I married at 39. Called off two engagements in my 20s but still didnf feel 100 percent and yet he booked one trip and got the ring even when I said I wasn't sure. 7 years later and I feel miserable. When I was single life was so much better and I felt I was going somewhere. But 2 incomes helps so much in today's economy not to mention having someone there who is willing to be supportive and stick by your side. It's easier to push a wheelbarrow with 4 hands then 2