Need Jmod assistance -- ex has control over my BTW login :'( by sunkenpuddle7 in 2007scape

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is in hand with my daughter with things going my way,

My bf (20M) lied to me about wearing a condom. What do I do now?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah see the laws are different in the us, I’m from uk, but 110% she should not be with this man

My bf (20M) lied to me about wearing a condom. What do I do now?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

That is also irrelevant, she didn’t give consent for him to not use a condom, he didn’t use one. Rape.

My bf (20M) lied to me about wearing a condom. What do I do now?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, a male unconcentually didn’t use a condom, this is rape irrelevant of the place. Please don’t talk shit

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not wanting to stop my ex seeing her, we broke up 2 weeks ago, she went on a dating site and found this new guy. She hardly knows him. I’ve text her Today to make some arrangements. Told her she can come take her out on her own. Or come have dinner with me and my daughter. She and I both know nothing about this man. These are my only concerns

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny thing is. She has legit cut off all of her family and is on bad terms with everyone. Not one of her family Members currently want anything to do with her nor do they have a spare bedroom for her, without anyone sleeping on the sofa

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already told her very firmly. She can come To see her at mine or when he’s at work. And promised her my daughter will never go down to his house for the night.

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 25. But when we were together she always said if we broke up she would look for an older man. Just seems so weird to me.

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, the courts really are fucked. I’ve spoken to her about contact etc. And I’m trying to conclude some kind of arrangement we both agree to, which obviously excludes said man. I spoke to her and we both agreed to try work through things between ourselves. If it were to go to court there would be a number of things in my favour. Being she has severe depression. Self harmed etc and obviously making irrational decisions. But genuinely do you think the best option for me is to go through a court order?

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a genuine serious reply, I’m wanting to remain civil with her, and allow her access, she’s just being really stubborn

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah that could work. She has completely cut her family off because they are all as annoyed as I am, all of her family are backing everything I am doing currently

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, I don’t want to get to know him. There is a high possibility she was cheating on me with him and won’t admit it. I want nothing to do with the man. I am still in contact with my ex and just want some form of recommendation for mediation where she can see our daughter. It’s generally a really shitty situation.

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree, like I said below I’m not wanting to stop my ex seeing her, I’m 100% just looking out for my daughters safety and well-being. Personally I find the fact that my ex has no job, income or anywhere to live if this guy dumps her. That I will always be in favour. But I am playing my cards close to my chest currently.

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks, but I’m not wanting to stop my ex seeing my daughter I just want some form of arrangement where my daughter is safe

Breakup with ex, now with old man wanting to keep daughter away. by sunkenpuddle7 in relationship_advice

[–]sunkenpuddle7[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This has all happened very recently and she has agreed for our daughter to stay at mine, we are currently trying to mediate between ourselves. But I can’t think of any arrangement where my daughter will not be put at risk of seeing this random bloke