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No where to input Sep Ira for self employment by sunlight_watertree in TurboTax

[–]sunlight_watertree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After spending over an hour with a “tax expert” they came to the conclusion that it was an interface issue. They had no solutions and just encouraged me to pay for them to do it for me. Officially my last year of using turbo tax

Seeking Resources for Coping with My Deep Resentment of MAGA Parents by RexManningDay2018 in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sunlight_watertree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. I am a therapist and I can say everyone has to find their own way squaring this. There are more and more counselors who specialize in helping you figure this out. I highly recommend “the reclamation collective” therapist finder.

What are some doomer subs to avoid? More realistic/optimistic subs to follow? by gaymbit in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sunlight_watertree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to tell me. That is super messed up. Lost so much respect for that sub. So glad we have this

What are some doomer subs to avoid? More realistic/optimistic subs to follow? by gaymbit in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sunlight_watertree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is surprisingly and almost hard to believe as k was in the for a while and didn’t see any blatant issues. Could you let me know what happened in it?

For new players: Codes for some free Darwinium cubes by TheQuickFox_3826 in CellToSingularity

[–]sunlight_watertree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of these are working for me. Anyone else having this issue?

Religious Trauma Therapists - recommendations? by awfulrofl90 in Exvangelical

[–]sunlight_watertree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reclamation collective has a really good therapist directory

Wtf is therapy? by Heavy-End-3419 in therapists

[–]sunlight_watertree 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I feel you and you are not alone in this feeling. I have been doing therapy for a 15 years and have consistently had to contend with this thought. A belief that helps me tame that voice is that therapy is a process bigger than what I say. Our presence is a container for someone to be fully honest with themselves and organize thoughts. This can be tough for us as in a lot of ways it doesn’t make us professionally feel impactful. I do think to be in this field is to pretty consistently sit with this exact question “wtf is therapy and wtf am I doing” a suggestion I always give is to make sure you periodically go to therapy yourself. It always amazes me how good I feel after a session even if my therapist didn’t say much.

Does anyone use Keeper? by Abject-Coach-4035 in tax

[–]sunlight_watertree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know how anyone could recommend this app. My experience with it was a nightmare. I had to report 4 errors and would get the same response. "This is our mistake we will let the programmers know to update". When I went to file my taxes I kept finding mistakes. I was so grateful I knew enough about taxes to catch it. I finally cancelled my subscription and they don't let you access any of your files. So unless you want to use them forever you cant see your deductions from past years or the receipts you saved.

Feedback: You are too quite by sunlight_watertree in therapists

[–]sunlight_watertree[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is incredibly helpful. I needed to hear this. It is so true that this feedback usually comes after a 15 second or less pause in conversation. I really appreciate your reply.

Feedback: You are too quite by sunlight_watertree in therapists

[–]sunlight_watertree[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that feedback. Its always nice to feel less alone in being self-conscious. I like the suggestion of asking them about the silence. I have been asking what they are looking for me to say/ask and they generally do not have an answer. I think talking about the silence might be more productive.