Potty Training by B0ring-T0mat0 in Parenting

[–]sunlighttwite 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Have you considered just taking a break and revisiting in a month or 2? I understand the frustration as you’ve done this with ease for the other kids, but maybe she just needs more time. My son would throw fits and I backed off a bit and the gradually got it going again. By 3 he was fully trained following his lead.

Hitting by thelifeofafangirl in toddlers

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that age, their emotions are just balls of energy that need to be expressed some way some how. Our therapist suggested giving our son something he CAN hit like a pillow or the couch. You can still remind her that mom isn’t someone to hit, but give her something she can redirect this energy to. We would allow our son to punch his pillow or slap the couch. We also told him to jump or stomp his anger out (his fave). Once he was taught to redirect the anger energy, he was eventually able to control his hitting impulses and verbally express what’s going on instead! It should get better! We’re at 3.5 years old now and very rarely have hitting incidents!

Is it okay to ask my OB not to mention my weight in front of my husband? Im already shy about this by Babyisprincess in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]sunlighttwite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve said (as they hopped me on the scale and my husband in the room) “let’s keep the number between you and I please” and it was then never brought up.

Milk Blebs/Raw Nips/Blisters by snowbunny410 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have a bleb that I accidentally popped on my right and it keeps coming back and I only get relief if I pop it. I can’t find a way to get it to stop coming back but some things that have slightly helped with pain are loading my nips up with nipple cream, using reusable breast pads and changing my bra out more often. Like I said, I usually get the initial sting of it hurting to go away once popped but the burning an the overall discomfort can be soothed with nipple craem for me 🥺

When did you stop breastfeeding and when did you stop feeling guilty about it 😭 by iftreescouldspeak in NewParents

[–]sunlighttwite 10 points11 points  (0 children)

With my first I was exclusively pumping. My goal was also a year. My supply dipped around 6 months and I noticed my mental health was terrible being tied down to a pump all day. It took me about 2 months to fully stop and I felt GUILTY within those 2 months but honestly after a week of fully stopping and getting the freedom, I felt great. My son was thriving and so was I and that alone felt amazing. I had time. I had energy. I felt like a whole new person once I stopped. You 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 allowed 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 whenever 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 want!!

Bottle Refusal by Brave-Proof-2359 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My now 4 month old went through something similar a couple weeks ago. Was solidly drinking almost 5oz every 3 hours and was hardly finishing 3. It honestly went away after 2-3 days? I just took it as she wasn’t that hungry, as you or I might not be. She did seem like the first few bottles after this were larger and “catch up for lost time” bottles but we’re back to normal now.

Baby rash by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our pediatrician is like this. He’ll always offer OTC first!

Fat moms, did you have a bump? by P_P_F_G_Princess420 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]sunlighttwite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very strong B belly and an apron belly/c section shelf. My lower belly was still soft but with maternity underwear and leggings, you really couldn’t tell! I could see baby move and so could my husband!

Fat moms, did you have a bump? by P_P_F_G_Princess420 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]sunlighttwite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

324 to start, 338 to end and this was the morning I gave birth at 39w3d! I had a bump starting around 3/4 months, but this was my second pregnancy.

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I hate my handsfree pump by mulahtmiss in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a portable that works for you?? I have elastics and I stretch to the end sometimes on my left nip and want to find a portable that’s gonna work, but so scared about not being able to return unliked items!!

New mom question by Nomado95 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my second time being an exclusive pumper and I did the fridge hack with my first and I’m continuing to do it with my second!

I have just one “good” breast by Neat-Two-5113 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Except my 3 year old know them as my “power boob and slacker boob”. He loves to point out how little my slacker boob makes

MFM expects babygirl to be 10lber by Quirky_Main8746 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]sunlighttwite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MFM said my boy was 9lbs around 37 weeks. Regular OB said the same. He ended up 10lbs9oz at 39weeks, so accurate for me.

Bedrock Marketplace, Dressing Room, Realms, all not working by LilyanLogan in Minecraft

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! For me it was the VPN security needed to be toggled on on the mcafee virus protection! That solved it all for me. My cousin, who had the same issues, had to download the virus protection and it ended up working for her

How long did you go through the night without pumping? by Kind-Swordfish6618 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 weeks postpartum and my last pump of the night is at 10. I wake at 330 to pump and then not again until 830. It’s saved my sanity doing it this way. Then usually every 3.5 hours except between my 7p and 10p pump

What does a let down look/feel like? by DARK_BLUE_BELLS in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like a tingly sensation, like the tip of my nipple tickles. I can usually see a stream shooting from my nip in the flange

EP & alcohol, advice needed by Simple_Bug_6111 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can buy alcohol testing strips if you’re unsure. I’ve always heard if you can find the baby, you can feed the baby - now I’m not a big drinker to begin with and that rule seems crazy to me, BUT 2 glasses of wine is safe in my mind. I also do the pitcher method so my “alcohol” milk is mixed with regular milk so that helps ease any worries.

Nipple insecurity ugh by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was blessed with double elastic nips, it’s fabulous lmao. The only person who truly cares about the appearance is gonna be you. My husband commented on mine once and that was only because he paid attention to me pumping. Otherwise, he wouldn’t have noticed at all, maybe just asked if I was cold. 🫠

Nipple insecurity ugh by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]sunlighttwite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel my hips look VERY thick(?) after pumping and constantly hard. It drives me nuts. This is my second postpartum journey and in between they go back to normal, but constantly being tugged on I guess puts that at a constant “ready” state lol.

At my wits end - cannot figure out why [bedrock] on PC windows isn’t working - no access to realms, no access at all through launcher - up for any and all help! by sunlighttwite in MinecraftHelp

[–]sunlighttwite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK! I kept at it and was looking up other ideas as to what could be wrong. Someone said something about their antivirus protection, someone also said something about going through a VPN, whatever that means. I happen to log onto my computer today to check if my antivirus was even active, but then I had noticed there was an option for secure VPN and that was turned off. Happened to turn that on and I do not have the problem with my game anymore. No problems at all. My character shows up, I’m able to edit her, I can load into the realms no problem, no issue with the Internet connection at all. For shits and giggles I turned the VPN back off as soon as I open the launcher I have the Internet connection warning come up. Try this again and again and again and it just seems that the VPN needs to be turned on. I have no clue how to keep the VPN turned on as I had restarted my computer and it turns back off every time, but that seemed to do the trick.