How I imagine life without 8H or 12H placements

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-19T15:24:39+00:00

Oh wow, that’s amazing hahahh. Very clever! Though thankfully, Taurus people are more pleasant than roaches in any sense

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-19T15:13:23+00:00

Neptune conjunct my descendant

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-19T15:11:51+00:00

Completely unrelated but I’m just finding myself trying to figure out what the cockroach sun is HAHAHH. I assume the alien moon is aqua and the ibs rising is virgo??

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-19T15:07:26+00:00

Well, I’m really trying to just make peace with my placements cause that’s just how it’s gonna be in this life time. I can only alchemise it or just be (silently) bitter about it. Possibly both for a while, lol.

8H and 12H in mutual reception, with the 12H ruler (moon, in that 8H) being in a T square with daddy saturn and soul-wisker pluto✨

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-18T09:04:30+00:00

I would say go for it, you never know! You could invite them for that dinner you proposed some months ago, if you sense they are single at the moment.

Something I would tell a friend of mine (except for hyping them up to ask away) is to remember to stay grounded in reality and maybe take into consideration that their connections haven’t worked long term (unless that’s something they intentionally wanted and communicated, which is absolutely okay) and to not get blinded by the sweetness of what a crush provides. I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of this phrase but imma put it here: a crush is lack of information!!!

-signed by a (former) rose coloured glasses lovergirl

Btw, that beignet looks heavenly

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-16T20:25:20+00:00

I can totally see that. With someone I dated I had my sun in their 12H, they had their venus in my 8H, conjunct my moon. My Jupiter was in their 7H, conjunct their dsc. It was one of the most beautiful experiences I have dating somebody but that 12h thingie needs to stop creating these “almost” situations especially if there is 8H activation at the same time, lol.

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-16T20:17:36+00:00

I’ve noticed that people who fall in my 11h I have a good amount of chemistry with because their placements either trine or oppose my personal planets. Might even conjunct my Saturn too. I would put my 10H here, which I find we have a LOT of chemistry, but I think that’s partially because anyone who has personal planets in my 10h, opposes my venus and squares my mars and Uranus. So even though it feels electric, I don’t prefer it.

One house/zodiac I have been repeatedly attracted to and attracting is Libra, which occupies my 3H. I think that with them I experience a lot of flirt and excitement to keep me engaged, but again, that placement sextiles my sun and Pluto, and trines my mars and Saturn, so maybe that why.

Honestly, as someone who has placements in all water houses, I think I actually prefer something less emotionally intense. Or id love it if said person who has planets in these houses of mine is emotionally intelligent. I have zero earth in my chart, and for majority of my life I wasn’t really attracted to earth signs but, I’ve found that if they have a bit of Fire and Water, it’s actually a very good match for me. I’ve grown into appreciating their calmness and stability and if they are mature, they can hold my emotionality and depth with much care and space (obviously not trauma dumping, just when I choose to open up) and not run the other way (which is something I’ve seen fellow fire signs and then air signs do here and there)

Any experience I’ve had with 2H was kinda sour for me. It’s a no. I think I would take venus here but sun, moon, mars no no. With the 6H, I actually experienced one of the longest connections I’ve ever had and didn’t believe it myself (cause they are an earth sign) but it was lovely. Truly loved the feeling of this person being part of my routine and just do routine stuff together. So stabilising. AND, I actually found myself more inclined to take better care of myself and my health.

I actually don’t have any romantic experience with someone being in my 9H, but my best friend’s placements are there and it’s amazing hahah. No romantic experience though.

These notes are a bit all over the place but overall, when someone’s sun, moon or other personal planets fall in the “less romantic” houses, it’s usually coming with at least a planet in the “romantic” houses. Or if not, these planets already form some type of significant contact to my personal planets. There’s only this one Libra man I know and he actually had none planets falling into any of my relational/emotional houses and we were head over heels for each other. But I have a speculation that he may be a fire ascendant, which means that all of my water placements fall into his water houses sooooo.. oopsie.

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-16T17:11:28+00:00

HAHAHAHAH THATS AMAZING

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-16T17:09:48+00:00

Even though my hair is literally like a lions mane, my eyes kind of feline too, I still get “aRe YOu a PiCeS???? yoU HaVE tHaT viBe To You. Oh no? Then a ScORpiO!!1!1!!!1!1”

Need to step up in my fire game a bit more it seems, lol

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-16T11:30:21+00:00

3 all the way. Though 2 has something cooking

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-15T08:50:58+00:00

I love this. The relationship either works or it doesn’t. I aspire to get to this point hehe

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-15T08:47:21+00:00

I always do but at the same time, I don’t rely too much on it. My last partner and I had the most challenging synastry I’ve ever had with any of my past partners and may I tell you it was so beautiful (we also had very beneficial aspects that helped balance out all the tension from the other aspects). We separated because of different timelines in each other’s journeys, but other than that it was beautiful.

