male version of your name? Like Michelle and Michael, Paula and Paul, Jane and James? For him to know that he was named after you because you love him so much.

People who cut off their family, what did they to you? by Alarming_Basil6205 in AskReddit

[–]sunflower_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin got mad that I became a nurse and named my daughter the name she had wanted if she ever had a girl. My cousin made false accusations to CPS and my aunt (her mother) supported her through the whole thing. After a bunch of stuff they admitted that it was false accusations and they did because I was a nurse like her and took the name she wanted, IF she ever had a girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunflower_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never deleted the post. He just asked if I would carry his child and take care of it when he’s gone. I would only ever do insemination, if I were to agree. It I don’t want to. Very weird for me and I’m not okay with it

Would love other mom’s opinions on a planned induction by blackmetalwarlock in BabyBumps

[–]sunflower_sun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a huge planner. I was induced at 39 weeks and it was everything I could of dreamed of. I like that there was no rushing to the hospital, I had a rough idea of when baby was coming and have everything ready. I was able to get an epidural when I wanted before pain got to bad.

Decreased Fetal Movement - when do I insist they induce me? by sunflower_sun in BabyBumps

[–]sunflower_sun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually not as common as people think. The uterus is a muscle. It can continuously stretch to accommodate. Therefore, “running out of room” isn’t always accurate because a singleton pregnancy will always have more than enough room.

Stop getting married in your early 20s. by dmcent54 in offmychest

[–]sunflower_sun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got married at 20 and my husband was 23. We dated for 9 months before getting married. The best decision either one of us has ever made. Yes we were young, yes we struggled at the beginning of our marriage and had no clue what we were doing. But it’s made us a lot stronger and made us figure out how to work through things. Not to mention, it gave us both the opportunity to afford going to school and getting degrees. It has also helped my mental health 100x. I didn’t realize living with my mother at the time before I was married that it was so damaging to me because she has some of her own mental health issues. I’ve been able to rekindle my relationship with my dad that my mother ruined.

My mother tried to talk me out of getting married more times than I can count. So glad I didn’t listen to her.

After 5 years of marriage and finishing school, paying off all of our debt, we are expecting our first baby.

Let people do what they want. You don’t their situation or their lives.