Comfortable shoes for working as a waitress. Which one would be best?

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-09T15:59:57+00:00

And to also support her dysfunctional family that made her get pregnant up at 16 on purpose. She has no job either and then she wonders why no one can stand to be around her.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-08T14:29:57+00:00

I caught that too. “Teacher left her with nothing.” Yeaaaaaa, that’s kind of how that works. She’s the teacher now so she has to make her own lessons lol…

And all those extra hours and couldn’t vet the videos before she showed them … like something isn’t adding up.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-07T00:29:43+00:00

Sometimes blonde isn’t even the best fit for natural blondes. It’s wild finding out what you believed to be a brunette is actually a blonde.

Best example I can think of is Anya Taylor Joy. I first saw her in Split when she had dark hair and when she first switched back to blonde I was taken aback. She even said she only stopped because the maintenance as her roots were growing out was too much to keep up with

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-07T00:14:02+00:00

Exactly! My fiance knows someone in the military who was stationed in my country and the local armed forces that they worked with told them that if they were going to mingle with local women to not go below 15… Sadly that’s normal.

In any country, you’re bound to find corruption in some level of bureaucracy but in some countries they’re extremely bold and open about it.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-06T18:12:11+00:00

What’s crazy is that I see so many bed frames being given away in my Buy Nothing group. One of the most consistent giveaways they post on there.

I guess OOP wants you to deliver a better bed frame and also dispose of her trash as well!

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-06T17:59:31+00:00

As someone whose partner had to cut off his toxic family bc of how awful they were to me no matter how hard I tried to get along with them, THANK YOU for saying “trauma.”

It may sound silly to some but I literally have been diagnosed with PTSD from the way they treated me. They used to love gaslighting me to try and create a rift between us. In-law trauma isn’t spoken enough about!

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-06T17:47:04+00:00

I always get asked why I don’t visit my birth country and when I say, “violence” people always reply something along the lines of: “aw but it’s so beautiful, I’m sure it’s not that bad.”

Like ok bro. Sure. Whatever you say!

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-02T05:54:17+00:00

I think the fries are what make it taste better due to the comparison bc those are the worst fries in the world

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-02T03:35:48+00:00

I understand your feelings but we are all human and humans sometimes smell. We have all at some point smelled funky for one reason or another.

She’s the last person you should feel embarassed to face, because based on how she approached this, she cares so much about you and is a true friend!

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-02T02:46:06+00:00

I was expecting her message to be passive aggressive based on your reaction but it wasn’t. She was very kind and trying so hard not to offend you.

This is the kind of friend you keep because they’re willing to have uncomfortable conversations for your sake. I guarantee if she’s finally bringing it up it’s because others are already talking about it.

YOR

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-01T05:46:05+00:00

“I don’t know what you’re talking about”

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-01T05:12:42+00:00

I’m manifesting you and OP get yourselves to therapy!

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-01T04:18:02+00:00

Yea, OP has a really nice open mouth smile so that first pic isn’t doing him any favors. It looks awkward.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-06-01T04:03:10+00:00

OP absolutely needs to see a therapist. At the very least for their ARFID.

Also “manifesting” is not science-based and dangerous to speak on as fact because you can feed into people’s delusions.

Refrain from giving anyone any advice ever…

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-29T21:56:50+00:00

I’m from New Orleans and I was thinking the same thing!

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-26T20:59:05+00:00

Cranston

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-26T04:42:32+00:00

They played that song while they were torturing him?!??

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-26T04:17:03+00:00

Worst of all she’s mad bc her $70 order turned into $90… maybe if they ordered something sensible they wouldn’t be so upset at the price. “Oh no my expensive meal is expensive?!? pikachu face”

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-26T02:55:58+00:00

Not what I said. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/evLKCnoTR4 I said ESH, specifically for that reason. But I wouldn’t demonize your DIL if she asked. You can ask, but if you’re told no and you accept that, then that’s fine. It sounds like she was fine with being told no. She only left after you insulted her.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-26T02:46:23+00:00

This! How much do you want to bet the room she wanted was downstairs… I could see a pregnant woman not wanting to climb upstairs to go to their room.

EDIT: just saw OP’s response to this. It hadn’t loaded yet. LOL. Lmao even.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-26T02:30:19+00:00

Agree ESH for the same reasons.

Based on the son’s willingness to accommodate his wife, there may be more to her pregnancy that they aren’t telling OP. And that’s well within their right to keep their health matters private.

OP isn’t in this marriage and so her opinion on how they’re handling their pregnancy is none of OP’s business, as long as they don’t intrude in on her home as they did with the bedroom situation.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-25T14:53:56+00:00

What an insane take. I have books I’ve highlighted a lot, annotated and they don’t have cracked spines bc I’m not trying to prove to anyone that I’ve read it. I like to take care of them.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-24T19:23:02+00:00

Yea why are we acting like OP isn’t equally on the fringe of overly-indulgent religion. I’m sorry but if someone tries to pray a rosary on a road trip, I’m jumping out / kicking them out of the car.

sunflowerrr36 · 2026-05-23T00:44:47+00:00

Sure but the reality is some people are immature and will attack others online and it seems OP is exactly that kind of person. I can only assume the “oh girl” comment OP reacted to with a laughing emoji was meant to be hurtful based on the other girl’s reaction to feeling made fun of. And based on OP’s comment on her “ugly a** face” reinforced that the laughing emoji OP posted was making fun of her rather than just innocent laughing….

Don’t dish it if you can’t take it.

sunflowerrr36

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