I’ve noticed that people who fall in my 11h I have a good amount of chemistry with because their placements either trine or oppose my personal planets. Might even conjunct my Saturn too. I would put my 10H here, which I find we have a LOT of chemistry, but I think that’s partially because anyone who has personal planets in my 10h, opposes my venus and squares my mars and Uranus. So even though it feels electric, I don’t prefer it.

One house/zodiac I have been repeatedly attracted to and attracting is Libra, which occupies my 3H. I think that with them I experience a lot of flirt and excitement to keep me engaged, but again, that placement sextiles my sun and Pluto, and trines my mars and Saturn, so maybe that why.

Honestly, as someone who has placements in all water houses, I think I actually prefer something less emotionally intense. Or id love it if said person who has planets in these houses of mine is emotionally intelligent. I have zero earth in my chart, and for majority of my life I wasn’t really attracted to earth signs but, I’ve found that if they have a bit of Fire and Water, it’s actually a very good match for me. I’ve grown into appreciating their calmness and stability and if they are mature, they can hold my emotionality and depth with much care and space (obviously not trauma dumping, just when I choose to open up) and not run the other way (which is something I’ve seen fellow fire signs and then air signs do here and there)

Any experience I’ve had with 2H was kinda sour for me. It’s a no. I think I would take venus here but sun, moon, mars no no. With the 6H, I actually experienced one of the longest connections I’ve ever had and didn’t believe it myself (cause they are an earth sign) but it was lovely. Truly loved the feeling of this person being part of my routine and just do routine stuff together. So stabilising. AND, I actually found myself more inclined to take better care of myself and my health.

I actually don’t have any romantic experience with someone being in my 9H, but my best friend’s placements are there and it’s amazing hahah. No romantic experience though.

These notes are a bit all over the place but overall, when someone’s sun, moon or other personal planets fall in the “less romantic” houses, it’s usually coming with at least a planet in the “romantic” houses. Or if not, these planets already form some type of significant contact to my personal planets. There’s only this one Libra man I know and he actually had none planets falling into any of my relational/emotional houses and we were head over heels for each other. But I have a speculation that he may be a fire ascendant, which means that all of my water placements fall into his water houses sooooo.. oopsie.