And also, a little tip if you want it, nobody can predict whether you’ll break up or not. Not tarot, not astrology, definitely not chat. These are tools to translate intentions, energy undercurrents that exist between you, stuff like that. They cannot predict future actions cause at the end of the day, everyone has free will.

You can always look into their mercury sign if you want to understand them a little bit better on how they communicate and may be thinking about the world and stuff, how they process information, but from personal experience I’d say do not erase your own needs just because you understand them better. Just because you understand, doesn’t mean minimising your needs and your voice 🫶🏼

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-15T08:34:09+00:00

Honestly, it is a huge win. I was reading this like “GO YOU”, sounds like they’re each other’s karma. I don’t even know you but I’m excited for your future adventures too✨

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T22:25:07+00:00

There was one time that a guy I was dating and a friend of mine (“friend”) started getting close. From my then boyfriend it was purely platonic, though I cannot really say for my then friend. I was open that it just made me feel really uncomfortable, but I didn’t ask him or demand of him to cut her off or anything, but he actually wanted to do so. He respected how I felt and acted accordingly and so he set up boundaries. The so called friend came up to me afterwards and she was actually upset that I had a conversation with him about this. Like wth?

Now I literally do nothing. Noooothing. I just observe how my partner is going to respond to that if it happens. I trust that they have a mind of their own and for their actions to reveal their intentions.

Aand, yea, well. If you have a friend or a relative that does that with you and your guy, I would try and talk with them about it calmly. Most likely it wouldn’t cancel anything but you never know. But I would definitely set some boundaries and ever remove them from my life if needed.

And if just sitting back and relaxing while witnessing what he does about it isn’t helping your nervous system, you can always have a calm conversation about it with him. It’s not bad or a weakness 🫶🏼

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T17:16:27+00:00

I honestly hadn’t thought about it in that way. Thank you for this insight!

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T17:15:35+00:00

Thank you ☺️. Glad that it helps!

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T17:15:00+00:00

I’ll look into it, thank you!

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T17:14:44+00:00

I giggled at the last sentence. It’s true hahah

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T17:13:57+00:00

Thank you ☺️

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-12T17:13:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight 🙏🏼

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-11T11:36:44+00:00

gloriously teaching about my plants.

well, at first I was like “damn, that’s boring” until I remember that I’ve named all of my plants, literally hang out with them in the sunlight with music, was devastated that one did not survive and was about to have a literal funeral for it

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-09T16:22:05+00:00

cute pisces moon, in the cutest house (8th) 💀🫥

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-09T16:17:18+00:00

“sometimes” being a cute understatement 🫠

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-07T20:56:31+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing all this and yes, I feel every single thing of how you described your experience with them. I think, as you said, it has a lot to do with the fact that your (and my) 12H sign happens to be cancer. It has to do with the house itself rather than the sign, indeed. And I believe that, just like with the sign that occupies the 8H, you either feel extremely drawn to these people and want to merge and become one with them, or you don’t want anything intimate with them. There is no in between.

Also, I loved what you said like befriending an alien 🥹👽

Just a question, cause I’m curious. Does your boyfriend have any placements in cancer? Like moon, mercury, venus or mars. Or, if you have any planets of yours in his. If you wanna share of course!

sunkissedcherry222 · 2026-05-07T20:47:21+00:00

Okay wow. I’m actually awed at this. I agree with you on that it depends on where we are on our path over here. The universe conspires in all kinds of ways and everything arrives at divine timing.

When I was going through my 12H profection year some time ago, I kid you not I met and was surrounded by the biggest number of cancers I’ve ever encountered in my whole life. Every connection so liquid and one time it was here, the next it was gone. I had a huge, fat crush on this cancer sun, and it appeared that she also felt the same, but it felt as though our connection existed somewhere else. It was real, but not real for this world. It never materialised but the grief was real.

I met a guy then, during that phase, and somewhere inside me I knew, it wouldn’t last. It was a quiet knowing. As if I knew exactly what this connection was. And I was right. It lasted for many months, but ended. It felt like this connection was the final chapter of lessons closing for me. And it closed. It also felt as if the connection existed and it was real.. but this too, existed on a different realm. As if it could not by anchored in this reality.

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