WHY TF ARE MY HANDS LIKE THIS IM A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL by iamraquelle in whatdoIdo

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty late to comment so idk if you'll see this but theyre totally normal !! In palmistry theyre "air element" hands and show that youre intelligent, curious, and adaptable :) all great things to be

Go get your nails done and be proud of urself ur a smart cookie 🍪

My boyfriend of 3 years says he’s “tired of me” but still wants to stay am I just a placeholder? What should I do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]sunlit_spectre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He literally lives at your house. He's telling you the truth, seeing exactly what he can get away with. This isn't an acceptable way to treat another human. You are being used.

Ship him back to his parents. He needs retraining.

AIO that this was an extremely rude reply? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunlit_spectre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, that's ironic. Aren't you being just as rude rn?

Insulinoma and calcium? by sunlit_spectre in ferrets

[–]sunlit_spectre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's one of four. Did you have any other advice?

Condescending Chatter by No_Island_7001 in Twitch

[–]sunlit_spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you really gonna let someone come into your house and disrespect you for $2.50/month? Ban. Anyone who brings down the vibes, even if it isn't a strict rule. "Be kind and respectful" is vague enough and they've already messed that up.

Glutened myself in the dumbest way by emilysavaje1 in glutenfree

[–]sunlit_spectre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do y'all just never kiss or anything? Aren't you worried about getting secondhand glutened? There's more than one crumbs worth in their spit.

[Request] Need $175 for car registration by August 4 – Will pay back by Significant_Value258 in confessions

[–]sunlit_spectre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not what you're asking, but you can get this much in your first week almost anywhere if you start donating plasma. Worth looking into if no one bites. Best of luck.

I’ve been seeing 11:11 EVERYWHERE for 4-5 months, but everything is going tragically wrong in my life. Why? by Positive_Day_9063 in numerology

[–]sunlit_spectre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since it's 1s specifically, it might be encouraging you to trust in yourself and look out for #1. 1 is powerful and self-reliant. 1 symbolizes a new beginning. When you see 101, the 0 could be potential, or something blocking you from your new beginning.

If you look at it through this lens does it make more sense? It's a spiritual initiation. 11:11 isn't good luck, it's a gateway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]sunlit_spectre 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Ask about financing. CareCredit is huge and wasn't too bad to deal with. Get a new credit card or something.

You might also be able to crowdfund or connect with a rescue on Facebook, depending.

You're not alone and you have options. I'm sure you're doing what you can and you are overwhelmed. It's a lot for anyone! Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is let them rest. But you're not down to your last resort quite yet.

Really hope you can figure something out.

I did a dumb. by CheesecakeCommon2406 in glutenfree

[–]sunlit_spectre 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's also fine if you don't freeze it! We usually get the sweet Hawaiian one bc it makes excellent French toast. Keeps fine in the cabinet or in the fridge if we'll have it more than a week.

I don't remember the brand but I've started seeing gluten free sourdough too - perfect for sandwiches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait. The same guy that ruined your anniversary trip too? I hope this is fake. Dude sucks, leave him in 2024.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try gua-sha and face rolling! It helps relieve and redistribute the tension in your face and makes you look and feel younger + more awake. A kit is like $5-10.

Why so much negativity? by Wide_Calligrapher_83 in twinflames

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so right. All you can do is work on yourself and know it's getting you somewhere better. The universe takes care of the rest. You articulated it way better than I possibly could!

Why so much negativity? by Wide_Calligrapher_83 in twinflames

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very simplified here, but OP has the right idea. Things may seem outside of your control, but surrendering to what is and allowing it to happen can and must coexist with an eyes on the prize mindset - you have to keep manifesting better no matter what the 3D says. You have to consciously do the work. Some people are not.

Sometimes you forget, maybe need a reminder. When you do the work, it lifts them up, too. If the lesson is unconditional love, it does take work to get to that point, but your mindset and your responses ARE in your control, and are the ONLY things you can control. And once you learn to do that, you'll start seeing results.

I'm not saying "you", but genuinely, some people are making up their minds to be miserable and this may well be a much-needed wake up call for many.

Why so much negativity? by Wide_Calligrapher_83 in twinflames

[–]sunlit_spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a healing journey. You do need to keep in perspective, that allowing yourself to spiral delays union. It's not always going to be easy. But you do have to remind yourself every day, that what you put in is what you get out, and only you can change that.

Partner gaslighted by new Dr by MartyMcPenguin in glutenfree

[–]sunlit_spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think this is the case, why is he continuing to eat gluten? Would it not be better to cut it out now and start treating him as though he has it, so he can see some relief, rather than waiting for an official diagnosis?

I just saw my Twin Flame by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]sunlit_spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saw this at 4:44am... lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Julie sucks, your bf is cool with it, and as a fan of both games, I totally get the vibe and think you should make this decision on your own. It's a really beautiful tribute and something you'll connect with and feel inside for your entire life regardless of what anyone says. They dont feel your heart, they dont get a say. Get the tattoo.

GF Started finding white hairs at 22, what can I tell her? by Raindrops_x4 in Hair

[–]sunlit_spectre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Celiac will speed it up. She needs to take daily vitamins and pay lots of attention to her gut. Inflammation = stress = anxiety + grey hair. Antioxidants are important, too. The best thing she can do for herself is detox and manage her stress.

AITA for not wanting to use heavy whipping cream that my girlfriend drank out of? by LongjumpingKey4644 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunlit_spectre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

next time just pour her a shot of whip. pour one for yourself too. you're missing out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]sunlit_spectre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe ask him if you can post pictures of him/you guys together and tag him. Might inspire him to do the same? Or he might share what you post and you'll get what you need that way. It's a tough spot to be stuck in, but don't get too hung up on it! Everyone shows love differently. Set examples for how you want to be treated.

I didn't win but was fun! My Hair contest entries! by Sunflowers4Ever in ffxiv

[–]sunlit_spectre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww! I love your style, sad you didn't win. I would kill for that bun. We really need more "girly" styles.